Just found out my husband paid for credits to view other woman doing god only knows what?

[Mrsmisty]

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

Obviously not the best decision in his behalf, but he could violate your marriage in worse ways. However, on behalf of men, we atr aleays going to have fantasies and need erotic stimulation. It doesn't mean you dont satisfy him, nor does him paying others lessen how he much he values you. I dont jerk to the woman i love, there's a difference between women i want to sleep with and the woman i want to go to sleep and wake up together with. But shame on him for getting caught. He deserves some coldness and has making up to do

[Anonymous]

Finding out your husband is paying for adult credits can feel like a profound betrayal of trust.

Define what is acceptable in your marriage. Boundaries aren't about controlling him, but about protecting your own emotional safety.

If he is unable to stop despite the risk to his marriage, it may be a sex or porn addiction. He needs you.

Good luck.

[Nikki1989]

That is a man for you. I found that out as a young teen.

[ManOnFire]

Next question is: what are you gonna do about it from here? Are you going to confront him? Kick him out? Beat him up? I hope you're not gonna let him get away with it.

[jahaims]

That's not a question. I can see why he is tired of you.

[Abbycado]

Yes. @HollyK21

[HollyK21]

LOL like okaaay, now what?

[Shy-boy53]

Credits? On where? Oh I am sorry to hear that

[In_Trance]

Great