Should I finance or lease a car with baby on the way?

My issues with finance are having to pay all this money just for something to break down and I'd still have to spend more getting it fixed. My only issue.

My parent says because I'm having a kid I would be too messy to lease a car.

I was going to lease but my parent says not too. And if I do buy a brand new car like 2022-2023

I told them they are wrong I should do 2018-2019 we were fighting the whole time about it.

My plan was to buy the car after paying it off. I'm not spending 34 grand on a new car.

I don't know what to do

Should I finance or lease a car with baby on the way?
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