my boyfriend takes me out to luxury dinners which cost up to 1000 dollars for two people. Besides that, he also buys me expensive gifts every month to show much how much he values me and says I deserve it. I just feel guilty about taking so much from him so I have began saying no to his gifts. But he insists on me taking it. He gets upset when I don't take it. So he usually just forces it into my hands. People say that it is the woman's job to receive and accept in the relationship. And that is the man's job to give. But somehow, I still feel bad about receiving so much. Its not that I am against receiving but these are gifts of enormous value.
If he can afford all that all is good since he work stupid he knows if he can’t afford it than he won’t buy it.
However yes it’s nice you try to tell him -don’t - because you worry. He sees that and that’s a good sign.
Honestly don’t try to stop him he loves showering you that way that’s his way to show his love.
My boyfriend was the same at the beginning at the relationship he was taking me to expensive dinner etc turned out he did that because he was raised with a single mother and he felt sad his mom never got a chance to enjoy life ~ in a way he knew a women needs to be treated like a “queen” that’s how he saw it and I let him do it.
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Ask for little gifts. Nothing over $50 or whatever you want
What kind of person spends a $1,000 on dinner? No food is that good. I won't even spend a grand on everything I eat for an entire month.
It is if you have conscience. Tell him the truth… Purses and fine shoes are not digestible nor can they be 💩 out…. 👛. 👠. 👜 .
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