Is it wrong that my budget for my wife is smaller because our marriage is sexless?

[Anonymous]

Our marriage is sexless. We haven't had sex or any for of intimacy in over 20 months. At this point I honestly don't want to have sex with her but won't leave because of the financial ramifications. We sleep in different rooms and Co parent well. Her birthday is tomorrow she wants me to take her to a Fancy dinner. If our relationship was normal I'd be willing to spend whatever she wanted. Instead of dinner we'd be going on vacation. But now I feel like anything more than 200 is a waste of money. I feels like talk a friend out not my wife.

[Avicenna]

Staying with her under these circumstances is dysfunctional. See a divorce lawyer.

[Asker]

I'm not giving up half. Nor a 3rd to lawyer's

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe if you didn't turn her off with this type of behavior she would actually sleep with you, the lack of intimacy is cause your game is weak dude, instead of treating her worse, awaken the spark again, take her to where she wants and then plan one more thing for her as a surprise to show actual care, something you know she will like, this isn't just some girl you picked up of the corner, she's your wife, women have an emotional part of their minds that's different to ours, their emotions play a much higher part in them then what emotions play for us, then if there's no hope for resparking the connection, find other solutions.

[jahaims]

Why even be married