Do a lot of white girls have arrogant, entitled self righteous attitudes?

[Anonymous]

Now if you're about to come here and say "Not all white girls are the same" Duh, no sh*t, Sherlock. I'm well aware that it's impossible for all white girls to be the same. I've heard a few guys, two of whom were white, say they don't date white girls because of some sort of arrogant, entitled attitude. I'm really curious abut this and just trying to dig deeper into the claim. Share your insight on this please :)

[wicked_truth]

Yes, I do believe that white girls are arrogant and have a strong sense of entitlement. As a black girl married to a white guy for almost 15yrs, I have had to deal with white girl attitude ranging from disbelief (I MUST be an employee of his or nanny to the kids) to bitterness (especially if they're having a hard time finding a good quality "white" man) to hostility ("you may have him and be the wifey but..." white girls in my area will "dismiss" and "snob" me as revenge). They have a hard time swallowing that an eligible and responsible white man could want anything other than a fair-skinned girl. It is really quite easy to see based on their behavior. They have been sold the idea by some of society and by promoted by the media as the most desirable catch. Some will actually come on to my hubby assuming he is suffering and desperate for white ***** and come away stung due to his complete lack of interest and aloofness. They cannot believe that a white man would fix his love and emotions on a black girl to the degree he does (soulmate level). It's a blow to the average white girl's over-inflated ego. My advice to them so they don't keep getting hurt is this: Humble yourself a bit and learn to see that white isn't always right; it's about beauty (not just white beauty), character and depth. Arrogance is unattractive while confidence that doesn't step on others is super-sexy. Work on yourself and build up your inside (character, ethics, skills, sex appeal, etc) and remember, the world does NOT revolve around you. Change is most definitely here and the black or Asian girls you see as not being on your level could actually out-class you on every level. Try being friendly and gracious with women of other races; it's a sign of humility. STAY HUMBLE about being "white" and get off the skin-based ego trip; assume less and learn to compete with yourself only (self-cultivation and self-improvement) because this is what quality men find most appealing and want to marry

[Kilika867]

Couldn't have said it better, myself. I am a man of color. The following is priceless:

"Humble yourself a bit and learn to see that white isn't always right; it's about beauty (not just white beauty), character and depth."

I can't tell you how many times I ran into entitled white women who lack character but are full of ego. They always (I mean this literally without exception) blame others, usually the "patriarchy" and/or "white men", when they fail or lose in their academic or professional endeavors. It's pure narcism. Nothing more. Nothing less. Best is when they lash out when you call them out on it.

[webdrivertorso]

You’re a woman, not a girl.

[PonyCar]

Whether or not you realize it, you grow up with the best treatment your socioeconomic class has to offer, and you get this without putting in any effort. The day you're treated any less (than the best), you feel as though you're being unjustifiably punished because the treatment you're receiving is so much lower than what you're used to. Non-whites see this and wonder what the heck you're complaining about, because your “unfair punishment” is their average (or possibly better than average). To them, you're acting like a spoiled brat because you're whining about the one time you don't receive the kind of treatment they're lucky to experience 1-2x/month. This is where the arrogance & sense of entitlement (or at least the appearance of it) comes from.

[blackberries27]

I personally have not met a white girl yet that didn't have some sorta stuck up attiude even the poor ones it's not always snooty it's like constant PMS...my white male friends won't date white women either and no one stops dating there own race cause the been hurt that's silly most white men that don't date in they race just aren't attracted to white women ...I'm black by the way I see someone thinks black people don't have a right to speak on white people behavior I don't know why it's a big deal I for one think all women got nasty attitudes that's why I don't befriend them

[webdrivertorso]

“Not like other girls!” 🙄

[Anonymous]

Yeah, a bit. I mean, most white guys are sticking around, and their asses are kissed a lot by non white guys. People see them as the standard of beauty. It's to be expected that they would act that way. And, I'm generalizing here, so I don't mean to say that all white girls are that way and all non white girls aren't.

[jay6994]

lol that's called a bitch and all races have bitches

[Asker]

so true!

[webdrivertorso]

They can also be men.

[InquisitiveMale]

Sure. Lots of people do. If you were raised by parents who gave you everything and came running at your beck and call, chances are, you have an indignatious attitude. Just happens that white people are more common to be wealthy and have parents who raise them in such a manner.

[Keishkandy]

Yes most white women are self entitled pricks! They have princess syndrome because their men don't check their catty behavior for what it is plain out "RUDE" they feel they must be first and never last. That some how they and their families are important and entitled to lifes pleasures than you are yours! I call bullshit!

[Anonymous]

Yes, that's why so many white people got so defensive on this post?

[Kilika867]

The "Karen" trope and Bill Burr's SNL skit about white women could not have come at a more opportune time!

[caligirl3]

Thats not true at all, that's what all guys say, black guys that doesn't date black women says its cause they are arrogant and has an attitude. People always has to make excuses, I find it hard to believe that someone are attracted to Latinos one day and they meet a couple of rude ones and all of a sudden you are attracted to Asians cause they seem nicer.

[Asker]

lol, that's the self absorbed attitude I'm talking about. And wtf is up with white people always directing the attention to black/white issues as if black people are the only ethnic group who have a reason to possibly think these things? I'm not black nor white.

[caligirl3]

you want us to share our insight and you snap and us when we do, I didn't focus on black people I did mention Asian and Latino if you didn't see that. Were you offended when I said that there is black men that don't date black women for the same reason the white guy told you they don't date white women? You call me self absorbed and how long have you known me? You are 45+ and feel brave enough starting an arguement while you are anonymous.

[Asker]

Well if you would share some intelligent insight instead of ignorant, typical 'white person feeling attacked so they attack black people even if a non-black person is addressing the possibility that white people may be at fault' insight, I wouldn't be snapping. You mentioning Asian and Latinos hardly even pertained the to question. You gave to sentences that weren't even informative, intelligent, or helpful. I'm not 45 plus lol I lied about my age on GAG because this place is crawling with pervs

[Asker]

me being anonymous doesn't have anything to do with it.

Honey, I cannot believe you are over 23 and you speak so unintelligently and you are so weak that you take over-used, repetitive 'comebacks' *the anonymous so you are invalid bs* and act like it is actually powerful LOL. If you are not intelligent nor strong enough to participate in this post, then please stop wating my time with your mediocre presence.

[caligirl3]

haha, why are your comebacks exactly what I just told you? And you don't think you act like you are powerful now? telling someone they aren't smart enough to waste your time. you say you aren't white or black so why do you even ask? cause you want to start arguments.And I didn't attack black people I told you what I heard, what black man had said why they don't date black women. Just like you heard white guys said, so ? offend but you dont? you need to go to the doctor and have them check your brain

[Kilika867]

Save it caligirl3. All you did was make a "yes-but" diversion. You didn't answer the question. You didn't offer a solid shred of perception or fact to support your conclusory statement. But from what I am gathering from this thread, you do sound defensive, like a teenager - basically the exact class of people this thread was about to begin with.

[555askas]

You were pissed off about her saying something that YOU found prejudiced, but you made a whole bunch of prejudices. This is just a simple question, I think it is true to a degree you hypocrite. You are probably racist.

[555askas]

My reply was to caligirl3.

[Cuddle_Muffin]

I just hope you aren't black.

Anyway, that isn't always true. It depends on the girl. I have seen girls with that behavior who weren't white. My whit girlfriends are far from that.

[555askas]

Why the hell did you ask that? Racist deflecting woman.

[antonlikesmlb]

I've met a lot of white girls who are bitches but I've also met plenty who aren't.

[Asker]

it's not about being a bitch; any girl can be a bitch. It's about having an entitled, arrogant attitude because you have white skin.

[Prof_Don]

I think there are plenty of females that have "princess syndrome", you just notice the ones that are white.

Or you sadly live in an area where a high % of the white females have "princess syndrome".

[Kilika867]

A lot of women have princess syndrome, but without a doubt, in America, the overwhelming majority of them will be white women. Moreover, since white privilege and female coddling are both a thing on this planet, you can bet there are more white women living in affluent societies that have princess syndrome than non-white women.

[desidoll]

I believe there are always good and bad people in every races.The problem is people tend to judge based on what they had experienced in the past.Maybe these two guys been hurt,cheated or rejected by white girls.

[Asker]

You're not answering the question.

You're basically just saying "It's impossible for there to be truth to this; these guys just probably got rejected."

[Kilika867]

What is going here? Did everyone on this side of the thread just gloss over the "Now if you're about to come here and say "Not all white girls are the same" Duh, no sh*t, Sherlock. I'm well aware that it's impossible for all white girls to be the same", part? Sheesh...

[pfmpm]

White women are arrogant, entitled, self righteous, dishonest greedy trouble makers, and in my opinion, not worth the air it takes to fart.

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah...

And yes, there are bitches in ALL races...

I find that there are more that are white. Minority ladies are, in my opinion, quite often the nicest you'll find... :)

Strangely enough, I'm a white guy.

[Kilika867]

I will second that notion. My experience, as a man of color, has been similar to yours. With very few exceptions, most white women tend to be bat-shit crazy, entitled, stuck up, and frankly, quite racist as a result. Their entitlement shows when they refuse to interact, let alone date, people of color... yet are the most ardent "woke" activists.

[webdrivertorso]

There are a lot of male bitches too.

[visual]

I think anyone who is big on fairy tales has an entitlement issue to some extent.

I've never heard this about white girls only.

[Asker]

fairytales? wtf, that doesn't have sh*t to do with anything.

[visual]

sure

[555askas]

A lot of them are arrogant and entitled. I mean with all of the karens around you know.

[WickedEyedLeo]

Bitches and a**holes come in ALL races.

[Kilika867]

But most of them are white. :)

[555askas]

Why? Deflect?