"The husband is the head of the house" what does it means to you?

[TonyMetal___1986]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It works for some but not others. I, for one, am not into the idea of being considered second to someone else. I know you will counter by saying the woman is not second, but by definition if you are saying someone is the head, then everyone else is now less than the that head.

If someone wants to live that kind of life, then more power to them, but it should never be forced on anyone and unfortunately there is a push in this country to reverse progress we've made in here to give men more power over women again. That's horrible.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Head means responsible Bri Bri, not power over his wife, there is no power, the wife respects her husband and does anything to make him happy cause she loves him, not because she's forced too or because she will be punished if she doesn't obey 🙂

If your husband is a good responsible and loyal man, you won't mind him having more power, because his power will be used for the sake of his family 😌

Plus the head of the house has to work hard and handle so much stuff to assure that his family is happy and safe, so not everyone deserves or wants to be the head of the house...

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

They are both responsible, just for different aspects so describing it that way isn't accurate in my opinion.

And again if you say he has more power then also say he has no power, that's contradictory.

Let's be honest, it's a male centric power structure that doesn't really give any power to women in that scenario

[TonyMetal___1986]

His loving and caring wife is his source of power, so yeah they empower each other...

I'm not contradicting myself about the power thing, what i meant is that he doesn't use his power to make her feel weak to obey and submit, he uses his power to work hard and to assure that he can provide a happy and safe place for his family and to protect them... etc

A woman's power is keeping the house a loving and happy place to be in...

[LazerBean]

it means that it is his responsibility to make sure the household is happy and running smoothly

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well said miss lazer 😊

[LazerBean]

Thank you 😁

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're welcome 😌

[Iron_Man]

The head Honcho. The man that takes care of the wife and children. That makes all the financial business decisions and the leader and runs the family. But I think it’s OK to get the wife involved on certain things so you can get some good wisdom and advice so you can even feel good about your decision on certain things. The man is the protector the leader and should always be respected by his family

[TonyMetal___1986]

Excellent answer my friend 👍🏻

[Iron_Man]

Thank you so much, my friend

[Iron_Man]

Thank you for the big trophy award, my friend. I appreciate that. 👍🏻

[NathanDavis]

old, archaic, rubbish... mostly preached by men with unsuccessful relationships...that, as a conceptfor others though, who are way more well adjusted, it's just the dynamics and how things have worked well for them, a working father and a mother working at home

[TonyMetal___1986]

Even though you're very wrong but i respect your opinion...

[NathanDavis]

I know you would disagree...

I mean, if you're from Lebanon... that's a country in which SOME people still practice "honor killing" and murder women because of it

these are also old, archaic, heinous practices from the people with the same mentality

[TonyMetal___1986]

I don't support honor killing nor murder, you're mixing with them...

[NathanDavis]

I didn't say YOU support it

I said that the same people who murder women in your country... are also people who kill them because of stupid things and retrograde mentality like that one

"she left the house without my permission and greeted another man on the street... so I had to kill her to save my honor"

[sage2021]

I don't mind him being the head of the household because neither of my 2 husbands took on that role at all. Everything was always left up to me even though I had to work full time.

If I am confident that the man knows what he is doing and doesn't screw things up being the head of the household then I could relax for the first time in my life and let someone else run the household. But he has to know what he is doing and doesn't throw us under the bus!

[sage2021]

youtube.com/shorts/MaUJdB3IFkQ?is=tw6__n_XvGz7z9Dh

[TonyMetal___1986]

Wonderful answer as usual mamacita, no one is going to throw you under the bus 😂😂

[sage2021]

Thank you! 😊

[sage2021]

Did you watch the short clip?☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼

[TonyMetal___1986]

Watched it, i agree with first part but not the last part because he has contradicted himself, what does a partner do? She wants a partner right? A partner means responsibility and both taking care of each other...

[JazzieJanna]

Meaning he is over me but he doesn't control me.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Right, if tells you to cook for him a certain meal or if he tells you not to go somewhere and gave you a reasom for it, are these considered controlling?

[JazzieJanna]

Nope not at all

[JazzieJanna]

In my eyes I feel like he is trying to keep me safe and in my eyes if he wants a certain meal then I his wife should obey that

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're an amazing lady, women like you deserves the best, at least if her husband surprised her and worked hard to make her, she appreciates him and make him feel like a king 😌

[rgb008]

he can be the head of the house, I don't care. just gotta have the right lifestyle to let it be that way. until then, we are conjoined at the head.

[TonyMetal___1986]

The right lifestyle is you being a homemaker, which means he pays the bills, put food on the table and take care of you and his family... etc

Head of the house means he's responsible of his family and house...

That's what it means to me!

[duntoldya]

It means that he's the leader of the tiny company that comprises a family.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Somewhat like that...

[Anonymous]

He is responsible for the safety of his family

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well said 👍🏻

[queenofcardio]

Traditional roles mean nothing to me in today's society, where the cost of living is so high.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Well to you it doesn't mean nothing but to others it means everything...

[exitseven]

His house, his rules.

[TonyMetal___1986]

😄👍🏻

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Final decisions are his.

[Iron_Man]

Good answer

[TonyMetal___1986]

@Iron_Man right 👍🏻

[lilBigPotato]

An old-fashioned role model.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Yes it is, a positive role model...

[Agape93]

Nothing because im not married.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I know that you'd feel comfortable when i'm the one saying it because you know that i have good intentions and to me being the head of the house is a big responsibility witch, you know it already because you're a smart witch haha

[Iron_Man]

But if you get married, who’s the leader of the family, the wife or husband?

[Iron_Man]

Is she the good witch? Lol 😂

[Agape93]

I am.

That depends on who you are

[Iron_Man]

Thank you so much for getting back to me. I appreciate this. 😊

[Agape93]

Anytime

[Staximus]

The husband isn’t always the head of the house if he’s a fucking idiot

[Staximus]

I think you spent too much time in the country full of Muslim goat fuckers

[TonyMetal___1986]

Your answer was good until you ruin it with your other comment, my country isn't a muslim a country, it's a mixed country!

Plus no one has any effect on me...

[Anonymous]

If a man says and believes that he is delusional.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I know one thing for sure, i was never delusional!

[Cidknee]

A normal run household.

[TonyMetal___1986]

👍🏻👍🏻

[laryipelss]

the husband is the boss.

[Iron_Man]

Yes, sir

[TonyMetal___1986]

Wouldn't like to use the term boss, but thanks for sharing...