Is being innocent a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend is very sexually experienced then me and he's into a lot of rough stuff, and he tells me all the time (I feel as tho he complains but I dont want to be rude bc ik since he talks about it all the time I can't give him that stuff) I'm just mot comfortable with the things he asks, he says I can't do nasty shizzz that I wanna, I asked him when he talks about this its conflicting bc one day he says he likes it and others he says he hates it, I told him he likes freaky woman his answer was "Freaky women are fun but TOO MANY PROBLEMS" then he says "I am not comparing you to my past sweetheart"You aren't them and they are not you obviously some shit never worked out which is y im not there there's a reason yourr here" then he says "you're too innocent is all" amd i asked if it was bad he said "Not a bad thing just something i have to learn to appreciate more " like I don't understand

[SallyTho87]

Being innocent isn't a bad thing, but in this scenario it's more of inexperienced, opposed to "innocent"

It sounds like you and your boyfriend have different sexual needs, and different expectations, desires, needs, when it comes to sex. This means you two do not have sexual chemistry at this time, which can be fixed and worked on, but it does mean coming out of your comfort zones (both parties) experimenting with new positions, toys, etc. and being uncomfortable in order to grow your own experience sexually.

If you are NOT comfortable, or do NOT want to participate, voice your concerns and do not engage in the type of sex your boyfriend wants. Do know that sex and sexual chemistry is a HUGE thing for couples, and relationships. If you're curious and interested, I hope he can teach you well and guide you, at your own pace, to learn and explore some things you may enjoy.
Don't do anything you don't want to do. So the option is ultimately up to you and what you want.

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s saying that his past girls were more sexually open, but they also were more cray.

[CrabCakes11]

This guy seems very toxic