How to tell when a guy is annoyed by you?

[Anonymous]

How can I tell when a guy is annoyed by me? I can usually tell with girls but with guys, they act like they're cool with you but are really annoyed. How can I tell if this guy is annoyed with me?

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

They'll act serious with you and won't be so talktative. Sometimes they'll even pretend to be busy with something to get you to stop talking to them.

But here's a tip for you - if you don't think you have done anything wrong or annoying to the guy, and he still keeps on being like this, don't keep on trying. Give up and move out. Some guys aren't worth your time, and there's no point in trying way too hard to getting ONE guy to like you, if he doesn't seem to be into you.

[Anonymous]

If a guy is annoyed by you he will try to avoid you. It's as simple as that. I'm not sure why the other guy that answered tried to make it so complicated lol. If a girl annoys me my responses when she talks to me will be as few words as possible and I will leave her presence ASAP.

[wolf19]

Body Language, if they turn away, don't look at you when they answer, seem disinterested, then they just don't care. At this point, move on.

[superdudeman]

If your physically good looking and not a total bitch or acting completely bitchy, then he's not annoyed by you.

Its really as simple as that.

[Asker]

I am and I'm pretty nice. I gave him like free food and stuff....so I don't get what the problem is. He avoids me like a plague so I'm guessing he's annoyed.

[superdudeman]

You are either not as attractive as you think you are, or you are being bitchy.

Either that or he's treating you like crap because he knows that's what it does to get you to like him.

[Asker]

It'll get me to like him by him treating me like crap? No and I'm neither of the other 2 things you've mentioned. I don't talk much unless someone talks to me first so maybe that's bitchy....i have no clue. I can't help that I'm shy damn it! Even if I'm not attractive, I'm not hitting on him or trying to like get him to date me.

[superdudeman]

If you were hitting on him, or trying to get him to date you, that's not annoying behavior from women, it is from men.

Unless the woman is scary ugly.

[Asker]

But I don't do that. I'm crushing on my neighbor but not the roommate. But yes, hella annoying for us girls lol.

[superdudeman]

To get him to like you, do the opposite of what you think would work on you as a woman.

Because chances are it will.

[Asker]

I'm confused...so things that would work on me is when guys are nice. So you want me to be mean to him?

[superdudeman]

No, things that work on you is what you think is nice. but what men think is mean.

Men think being nice is hitting on you. What you really want is a guy to treat you like garbage.

When you hitting on him is what he wants, and that's why he's hitting on you because that's what he thinks would work on him if he was a woman.

Golden rule doesn't work.

[Asker]

K you totally lost me. So he's avoiding me because he likes me? Or because he hates me? And am I supposed to hit on him to make him like me? I don't want any lovey feelings b/t us, at least not with the roommate. I just want to be friends with him but he seems annoyed with me. You so lost me....

[superdudeman]

Well if you just want to be friends with him, then forget about it. Act casual and then you should be fine. If you really act casual he shouldn't be annoyed.

[browolf]

What makes you think he might be?