Is my ex unhappy in his life and marriage?

[Anonymous]

My ex is extremely jealous of my life despite he's married. He's fixated on my life and I don't know why as we co-parent together and I've moved on from him a decade ago ( I'm currently involved with my fiancee ).

Why is my married ex worried about me?

[Nikki1989]

The reason your married ex is fixated on your life is likely a combination of jealousy, insecurity, and a lack of closure. His behavior isn't about you but about his own unresolved feelings and a need for control.

[Asker]

I agree it's crazy AF

[Asker]

I wish he would get therapy and heal

[Nikki1989]

That would help.

[Asker]

I agree 💯 I feel sorry for his wife unfortunately 😕

[WellBye]

Keyword: ex. Stop thinking about him and move on.

[Asker]

Key word we co parent and he's causing issues even doing that

[Asker]

I am aware he's my EX

[Asker]

I wish I could not deal with the guy

[Clear_Skies10]

You would know him better than anyone. Maybe he's just a jealous, nosey type of guy?

[Asker]

But why? He has a WIFE

[Asker]

WTF...

[Clear_Skies10]

Maybe because you co-parent with him there's other issues? I don't know the personal details of your situation, but sometimes the kids will tell the other parent what you do and it can lead to more drama.

[Asker]

We are just co-parenting he has a wife and I have a fiancee.. something is wrong with my ex mentally and psychologically... Why is he trying to control me?

[Clear_Skies10]

It's difficult for me to analyze him and understand everything about your situation being that I don't know either of you. I might just be getting half of the story. Sometimes people leave out the things that they did that possibly caused their exes to act crazy.

[Asker]

There's nothing going on with me and my ex other than we divorced and we parted ways. I've been single by choice 15 years until I met my mate who I'm with now

[Asker]

There's no hidden thing going on I'm actually CELIBATE... My mate is younger than me 34 and I'm 37

[Asker]

I prefer younger men..

[Clear_Skies10]

How does he control you?

[Asker]

He uses our daughter and interferes in my life

[Asker]

Uses my family to spy and goes on smear campaigns

[Asker]

He creates conflict during custody exchanges

[Clear_Skies10]

I married a crazy person too. She was annoying, but our son is an adult now. My ex is blocked and with a little luck I'll never see her again unless our son gets married or something. You're just kind of in the middle of it all now. I hope the best for you.

[Asker]

Thanks I have 5 more years of this bs

[Asker]

I told my fiancee to marry me quick maybe he'll back off

[Clear_Skies10]

If he does act aggressively towards you it's probably smart to record it on your phone. That way if he makes any threats or anything you have proof.

[Asker]

I agree

[Asker]

It hasn't gotten there , but I feel he may escalate

[Anonymous]

What exactly does he do or say that makes you think this?

[Asker]

Because he's harassing, stalking , spying, and creating drama/ conflict to say he's married during custody exchanges

[Asker]

It's clear he's not happy married or whatever

[Asker]

Someone whose happy wouldn't be interfering in someone else's life nor worried about what they're doing

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he just hates you that much that he wants to make you miserable.

[Asker]

Yeah but now he's in legal trouble

[Anonymous]

has he specifically said these things to you? what is he doing?

[Asker]

I'm not going to recap through this again - it's clear this guy is miserable and bitter

[Asker]

The sad part is he's married