What is your secondary mission, aside from your main goal in life which is to stay alive as long as possible?

[jennifer_bloom]

I feel like if I marry my boyfriend it might be a good idea to have some kids, either by a live birth, by adoption or by surrogacy, because I feel I should do at least one good thing with my life. I failed to get a degree in mental health which could have allowed me to help hundreds of struggling people each month. I failed to get the money I needed to live as a philanthropist. I could not do charity work with disabled people because guys would hit on me.

But if I have kids, I have at least, done one good thing with my life on earth. I do not count minor acts of good will because it is fleeting and small.

[Shehnaz]

Jennifer, If you do it right, that child will grow up and quietly make dozens, maybe hundreds of lives better over their lifetime. Your kindness, your fight, your lessons get multiplied through them. One well-raised human is the best force multiplier there is.
And let’s be real, the first time that little person looks at me and says “I love you” or falls asleep on your chest… no degree, no donation receipt, no applause from strangers will ever come close to that feeling. It’s the ultimate plot twist life blocked your original plans, so you are just going to create a whole new person who finishes the job for you.
So if your boyfriend is solid, marry him. Have that baby however you can. You’re not settling and you’re definitely not failing. You’re upgrading to the most powerful way a woman can change the world you get to author the next generation’s starting code.
That’s my secondary mission too. One incredible human who proves I was here… and that I did at least one thing right.

[Unycorn]

I dont need to live long - I dont want to live super long and see all beloved die.

Some parents see their children die...

I want to create anything that stays when I am gone.

I want to have a fulfilled life. Full of good and happy moments and things.

[Xawyx-2]

To be happy... that's my priority, if I can't be happy, I don't need long life.

[RandomGirl42]

My only goal is to love. 😊