If a girl is adorable instead of hot or sexy, would that be a turn off?
I'm not sure if it should matter or not. But it kind of makes sense. I am always told that im so cute and adorable. Most people I meet love me from the second they meet me. They tell me that I'm so cute and such. Everyone at work tells me that and they say i'm their favorite. I know cute is likable but is it ever in a romantic sense?
I've never had a boyfriend so i'm not sure if this is why. I feel like i have to change myself, or at least the way i dress to get attention in that way but i'm not sure. I dont want to. I am comfortable with who i am. I like being likable. i dress sort of like this
the last outfit.
And i dont act like an airhead. I am clumsy but i'm not an airhead. I'm still in college. I'm an engineering major. So maybe I do spend a lot of time studying. I love cats. and yes i enjoy talking about cats. Not sure if thats bad either. I'm not a pushover. I can stand up for myself 99% of the time. I get told im pretty funny and a joy to be around so i really am likable. Also, people say i have a great smile.
So its not that im ugly. i guess its not a problem. i can tolerate dirty jokes and dirty talk. it doesn't offend me. but it does offend me when someone is trying to immediately trying to get in my pants. it takes a lot more than a hello.
so im not sure if being too innocent like i am is hurting my chances or something?
I kind of look and dress like Zooey, with a harder edge. My current boyfriend said he saw this adorable girl laughing with her friends one day and fell for her... and he said that was me! So I don't think it's that at all. I know you said you are studying a lot, so it could be that you are just less available at this time.
I always go for cute/adorable over pretty/beautiful. Every time. It just melts my heart and makes me want to please them in any way possible. I fall in love instantly with such girls. The more innocent/naive you are, the better, as well. No guy is attracted to the local slut in any real way. Modesty is everything.
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damn. where are the guys who think like you. everyone i meet wants the easy ones. i just can't compete.
That's such a good question. As I so often ask, "Where have all the modest women gone?" And conclude they are all married. Orrrrr... something? Things sure have changed dramatically from when I first came of age 30 years ago.
That type of innocence is an attractive quality to me. I would rather be the one to teach her things than knowing she has been around the block and "knows it all" etc.
For me I like an innocent, pure heart kind of girl more than the opposite. Like Kate Micucci look is so sexy to me, wooo I feel hot just looking at her.
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Yeah i think she's great. She reminds me a lot of myself actually.
You may come off as innocent and cute and that's no bad thing at all, people who don't want to investigate further are just missing out, they have no imagination.
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