If you lived together before marriage, what actually changed after?

[beenherebefore]

[ohsheeT]

This is a good question because your right everything is going great you decide to get married and everything still goes great but then all the sudden one gets comfortable or both get comfortable and they don't want to do anything anymore they just want to sit at home watch TV cuddle and all that's good I guess I don't watch TV but when you just settle down and not do anything it just kind of takes the fun out of everything you have to still have date nights you still have to go out and be crazy or not even crazy just go do something I like to always be motivated

Marriage takes two people and it's a job I mean you have to do things that you both like doing you have to look always be looking ahead

You have to always include each other or at least also have a girls night out or guys night out you have to keep living you can't just say okay I got you and now let's settle down I mean that does work but to a point

[NathanDavis]

I have not been married before

but I've lived with girlfriends... and things are just so much better, being that close, lol

[TrueConfection]

We waited until we were married and I’m so glad we did because so many friends who lived together first have said their relationship changed due to a change in expectations after the wedding.

We’ve always been married, so we’ve only changed together over the years.

[Nikki1989]

Our relationship grew stronger and stronger. Marriage was just the icing on the cake.

[queenofcardio]

I've never officially lived with a partner yet. Doesn't seem like much would change.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never been married, but when my girlfriend lived at my house, for 2 1/2 years she had her own room and bathroom. I would come and visit her down the hallway. When I lived at my mom‘s house

[Iron_Man]

I am single now

[strateguy632]

The commitment is more.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't like cohabitation, i prefer marriage!

[Anonymous]

For some people, kids

[Anonymous]

Nothing at all

[beenherebefore]

Lovely!

[Sammy098]

Nothing except relationship status

[Hunter-40m]

Nothing I guess

[dudeinohio]

Nothing, really.

[Caurav1997]

Nothing

[Godihateyou]

Good sex

[Jennz6]

Probably you shouldn’t cheat anymore

[beenherebefore]

If you cheat before marriage nothing will stop you from cheating after marriage. You shouldn't even get married if you're that type of person in the first place.

[Jennz6]

@beenherebefore
I was talking about you, I’m not married and I probably never will

[beenherebefore]

I never cheated so I don't know what you're talking about or trying to insinuate.

[Jennz6]

@beenherebefore
Why are you asking this kind of question?

[beenherebefore]

Because I'd like to know people's opinions. Are you okay with that?

[Jennz6]

@beenherebefore
Okay bye

[msc545]

Less sex.

[beenherebefore]

Ouch.