If your sister did to your baby how would you feel? Would you feel it is pretty heartless of her?

[DownInTheDumps]

My sister gifted my newborn baby this baby musical merry go round ornament and just recently because we had a falling out while I wasn't home she has gone into my room and she has taken the musical ornament back.

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Update: She is now demanding everything back that she gave as a gift to my baby. This woman has kids of her own and I have never once in my life ever taken back anything I have ever gifted them.

[Genie23]

Wow. That's really mean... cruel thing to do to a child. I would definitely think she's heartless. I don't care whether she fights with me or ignores me if she does anything mean to my child because of our fallout, I'd never consider her as my sister again because that's not fair on a child.

[DownInTheDumps]

I will never speak to her ever again. How can you take from a baby especially when you have kids of your own. Despite how many times we have argued over the years. I have never once in my life ever taken back any gifts I have ever given to her kids.

[Genie23]

Good call. You shouldn't.
Thing is it doesn't matter whether someone has a child or not, nobody would do it to a child especially not to their sibling's child because that's basic decency and humanity. You have to have a really cold heart to do something so selfish. She proved by doing this that she cares about herself not her niece/nephew's feelings. So, I can understand how disappointed, sad and even furious you are but hey at least you got to see this side of hers now than later by the time the child would have gotten more attached and hurt.

[DownInTheDumps]

You are so right. I am glad I seen this side of her while my baby is still too young to understand thank you

[Genie23]

Exactly! Everything happens for a good reason. You're welcome. Please take care.

[EmmaMary]

Sadly some sister you have there. smh

If I were you, I would return every item she has given you, and tell her that until she grows up and starts acting her age, you wish to have no communication with her at all.

[DownInTheDumps]

Thank you

After what she done to me in the delivery room and now to have her do this. I honestly will never allow her back in my life ever again. How can you be that low to take from a baby. Even if you paid for that item, you still don't take from a baby.

[EmmaMary]

Not that this should make a scrap of difference, is she older or younger than you?

[DownInTheDumps]

She is 43 and 6 years older and she has 6 kids the youngest being 3 years old

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[comekitty]

I think that's mean.

When I'm cross with my sister, I don't take it out on my neice.

[DownInTheDumps]

Neither do I. Kids are innocent and should be kept out of adult drama. However my sister is even now going further. She is now demanding everything she brought for my daughter back.

My own sister even went and posted photos of my baby on her social media without even asking me for permission to do so prior to us falling out and I told her to remove the photos.

[TrillXHippy]

If my sister gave me something for my kid she wouldn’t be able to get it back. She wouldn’t wanna make her big brother mad

[DownInTheDumps]

What sucks is that she went into my room and took it back not long after my baby and I were discharged from the hospital but while we weren't home and my dad allowed her into my room cause he doesn't see an issue with what she had done neither does anyone else. I also found out she gave the gift to her eldest son girlfriend to give to her baby.

I'm just now glad people are starting to slowly see who my sister really is and what she is like.

[TrillXHippy]

That’s messed up

[ImalwaysrightOK]

That's awful. 😔

[DownInTheDumps]

It really is awful especially when you spend a few days in hospital with your newborn and come home to find out she took it

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats really mean..

[DownInTheDumps]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's pretty shitty

[DownInTheDumps]

I feel so to but my sister and others don't see it that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Best say nothing and let your sister get on with whatever

[Opinion Owner]

, like it's one thing to be angry at you but to involve you'd child that's an unforgivable slight

[DownInTheDumps]

I will never forgive her even more so now that she is now demanding everything she brought for my daughter back. Like seriously. I would never scoop that low to take from a child ever

[Opinion Owner]

A line has been crossed. Best just to ignore her from now on

[DownInTheDumps]

She is blocked everywhere

[DownInTheDumps]

Thank you

[ColHathi]

More like petty, but yeah.

[riverrat3]

So shallow of her