Wow, lot of violent people here today.
Anyway, it isn't my call on what she does with her body in either case. If she is ok then I'm ok.
I'm pro choice but wouldn't personally do it for myself. I'd probably personally be sad but not around them.
Nothing. I would comfort her and talk to her if she needed that and leave her alone if she didn’t.
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Is say "it's not my place, but I know that an abortion is a big decision. I didn't expect you to seem so up beat..." I'd let her respond and then I'd say "well if you have feelings you want to discuss about it you can talk to me if you wish"
And then I'd probably leave it at that. I doubt there are people getting abortions and then hopping and skipping home like they were walking on sunshine. Even if someone feels abortion is the right decision to make in their lives, I imagine it would still have some rough feelings attached. I find it doubtful a woman would get an abortion and then immediately afterward be walking on sunshine.
Ultimately I'm a man so I feel that abortion legality should be left to women to discuss since they are the ones that give birth and not me.
The only scenario I'd be against abortion is if I were in a relationship and we discussed having kids and she got an abortion against my wishes. But that seems like a very rare and unique scenario that exists more as a hypothetical and not a real possibility.
Wow there are awful people on here. Those of you who would resort to physically or emotionally abusing a woman for her choice should be ashamed of yourselves. Go burn in hell motherfuckers. I don't have any sisters and I don't have a daughter either. If one of my cousins did it then I would be really sad but I wouldn't cut her off or disown her. I know it's a decision she wouldn't take lightly. However, if I ever got an abortion (not that I want to) the guilt would get to me but I'm lucky some of my family members would support me and be there for me. I'm afraid some of my family members would disown me though.
Well she that's the whole thing just because it looks like she seems to be happy doesn't mean that she is happy.. I guarantee you when she's alone in bed at night her pillows soaking wet from tears don't assume everything if you really need to know if you really need to make it your business do so but do it gently
In life there's always something is trying to teach you something you asked this question for a couple different reasons but the most important part of this question was the answer that you gave to whomever about abortion I want you to read that again the reason for all this happening it's so you don't go to your sister or whomever it might be and acts just like that guy do you understand what I'm trying to say don't act like that guy
Make sure they were okay, that there were no problems after it.
Ask why they did not bring it up and take me with them.
basically be there for them.
(leaving out the bit about hunting down the other person and burying them).
Sounds wonderful. Women unprepared for motherhood have no business having children. The only reasonable choice for a teenage girl or poor, unprepared unwed pregnant woman is abortion. This is why this simple, non-surgical procedure must remain legal.
Do not believe the psuedo-Christian nonsense propaganda against abortion. It is malicious and wrong.
SkipPerk fantastic answer 👏👏
They must have had good reason then as that isn’t a decision anyone makes lightly, if it was even theirs to make. Doctors do offer it as only option on occasion to save mothers lives. I don’t see happy as a natural feeling after going through the process though… there is loss even in stillbirth or other medical causes to force that decision early on. It would be felt.
I’d be happy with them, it’s their choice. I’d ask if they need anything and support them no matter what. I don’t have a sister or daughter, but that is what I’d do. And I would hope that if for whatever reason I’m in that sort of situation, my brothers’ would do the same thing I would.
I'd be happy for them. They're probably happy they aren't forced to carry on pregnancy which is very painful and uncomfortable or go through labor and childbirth which is said to be the worst pain a human can experience.
I would find this reason okay for me. As for me, becoming an aunt or becoming a grandmother will be very delightful for me. I mean, you will have one another person in your family to cheer up this family. And even bring light to the family. But it is your choice for your baby. If you can't raise them then it's literally okay. And even though, it's your body your choice. It's literally okay. But the best you coud've done was bring them to "adoption" center. It would be great.
So yeah, it's okay for as my opinion.
Remorse is not a requisite for the removal of a parasite. Unless you personally believe in the concept of a unique and special soul, and also that it is assigned at conception, then that is exactly what it is if it is unwanted, a parasite. I know that sounds rough but an abortion, if a child is not a part of the current plan, can be a relief.
I'd be there for when the guilt and doubt hits.
Absolutely no shame or anything and my support would be there if they needed it.
Nothing, it's none of your business. I'd be there to support them... never look down on a person for a decision they made. We are not perfect. I've had 2 abortions. The second one saved my life, so don't critize when you don't know the facts.
Nothing. What's done is done and she obviously made her choice. It's none of my business what another woman chooses to do with her body and eggs.
They would get a big ass chewing from me and probably even cut off if they showed no remorse. Our family was raised to believe that life is valuable and we do not condone murderers, which is exactly what ANYONE who gets an abortion really is. I would remind them constantly about the murder they committed and never let them live it down and remind them to do better in the future if I decided to let them stay in my life. If I ever have a daughter she would know better than do something as stupid and evil as getting an abortion and would know the consequences to our relationship of doing so. Then again I would also raise my daughter to make smart choices when it comes to having sex.
So you would choose to emotionally abuse your sister or daughter for life, because you didn't like a single medical choice they made? Glad you're not my relative.
Would be happy that she is happy I guess not really my business if its my sister and would depend on the context for it being my daughter but again not my choice
it's none of my business, and they're the ones who would have had to carry the baby and give birth so it's their choice. i'd even offer them my support if they needed it.
Honestly, I think I would just support them. It’s their choice about whether or not they want the baby. However I would reprimand them for not using birth control if they didn’t want a child
Nothing really. I'd be concerned that they were happy about it afterward. Because that's an emotional decision for most people. So, either she is hiding it or something is wrong with her.
I'd be happy for them, how else would I react? If they're happy with their decision I see no reason for me to not be the same.
Nothing absolutely nothing. It's her choice and she has no obligation to include me in that discussion.
If I had a sister I would of supported her. it hurt cause I couldn’t be their to comfort her.
I wouldn't care thats her decision to make, her life not mine
Well I'd ask if she's ok, or needs anything at all. It's ok to feel sad about that decision even if it was the right one.
Neither of them are married, so I wouldn’t think anything of it. Either way, they’re both pushing 29, so whatever choices they make are their business.
All the guys in the comments so far pass the vibe check
I take that back seems I judged too early
I wouldn't know what to do. But I guess I would just talk to her and if she needs advice I would talk to her
I would let her know I'm here if she ever wants to talk about anything.
well the decision's up to her, and i wouldn't see a problem if she's happy with it
I would be kinda embarrassed for being associated with someone who wasn't 100% careful
Nothing, i am sure they did what they had to do, being happy in public does not mean it does not hurt them
Sister idc. My daughter I would feel like a failure and talk to her about it
I'd feel relieved that they did. One or two less dysfunctional people being brought into the world.
Ask them why they couldn't come to me to raise the child.
Sister I would be disappointed. Daughter I would slap in the back of the head while yelling "Reboot!"
It's her choice. I'll be there for her.
Mind your own business
it is all about their body and their choice
Wouldn’t change a thing.
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Nothing.
abortion no big deal
Hope for the best.
I’d be disappointed.
Mind my own business
Slap her for taking out an infant's life
1. Infants are born, and abortions don't take place past the second trimester unless it's medically necessary to save the woman's life.
2. So you're good assaulting someone for exercising their rights?
When the baby is inside the stomach of her, if she would not have aborted, the baby inside her would become an infant. And the baby missed a life because of her
Here, I'm not talking about rights of her, but her unkind nature and brutal thought of killing a baby
Once again, it's not a baby. Babies are born, and you ruin any argument you may have against abortion when you promote assaulting people and can't even use the terms for when it's STILL IN THE WOMB.
Like it or not she has every right to do it. But you do not have any right to assault someone over it. None, at all.
I'm not assaulting her. I am trying to make her know that she took out a life for her own pleasure. One life will be sacrificed for her selfish reasons
Slapping someone is assault.
Killing a baby to be born is also an assault
Nope, it isn't, for one. Two, it's not a baby. Lastly, I love how you lied and said you wouldn't be assaulting her despite saying you'd hit her, and are now trying to deflect.
It’s their choice
Slap the crap out of her
So you assault someone for a medical choice they have a right to do?
What child was killed? It's just a fetus, usually the size of a jelly bean when abortions are done
Also what sense does that make to assault someone and risk prison time, because you don't like that she exercised her rights?
No, it doesn't. It means unborn. And are you really trying to equivocate enslaving and beating people (which you seem oddly ok with), and someone exercising their own bodily autonomy? Just like that, your credibility is gone.
your mom should have took the pill
I’d be upset
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