I certainly want to get married when I find the right guy. It has been a dream and I want a typical Hindu wedding with a red lehenga and all the Indian wedding ceremonies.
I'm not married and I want to get married someday. I got too caught up with building my career I forgot I have to focus on relationships. One of my reasons will be creating a family and having children.
We will only marry when the government stops giving negatives in the marriage contract. Marriage is dead in the west and any man that marries should make a prenup or forget it completely. Feminism destroyed marriage.
@Vegasrunner I didn't say that. I should refer you to my answers on the Soulmate questions. I believe that each person has multiple POTENTIAL soulmates; but most of them they will never meet due to distance, culture, language, and other factors including pure chance.
@Jamie05rhs Men and women are different, and I believe that fact is difficult for both genders to accept. A woman can have success finding relationships, sitting back and waiting on their "soulmate" because they are the demand. Men typically pursue women, meaning that a woman can sit back, weigh all her options and then decide on the best one. A man has to be pro-active, meaning he needs to go out and acquire enough options to even give him a slim opportunity of meeting "his soulmate. Let's use basic math. Let's say both you specifically, and any woman in the world, decided that they wanted to meet their soulmate over the next year, w/ the only catch, being that neither of you were allowed to approach the opposite sex, Do you believe you would have equal, more, or less opportunities to meet your "soulmate" than that woman?
@Jamie05rhs Yep, that is step one. The next step is you need to learn how to get multiple girls attracted to you. Once you do this then if you choose to settle down that's different, from what I've seen to many guys especially young guys are so desperate that they put everything into the first girl that gives them attention.
@Vegasrunner I don't need to learn that. It happens automatically. It's the bane of my existence. I always have multiple girls talking to me at the same time. It's annoying. I don't do it on purpose; it just happens by chance. And then I never know which one to pick, because I don't know which one is going to ghost me once I start focusing on her and actually "pursuing" her.
@Jamie05rhs Unfortunately I not sure if I believe that. If that were true you wouldn't be as concerned about "picking one" or you wouldn't be concerned w/ being "ghosted". Guys who truly are successful w/ woman don't concerned themselves w things like that because 1. They realize they can have all of them they don't need to pick one 2. Girls don't ghost them because they have too much respect for them. I've never been ghosted by a woman in life. A woman I used to bang explained why too me one day. She mentioned that she tried to ghost me however she believed if she did that she wouldn't hear from me again because she knew I had other options. Part of ghosting is a way to degrade the individual into pursuing, and she knew that she wouldn't get that satisfaction from me. If women are ghosting you it tells me that for some reason they don't respect you.
@Jamie05rhs I realize you can't, my point is that men that understand women can. Rn what you need is experience. You already mentioned that one of your biggest fears was getting ghosted. TBH, you're never going to meet anyone much less a soul mate until you get out there and really learn how the dating world operates. It's tougher for you religious guys, I realize that but just take it step by step.
@Vegasrunner I don't think you understand. I am a religious man. I do not WANT to be the way you are. With all due respect and no offense intended. I only want ONE woman.
@Jamie05rhs Judging by the conversation, it appears as you're one struggling to understand. I don't think you could "be like me" when it comes to women as about 10% of men get about 80% of women. I'm simply asking if your female philosophy is what has kept you single? Also you brought up your fear of being ghosted, which contradicts your statement about "always having multiple girls talking to me" Which is a metric for success w/ women most successful men don't use. How long have you been searching for this "soulmate"?
@Vegasrunner Ok, you definitely do not understand. I very clearly and emphatically tell you that I do not wish to live the way you live. And then you say that I CANNOT live the way you live. That is a complete lack of comprehension on your part.
@Jamie05rhs I think the evidence would show that you not only initiated that point and are the only one entertaining it. Please provide any sentence that implies I am trying to make you like me?
@Vegasrunner These are your words: "Guys who truly are successful w/ woman don't concerned themselves w things like that because 1. They realize they can have all of them they don't need to pick one."
@Jamie05rhs Correct. So as you can see nothing in there even mentions you much less implies making you into me. TY. For validating my point, and admitting your error.
@Jamie05rhs It wasn't that difficult. There is nothing in there that supports your claim. Can you explain why you believe what I sent means I want you to be like me?
@Vegasrunner Because in your point #2 of the same post, you described yourself. And then in your following comment, you talked about wanting me to get experience and learn things (things that aligned with your approach and your worldview.)
@Vegasrunner "I've never been ghosted by a woman in life. A woman I used to bang explained why too me one day. She mentioned that she tried to ghost me however she believed if she did that she wouldn't hear from me again because she knew I had other options."
@Jamie05rhs That is an anecdote of a woman describing me. Where dies it say in there anywhere about you being like me? Sounds like you're searching for a way to justify a belief instead of just admitting you were wrong and moving on. That is what I mean by female metric. Clearly no where in our conversation have I mentioned anything about wanting you to be like me, you can't find anything that proves otherwise so now your jumping to illogical conclusions based on your own fears.
@Jamie05rhs It's been extremely productive for me it's unfortunate you haven't learned anything. However this could be the reason you've failed in your original objective.
@Sparkie460 they r brothers I had my boys with one of them n when he was going to propose me the younger brother also wanted me n i loved them both so they both proposed me n we decided to stay together
That's beautiful and I am sure your dream will come. You've got plenty of time at your age. I'd love to find love, I was a Commando and never met anyone and I'm a little shy.
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I am married, it is fun and I love being with my husband all the time.
I certainly want to get married when I find the right guy. It has been a dream and I want a typical Hindu wedding with a red lehenga and all the Indian wedding ceremonies.
Find the right guy? Can you define him. Your dreams Sounds a great wedding.
Handsome and loving.
I'd like to but I've given up on that dream cause i know it won't happen.
Don't give up on it, I'm sure you will one day. Xx
Nah I'd rather not hold onto false hope and preferably focus on other things.
Thank you tho
i consider getting married is one of the best things can happen in my life
@diego_md Why?
i can't live without a wife
@diego_md My apologies, I didn't ask the question correctly. Why is it outside of children that you believe a wife will provide you with?
I'm not married and I want to get married someday. I got too caught up with building my career I forgot I have to focus on relationships. One of my reasons will be creating a family and having children.
I wanna get married someday for the same reasons you do.
Itās a full package of my incomplete life to make it complete.
I guess it'd be nice but, I guess that, after the 10 years of my life that I wasted with Madame Ex, let's just say, I have trust issues!
Getting married in the 21st century is the biggest mistake a man can make in his life.
We will only marry when the government stops giving negatives in the marriage contract. Marriage is dead in the west and any man that marries should make a prenup or forget it completely. Feminism destroyed marriage.
Yes, I do want to get married! And it's because I want to share a lifetime romantic relationship with my soulmate. 🙂
@Jamie05rhs Lol, stop it. In a world of billions of people you really believe it's only one person for you?
@Vegasrunner I didn't say that. I should refer you to my answers on the Soulmate questions.
I believe that each person has multiple POTENTIAL soulmates; but most of them they will never meet due to distance, culture, language, and other factors including pure chance.
(And obviously once you've picked one, they are the One. There are no do-overs. There is no such thing as a second soulmate.)
@Jamie05rhs Let me guess you're single? Have you ever thought that dating like a female is what has held you back?
@Veganrunner What do you mean? Can you elaborate?
Lol I mean Vegas, not Vegan. @Vegasrunner
@Jamie05rhs Men and women are different, and I believe that fact is difficult for both genders to accept. A woman can have success finding relationships, sitting back and waiting on their "soulmate" because they are the demand. Men typically pursue women, meaning that a woman can sit back, weigh all her options and then decide on the best one. A man has to be pro-active, meaning he needs to go out and acquire enough options to even give him a slim opportunity of meeting "his soulmate. Let's use basic math. Let's say both you specifically, and any woman in the world, decided that they wanted to meet their soulmate over the next year, w/ the only catch, being that neither of you were allowed to approach the opposite sex, Do you believe you would have equal, more, or less opportunities to meet your "soulmate" than that woman?
@Vegasrunner Oh yeah; good point. I will give you that one.
I have been talking to girls, though. I'm at least making an effort.
@Jamie05rhs Yep, that is step one. The next step is you need to learn how to get multiple girls attracted to you. Once you do this then if you choose to settle down that's different, from what I've seen to many guys especially young guys are so desperate that they put everything into the first girl that gives them attention.
@Vegasrunner I don't need to learn that. It happens automatically. It's the bane of my existence. I always have multiple girls talking to me at the same time. It's annoying. I don't do it on purpose; it just happens by chance. And then I never know which one to pick, because I don't know which one is going to ghost me once I start focusing on her and actually "pursuing" her.
@Jamie05rhs Unfortunately I not sure if I believe that. If that were true you wouldn't be as concerned about "picking one" or you wouldn't be concerned w/ being "ghosted". Guys who truly are successful w/ woman don't concerned themselves w things like that because
1. They realize they can have all of them they don't need to pick one
2. Girls don't ghost them because they have too much respect for them.
I've never been ghosted by a woman in life. A woman I used to bang explained why too me one day. She mentioned that she tried to ghost me however she believed if she did that she wouldn't hear from me again because she knew I had other options. Part of ghosting is a way to degrade the individual into pursuing, and she knew that she wouldn't get that satisfaction from me. If women are ghosting you it tells me that for some reason they don't respect you.
@Vegasrunner No, I cannot "have all of them.". Neither do I want to. I am a Christian.
@Jamie05rhs I realize you can't, my point is that men that understand women can. Rn what you need is experience. You already mentioned that one of your biggest fears was getting ghosted. TBH, you're never going to meet anyone much less a soul mate until you get out there and really learn how the dating world operates. It's tougher for you religious guys, I realize that but just take it step by step.
@Vegasrunner I don't think you understand. I am a religious man. I do not WANT to be the way you are. With all due respect and no offense intended. I only want ONE woman.
@Jamie05rhs Judging by the conversation, it appears as you're one struggling to understand. I don't think you could "be like me" when it comes to women as about 10% of men get about 80% of women. I'm simply asking if your female philosophy is what has kept you single? Also you brought up your fear of being ghosted, which contradicts your statement about "always having multiple girls talking to me" Which is a metric for success w/ women most successful men don't use. How long have you been searching for this "soulmate"?
@Vegasrunner Ok, you definitely do not understand. I very clearly and emphatically tell you that I do not wish to live the way you live. And then you say that I CANNOT live the way you live. That is a complete lack of comprehension on your part.
But I digress...
I have been searching for my soulmate since age 9.
@Jamie05rhs I think the evidence would show that you not only initiated that point and are the only one entertaining it. Please provide any sentence that implies I am trying to make you like me?
@Vegasrunner These are your words:
"Guys who truly are successful w/ woman don't concerned themselves w things like that because
1. They realize they can have all of them they don't need to pick one."
@Jamie05rhs Correct. So as you can see nothing in there even mentions you much less implies making you into me. TY. For validating my point, and admitting your error.
Haha! Nice twist there, buddy!
@Jamie05rhs It wasn't that difficult. There is nothing in there that supports your claim. Can you explain why you believe what I sent means I want you to be like me?
@Vegasrunner Because in your point #2 of the same post, you described yourself. And then in your following comment, you talked about wanting me to get experience and learn things (things that aligned with your approach and your worldview.)
@Jamie05rhs Now we're getting to the root of you're confusion. Please highlight we're I "described me"?
@Vegasrunner
"I've never been ghosted by a woman in life. A woman I used to bang explained why too me one day. She mentioned that she tried to ghost me however she believed if she did that she wouldn't hear from me again because she knew I had other options."
@Jamie05rhs That is an anecdote of a woman describing me. Where dies it say in there anywhere about you being like me? Sounds like you're searching for a way to justify a belief instead of just admitting you were wrong and moving on. That is what I mean by female metric. Clearly no where in our conversation have I mentioned anything about wanting you to be like me, you can't find anything that proves otherwise so now your jumping to illogical conclusions based on your own fears.
@Vegasrunner I don't think this conversation is productive at this point. I wish you a good day, sir.
@Jamie05rhs It's been extremely productive for me it's unfortunate you haven't learned anything. However this could be the reason you've failed in your original objective.
@Vegasrunner I was trying to end things in a polite way. I hope that you can reciprocate.
@Jamie05rhs End it how you want. Best way for you to do that is to just accept your failure and stop replying.
I would like to get married but to whom can be my best friend firstly, than my boyfriend or husband.
I do not want to be married unless they will allow me to marry a green peice of paper that's a federal reserve note.
I m married to 2 n i m living more than a happy life
You married 2 guys? I didn't know that was legal
@Sparkie460 no it isn't but hey if u can get away lol
Do they know about each other
@Sparkie460 they r brothers
I had my boys with one of them n when he was going to propose me the younger brother also wanted me n i loved them both so they both proposed me n we decided to stay together
So you married 2 brothers
@Sparkie460 yup thts right
Well alrighty then. Sounds like a win win for all of you
@Sparkie460 oh yes absolutely
Now the 2nd one is after me tht he also wants twins with me as the first one
Sounds like he is jealous of his brother for getting you pregnant
@Sparkie460 he said tht even before we got married lol so yea he is jealous about this bit
How long have you been married to each of them
@Sparkie460 we married at same time honey n its will be 2 years in next feb
Well congratulations. Hopefully you'll have many more years together
@Sparkie460 aww thanks honey šš
You're welcome.
@Sparkie460 šš
Only if the laws change or there is a prenuptial agreement first.
It depends on if it won't be a waste of time or disappoint in the end, which it most likely will, so don't really know
That's beautiful and I am sure your dream will come. You've got plenty of time at your age. I'd love to find love, I was a Commando and never met anyone and I'm a little shy.
Iām very happily married to the love of my life.
Half of me is willing to get married
The other half is feeding wedding bands into a furnace
Back in a day iwanted to get married now days my opinion on marriage has changed I do not want to get married
Bo not married no this generation doesn't follow Godnor take marriage serious
I don't want to deal with this generation of rebellious folks
I want to get married someday. I am just waiting for the right person