No not creepy at all. It's just underwear... but a bit more sexy. Nothing wrong with a guy buying that for his girlfriend. The big question here is.. do you know her size? Do you know what she/you like (s)?
I mean.. it sucks if you buy it for her.. and then turns out the sizes don't fit her. So try to get that right before going to the store. Don't be the guy that asks the clerk: is this size right? her boobs are the shape of melons. The clerk has no fucking clue what size it is 'cause melon is not enough information to pick the right size. If you know this then nvm. Pick something you both can like, or one for her one for youself (depending on who you're buying it for).
Of course buying online gives more options.. but it will be sent by mail, how much of a surprise is it if she opens it before you can check and give it to her yourself (assuming you live together). Buying online can be tricky 'cause you can't see the product in real life..
Good luck with your search! And don't be afraid to enter the store and ask the clerk for some tips.
No, not creepy at all.
The guy in the picture looks a little confused though. Don't be that guy.
It's perfectly cool to buy nice things for your girlfriend/wife/SO. And even more so if she requested or said it would be OK. Wearing something beautiful for your partner is super nice.
Just be sure that you know her measures, favourite colours, and fabrics, especially if she's going to wear them other than just when you are together.
Usually VS clerks are very cool and helpful, in the end you are a sale and it counts for them. Don't let others tell you that it's not OK.
And enjoy your purchase with your SO! That's the most important part!
I think you've got the right idea about asking the store clerk for help. Rather than wandering around in there browsing, is go straight to a clerk and ask them to help you pick something. Give her an idea of what your like and what size you believe you girlfriend to be.
Go into the store. I was kinda hesitant my first time but, the models, I mean sales persons are friendly. They are going to help you and be professional about it. Also you might get a bit lucky like I did. I didn't know what size my then wife was and my plan was to describe her body to the sales lady but, instead I said she looks like you. She didn't blush & it was a bit awkward until I told the lady my wife is smoking hot. The negligee & matching panties were a perfect fit. Have fun in the shop. The woman wish their man did it... if they dont.
How would it be creepy? Don't worry man I had to buy stuff in Ann Summers before for my girlfriend at the time... (now my ex)
Only thing about buying online, particularly with lingerie is that you've got more variety online than in store.
Don't worry about how nervous you are. Just remember every guy is nervous going in there and the Victoria's Secret employees have been trained to accept that the guys will be nervous so they will understand. They see guys like you and me in there every day mate!
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I mean, it's fine, but I think that's the shittiest gift to get someone. It's not really for her. It's for you.
I personally think that gifts should be more personal and thoughtful than anything else. Not just "Oh, I want you to wear this because you haven't been looking at all sexy lately."
Not creepy at all. Dude, the women that work at stores like that are fucking hot and they love to talk to you. I actually enjoy going in there. It's only creepy if you make it creepy. Is this you bruh?
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Ask an employee to help you out because if you're just wandering around looking at things, touching a bra to see the padding, digging through one of the panty boxes for the right size, women would probably feel uncomfortable- i know i would! So either go online or ask an employee.
No not at all, when I have brought lingerie for a woman I have always gone to a lingerie store. Talking to a sales associate can be very helpful, in getting something that is sexy for you to look at and that is comfortable for the lady who is wearing it for you.
Believe me, things will be a lot better if your girl is comfortable in what you buy her.
no you can go in an buy lingerie for your girlfriend. very normal. i know it may feel awkward. i've had female friends go with me at times when i was younger to make me feel less awkward; however, it is totally fine for a guy to go and buy stuff in the store
u Guys do this for their girlfriends all the time. The sales clerks are quite accustomed to it. Just walk in, go directly to a clerk, and ask her to help you to select something. That is their job.
Don't ogle the ladies and no one will think you are creepy.
It's not creepy, there's often guys who buy something but mostly their girlfriend is with them haha
You can make a little card and give her that and tell her that lingerie from VS is your gift, but you want her to come with you so she can choose what she likes
Fuck everyone else and what they think. If you want to do something which isn't morally wrong or illegal then go ahead. Anyway you the one who wants to enjoy your girlfriend in hot lingerie, they don't get that pleasure so enjoy that time t ommorrow night ;)
Don't buy it at all. Maybe it's just me but my boyfriend buying me any clothes is kinda annoying and sometimes creepy.
Love the comments from the cold fish about how it is creepy and terrible and totally selfish and basically just a "gift for him". Please do guys a favor, and don't date! You clearly have no idea what is happening here.
You're not the first to buy lingerie for your girlfriend. I would even say ask a clerk for help telling her what you look for and for who. Then you will be looking at lingerie with a clerk at your side, and people won't look at you
Its more as guys we are just uncomfortable with it. The girls at the stores are great and helpful. They are also unassuming unlike TV makes them out to be. To make things easier find out her sizes before going.
it isn't creepy. it's kind of unusual, usually i see girls alone or girls with their bfs. but i don't think it's unheard of that a man would pick out lingerie for his partner.
It's not creepy at all, remember, Victoria's Secret was originally created for men.
I do find it creepy but that’s because I use to work at a Victoria Secrets I seen a lot of perv’s some sniffing the underwear tossing them out.
Always best to ask the clerk for help when buying underwear or clothes.
Not because it's creepy it's just men kinda have different tastes than what women have.. if it was up to the majority of men it would be crotchless pvc bdsm stuff lol
Granted it will no longer be a surprise, but go there with your lady, and tell her to pick out what she likes.
Not really, I’m sure plenty of guys do the same thing. My boyfriend just bought a bra for me last week, it’s not a big deal.
Not creepy at all, I see men alone in there all the time and just assume they're buying for their other half!
No it isn't creepy, she'll be glad you went in the store for her, even though it might make you uncomfortable.
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