Do women approach men men at bars or clubs?

[steven5678]

I always wondered if average looking guys get rarely approached at bars or clubs. Or even if the good looking guys get approached.

[Anonymous]

A club isn't really a place to have a conversation... if I'm at a club I will start dancing with a guy I want to make out with. But I don't do this all the time because sometimes I'm at a club just to dance and have fun with my friends.
At a bar, it depends on if I'm there just to hang with friends, or if we're looking to meet people. If I'm meeting up with a group of friends I'm not going to leave them to talk to a stranger. If I am there for the purpose of meeting people, then yeah I'll approach a guy if he doesn't look like he's talking to anyone else. I don't always know what to say when approaching a guy, so sometimes I'll have a friend approach him for me (like in How I Met Your Mother; "Haaaave you met Ted?" lol)

So to answer your question I don't approach all the time because I'm not always looking for someone.

[steven5678]

What type of guys do you approach?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm looking for a guy who seems friendly, but not one who is surround by people. So if a guy is talking to people but then goes to the bar, I would approach him then. Or if he's at the bar talking to a friend I would approach him when the friend walks away.
However, If I'm with a friend, then we will look for pairs of guys so that way we each have one to talk to.

[justbeinghonest]

That seems like places I would approach guys just to make out with

[Anonymous]

No. This is still just like 1950 and the only way guys and girls hook up is by the teacher matching everyone up together.

[Anonymous]

It happens... typically they've got a few drinks in them, just like guys.

[steven5678]

Does it happen rarely though?

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean by rarely, and what type of approach are you talking about? If it's just conversation then it's not uncommon. If it's a blunt request for sex then it's more rare

[steven5678]

I was asking approaching for convo. It is not uncommon but does it hardly happen though?

[Opinion Owner]

When I go out to bars it happens maybe 10-20% of the time I guess.

[steven5678]

How do you look? Are you average, good looking, or below average looking? Also were these chicks hot that approached you?

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I don't fucking know anymore. Some people say I could model and some call me ugly. The girls were average at least. A somewhat ugly girl approached me in a bookstore once and wanted sex though lol

[steven5678]

Oh geez lol. Do you think the girls were buzzed or drunk that approached you in the bar or they just simply had a few drinks in the bar without being buzzed or drunk?

[Opinion Owner]

When I talked to them they didn't seem to out of it. I'd say probably not. One older woman at a wine bar was whispering shit into my ear one night and I'm pretty sure she was hammered because she was doing it to every guy.

[Anonymous]

very rarely if they do

[steven5678]

They even rarely approach the good looking guys?