Im a 4ft9 19 year old and I feel insecure about my height?

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even when guys tell me they like short girls, my height makes me feel like i'm a kid, if i had the chance of having one wish come true it would be to become taller! i get compliments on my looks and body shape, but when it comes to my height I always get "omg you're really short!", and it makes me feel like a freak! do guys really mean it when they say they like short girls or are they just doing it to make me feel better?

ItsLuisYo · Accepted Answer

Im a guy and i like short girls, and i will always like short girls more than taller girls. This is simple basic psychology, men like to always feel masculine. It is in our DNA to be the "MAN". Nothing says masculine than being taller than the girl you are with. This is why most men prefer short women both naturally and subconsciously. When men say they like short girls they mean it, tall men date tall women, also most tall women have a problem finding a man because of their height. So the very thing you find to make you feel upset is a blessing. You are what "men" like to call fun size, lol it's a sexual reference for most as to you are easier to lift carry and flip around in all kind of ways. Thus the meaning of "FUN size", being short is not a bad thing for 'Women" but almost every girl in the world wants a tall guy because of what i mentioned before it naturally serves the balance of feeling masculine.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

While it's very sexy when a girl is all model-like and long-legged, height is usually not that important to guys.
Insecurity, not height, is what makes a girl unattractive. For example, I have a tall friend who loves her height and that makes her almost mesmerizing - her presence and elegance are out of this world. However, another tall girl I know hates her height and behaves like she wants to hide it and ends up looking all awkward and not attractive at all. A short coworker of mine is so insecure about being short and behaves all pushy and loud to stop feeling small and unnoticeable and it makes her ugly. Another short girl I know rocks the whole cute look and comes off as adorable and attractive. I think if you love your height - whatever it is - it will add to, and not diminish, your attractiveness.

MartianMarty · Accepted Answer

Guys like what they like. Not all like short girls not all like tall girls. Some DO like short girls, and others like tall girls. Some guys like guys. It's all preference.Some girls would kill to be your height, some girls would hate to be your height You should not spend your time worrying about what guys like and like yourself. If you don't like yourself no one else will. Spend your time talking to people about what you don't like about yourself and that's all people will focus on. Your height and your insecurity. Instead of getting to know a confident you. Love your height. If not at least embrace it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s cute only if you’re fit
Once you become chubby or fat it looks extra worse than if you were taller because you’ll resemble a ball faster.

My advice to very short girls: eat healthy forever and stay thin or fit but never allow yourself to get chubby or fat because you’re gonna look funny and very!! unattractive.

Luna-o3o · Accepted Answer

I'm 5'6 turning 19 Short girls make me insecure. They seem to get more attention.  Guys think they are cuter looking. They look more approachable. Makes me insecure. You have nothing to worry about.

nerms123 · Accepted Answer

Short people hate being short but you should use it to your advantage. Work that cute angle

swagswagswag · Answer

"Hey I have an 8 inch penis, I feel insecure about it being too big"

"I'm a millionaire, I feel insecure about having too much money"

"I'm ridiculously good looking, I feel insecure about being so much more attractive than other people"

"I'm a Harvard graduate, I feel insecure about being so intelligent"

^ That's what you sound like.

If you're a girl being short is a good thing, short girls are the female equivalent to guys over 6ft tall. Accept your gift and don't complain, people will make short jokes but they wouldn't joke about something that's negative (people wouldn't be like "omg you're really fat!" unless they didn't like you). There are a lot of girls who wish they could have your height.

P.S. Never heard a guy refuse to date a girl cause she was too short, as long as you're developed enough to look your age you've got nothing to worry about.

xPoison · Answer

If I am correct, Shakira is 4'11. Short girls rule. Just rock it. In the end of the day its your confidence that will transmit that you are in actuality "bigger" :) that's why i always talk about the importance of confidence

ani123 · Answer

I'm turning 19 this year and I'm also 4'9. I think a lot of us short girls look young in age. I certainly do. And what helps is hills and makeup. Ad I know what you mean lol XD I think a lot of people think you're cute :)

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

As a guy i like short girls and i see
no problem with that i think guys
or other people shouldn't say omg
your short , them are people who
are immature they need grow up
but you need to learn to ignore them
i'm sure you are a sweet girl

apropos · Answer

Guys like short girls, as long as they have decent boobs. Kids don't have boobs.

Cleveland · Answer

I love being 5'4"!!! I can wear whatever I want heels/flats whatever:)

mammaof4 · Answer

I am 4'11 and I have neen hearing that for a long time but a lot of guys like short girls and I kno when I see a tall guy I am loke dam u r tall

NoblesseOblige · Answer

Would smash. But, potential kids would be manlets. Not good.

Zimthewrath · Answer

Girls in the 4,11-4,6 range are to me as 6,1-6,6 guys are to most girls. Your in my preference range

iUnderachieve · Answer

Short girls are hot. Get over it.

Anonymous · Answer

Dam Im SOO Insecure about my height and I'm 5'4

blondfrog · Answer

Your a woman so it's not as bad.

KhaysunDei · Answer

If you're hot, it's okay.

sydneyboy · Answer

Im 6ft1 and like fucking shorter girls🤷‍♂️

Im a 4ft9 19 year old and I feel insecure about my height?

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