How can someone be intellectually sexy?

[Anonymous]

I am overweight so being physically sexy is hard. I am also very quiet not shy. How can I be intellectually sexy? Its hard for me, I feel like I am giving men pop quizzes. I also feel like the fun fact lady.

[MrScTi]

Knowing fun facts isn't really the benchmark for intellectual sexiness.

Your ability to display your wits and class while constantly keeping the verbal rally going is what makes you appealing on an intellectual level. It shouldn't matter what he says, because if you are creative enough you can come up with keen response without being bogged down by suspicion, paranoia, or... stupidity.

Don't be a dud. There's nothing worse than a girl that just stops the conversation because she doesn't get it or isn't vested enough to care. If he gives you a stick, build a mini log cabin. If you let your mind and body flow you'll be surprised how witty you can actually be.

[Sex_Panther]

Intellectual sexiness comes from having a plethora of useful information and being naturally resourceful. Essentially being "impressive" in the mental arts. Knowing random crap is not intellectually sexy.

[Anonymous]

It's not about displaying your intellect by sprouting facts.

It's finding the line of not being filled with knowledge but not being "ahh maa gawwd... let's go on va-ca, *scream*" (I know, I'm being a bit harsh, but I mean the girls who are obsessed with looks and make up and not much else. Like the Real Housewives of Orange County...

The best way to be is to go with the flow of the conversation and slip in little jokes - jokes show intellect and that you can react naturally to situations. Being quiet can work to your advantage because it gives you time to think of something funny.

Good luck.

[Rocco-K]

Intellectually sexy is giving guys eargasms by being witty, funny, and flirtatious.

[CourtJester]

Witty... able to hold up to a wide range of conversation imo.