How would you react if you waited for marriage to have sex and found out the person had a major deformity you didn't know about?

[Anonymous]

Examples. Major scaring or something that could be even more severe visually like funnel chest/pectus excavatum.

https://lifewithpectus.com/resources/celebrities-with-pectus-excavatum/

[ManOnFire]

Never even heard of 'pectus excavatum' and it has a seriously funny name, I'm actually laughing right now as I type it. But I looked at the link and those people look mostly normal to me. I think I probably would not even really notice it, nor would it deter me from sleeping with a woman who had it.

But you do pose a question about finding out the other person's body after waiting till marriage. I have thought about that before too. I think people in a relationship should be honest about it early on and say what they've got.

[MicahRaine]

I don't really care. . . I'm not marrying her for her body.

[Nikki1989]

Another reason why you should never wait.

[jahaims]

They can tell you about their problems before marriage obviously

[Asker]

That wasn't the question.

[Anonymous]

I would never wait until marriage

[DrPepper12]

Deals off. Bye bye!!