Do you want to get married one day?

[Lauren-green]

Awhile ago I posted a question about whether you wanted to have children or not.

It made me wonder about marriage, I hear more and more people saying they don't want to get married. Hmm

I am already married

I definitely want to get married one day

I will only get married if we get a prenup

I don't believe in marriage/don't want to get married

Other (please comment)

[Handysandy69]

My life goal is too get married by 30 and start a family of my own I can't imagine anything better or more fulfilling

[Lauren-green]

Same here. I want to buy my own house soon so I can start preparing for my life like that lol

[Handysandy69]

OMG same im 19 now but wanna spend the next 10 years building my wealth so I can buy a house and never have to worry about giving my wife and kids anything they desire no matter the cost

[Lauren-green]

Yeah that's my plan as well, I mean currently I'm working in a call centre job (which I obviously don't want to be doing long term) but I'm climbing up the ladder there and have had like 3 payrises within 6 months so I'm on real good money now which is what I'm using to save for a house. Then once I get that sorted, I can start my job of what I actually want to do with my life. But that's so nice that that is your goal, your family will be very lucky to have you one day 💓

[Handysandy69]

Yeah me and you have to right idea to life and thank you I hope I make as good a husband and father as I think I will and you may be working in a call centre now but its those first steps that count sister, keep up the hustle🤜🤛

[Kaneki05]

Already planning the wedding for both of you together lmao.

[Handysandy69]

@Kaneki05 yeah lad maybe you should consider it

[Guanfei]

That's my second biggest dream, after having a child.

[ClearSea]

Why?

[Guanfei]

Because I'm a stupid romantic guy who dream of his love story.

[Kaneki05]

I want a black wedding. But i am not 100% on the side we need to get married.
If were not it will just be an unoffical one.

I've just always like the idea of a black wedding. It's up to her if she wants it to be offical or not. Mostly it's up to her.

Unlike the having kids question i am more flexable on this.

[Reaperbot666]

Marriage does not equal happiness. Know more non-married couples. Who lasted longer then married ones.

Also with modern marriage being so tipped in the woman’s favor. Not much point for a guy to go along with it these days.

[Titanic1912]

My girlfriend and I we supposed to get engaged on her 21st birthday and get married next year after we’ve made all the preparations. But since we haven’t seen each other since early March, it’s been delayed.

[AynonOMouse]

No to legal marriage, but yes to an exclusive LTR with having kids/raising a family.

[Lauren-green]

Do you mind if I ask why you don't want a legal marriage? I do know a few couples who like you are in an LTR and even refer to each other as husband and wife but have never legally married

[AynonOMouse]

Laws in the USA need to be changed so the man doesn't get screwed over in divorce.

Right now in the USA, divorce usually means she gets the house that he worked for (even if she never contributed a single house payment to it), if they have two cars, she gets the nicer one, she gets the pets, and he has to pay her alimony (40% of his income for half as many years as they were married) So if they were married 8 years, he has to pay her 40% of his income for 4 years after divorce.
Women in the USA HATE equality under the law so they never do anything to change that stuff. that is why marriage in the USA is equal to women and the courts abusing men. There is literally NO benefit to men for legal marriage.

[Lauren-green]

You wouldn't get married, even if you got a prenup?

[AynonOMouse]

Most likely not. Asking for a prenup seems too offensive to bring up so I would just not ask to marry in the first place. I won't take the risk of losing what I have worked for, so the only way I think would be if she asked for marriage, and she offered to sign a prenup too. I wouldn't bring up the subject myself, and I wouldn't ask for marriage myself either.
And the women here that really want legal marriage, I am sure they don't want to sign something saying they can't steal from the man if things don't work out.

[coffeewithcream]

Prenups can be overturned by a judge.
Prenups are no protection.

[ADFSDF1996]

After college I hope to meet the perfect woman who I will eventually marry and I also want to be a father.

[jolospongebob]

I believe that the woman also can ask the man too marry him, so i dont really want to marry but if the girl would ask it and go on the knee i would say yes

[Emilia_45]

I do! I want to spend my life with someone who i love and loves me back.

[AFellowWeeb]

[beebella]

Not really. I don't need to be married to have a life partner.

[TallAnon]

100% I really want someone in my life that I can share experiences with and I think that leads into marriage at some point. To me it's basically a promise to be exclusive for the rest of your lives.

[Pappy1955]

When you marries the perfect person. in simpler terms you best friend in other words your soulmate. The Ying to Your Yang. Why marry again, I could never interwove on perfection

[ClearSea]

I definitely don't want to. I hope no one pressures me.

[Kaneki05]

Anyone who pressures you don't deserve to be with you.

[ClearSea]

@Kaneki05 That's fair. :)

[Shamalien]

i want a life partner and id like to call it marriage, but the government needs to fuck off outta my relationship

[ecfresh]

Absolutely. It’s important to me

[ecfresh]

Hbu?

[Lauren-green]

Yes, I definitely want to get married one day.

[ecfresh]

Great! Seems like less and less people want to get married

[MelissaMarie9614]

Yes absolutely!!! I most definitely want to get married one day!!!❤

[MackToday]

If we manage to create a white racial state with traditional values, something like 40's or 50's America was then I might. Not in a world as fucked as we live in where horrors like in that bottom picture exist.

[angeliquedevereux2]

Ah, horrors like love. What a horrible plague on society

[MackToday]

@angeliquedevereux2 Horrors like life ruining birth defects. Horrors like cultural Marxist equality of outcome thinking too.

[angeliquedevereux2]

Horrors like people being happy and enjoying their lives. Horrors like having a life with a soulmate

[MackToday]

@angeliquedevereux2 Horrors like people having to cope with a horrible defect and never knowing what an actual relationship is like because they have to make do as cripples.

[angeliquedevereux2]

How does two people being in love affect you in the slightest bit?

[MackToday]

@angeliquedevereux2 It doesn't if the people are healthy. If not then defect and disease exist in the society that I and my loved ones depend on to survive. Suppose it were my own children born with this horrible defect, unable to reproduce, never knowing a normal healthy relationship with the opposite sex, crippled for life , doomed to engage in abnormal acts that cause disease and injury. I'd say it affects me a lot. We should be doing the work to treat and prevent this not celebrate it like it was a good thing. It's horrible and a terrible fate.

[angeliquedevereux2]

Ok, misoginist let me just say I feel bad for your closeted kids who have to deal with never being able to be happy and in love without you breathing down their necks 😑

[MackToday]

@angeliquedevereux2 If my kids were homosexuals my real concern would be keeping them away from the communists. I'd try to find them a place to go where they could meet others like them that weren't out right Marxists so they didn't get themselves killed. That way they could at least have a half assed pseudo romance if not a real one. After all it's not as though any research would have been done that could offer them anything else out of life.

[LEADFOOTboi]

i am totally pro marriage, yo... i see myself married in the future

[serious]

This is a repetitive question on GAG. The answer is NO. I never want to get married.

[DanOh2018]

Maybe if you are nice and take me out for dinner first LoL

[hpereira]

It’ll be good to be married, but I don’t stress it. I would want it to happen when me and my future partner are ready for it.

[captain_voidwalker]

I'd rather take a sledge hammer to me testicles than get married. The result is the same but the sledge hammer dosen't hurt as much