Are sugar babies evil for sleeping with married men for money?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[choco-latte]

Yes, they are. Anyone who cheats or helps someone else to cheat on their partner is evil because they are inflicting trauma on the person if they should find out.

[Anonymous]

They’re not evil. A lot of them are desperate for money. And from what I understand, though I’ve never been one, a lot of them don’t actually sleep with the guys.

[Asker]

Yeah desperate but they still know they are married but they are flirting or maybe sexting.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. And yeah the married thing does bother me.

[Asker]

But maybe they need cash they don't care about Sugar daddies lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. But I hope they care about them at least a little.

[Asker]

Right. Because its transaction. You get paid and you give time for sugar daddy

[Opinion Owner]

I still hope they care about them even if they are getting paid. And I think some do.

[choco-latte]

I haven’t been in a situation like that but tbh I wouldn’t hurt someone else just because I was desperate. Same could be said about people who sell drugs to get by for example, they’re still selling poison.

[Opinion Owner]

@choco-latte you raise a good point. But if the guy is single, are you really hurting anybody?

[choco-latte]

If he’s single, then no… that’s his own choice.

[genericname85]

no. they aren't married. they have no contract to be sexually exclusive. the men who do that are evil.

[Asker]

So the married people are always to blame?

[genericname85]

for cheating? yeah obviously. cause the person who's not married or in a relationship isn't the one cheating.

[Kaneki05]

Nope, always strange how people love to blame the one who didn't make the vows

[Asker]

Wym? So the married people are always to blame?

[Kaneki05]

Of course, if I married you then cheated on you wouldn't you blame me?
Only reason to ever seemingly blame the girl I cheated with is if she was a supposedly good friend of yours as that gives you a very good reason to hate her but otherwise its just a random girl that could've been anyone.

[BCRanger10]

Yes. Marriage is an exclusive covenant between one man and one woman and there is no valid reason for violating such.

[Nikki1989]

It takes two to tango. The married men are just as awful.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But he's a big boy. He can take care of himself. He's older and he's a man, so he doesn't have the handicap of being ruled by feelings. If he gets got then that's on him.

[loveyouoak]

Of course, they're evil.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Just dumb