Do men find innocent and childish women attractive?

[Anonymous]

I homeschooled most of life so I wasn't exposed to a lot of things. I don't know much about how the world works but I'm learning. I'm in college now and I'm pretty book smart and people smart, but not really street smart... a lot of people laugh that I've never been to a club or a concert before plus I've never drank (I grew up in a religious household so I don't really do those kind of things).
Anyways I get sort of annoyed being naive. I tend to act childish sometimes (run around, get excited over little things and cute things, etc.) I love to joke around and laugh a lot too.
I get sick of being considered innocent, childish, naive. :S are those bad traits?
What do men think of women like that?

[FakeName123]

Most of those things are actually desirable traits to me. The issue I see with people like you is that you clearly lack experience - especially facing actual hardships. That can be really problematic.

Acting childlike occasionally (while knowing when to be serious), joking around, laughing, being naive-optimistic are all desirable traits.

Naivity though by looking away from reality is in fact a negative trait. Being always childish while unable to be mature is also a negative trait.

What I am saying is that it's all within means that these can be positive or negative.

[KDA20]

I am 46 and I still act a bit like that - Guys might like to meet someone who isn't worried about how they look or perceived by others who came through the high school social political hierarchy - He might be glad to leave all that bullcrap to the side for a change.

[margarida]

They aren't bad traits, not really. It's good that you're in contact with your inner child! But it might be dangerous, sometimes. Seeing that naive people are easily manipulated. That's what you need to watch out for! Be yourself, being soft and full of light like you are, that's good! But don't let people manipulate and fool you, be careful with that!

[Anonymous]

I'm sort of like that. And the right guys find it attractive while the the wrong guys just think of it as an easy game. There is nothing bad in it. You sound smart so just stay smart and don't trust any guy unless you feel sure. That doesn't mean you don't trust anyone though. You're beautiful. Be proud of that :)

[523206720]

Guys love innocent girls. Most guys do anyway. You have the jerks who don't but they are so temporary and different from you they are best left alone.

[Anonymous]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Berethor]

Innocent and childish women are closely associate with not being an slut and with with being young, so if you are pure and young, there are many men who might like that, but if you not, then your childishness is not really justified.

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[oldanddecrepid]

You are in an age bracket that most girls have those traits, so I would say you are average with respect to them.

Just because you have not been to club or concert before has nothing to do with being naive, etc., It would only be childish if those things became your only reason for life after you tried them.

Most women I know at even 35-40 get excited about cute things... I think it is just a girl thing, nothing wrong with that!

[DasVoz]

That'll be my preference. My worldview is very rigid and matter of fact, and it would be refreshing to be with a girl that finds humor in the little things. The energy of true feminine personality is fascinating to me.

[slatyb]

We all act childish sometimes. You are fine. Pay no attention to the people who laugh at your lack of street smarts. If you don't want to drink that's fine too.

Some guys will be charmed by your inexperience. Relax.

[1Analyst]

Men PREFER women like you. They're used to and bored of sluts by now. Cheers !

[Anonymous]

im pretty much the same (but it doesn't show on the outside)... we get taken advantage of by some men
since were naive, the oldest tricks in the book wrk on us like a charm... just be careful and stick to your Gfs (The good ones) they will help you

[Homebakedcookies]

Men love innocent women. They don't particularly care for childish ones.

[Filipe97]

I think it's cute and adorable. I'd date a girl like that :)

[Anonymous]

If I'm to be totally honest, I would not date a girl like that. But that's me personally, there's millions of guys out there I'm sure you'll find one.

[Asker]

Why is that? Just curious.

[skeptic007]

sounds like you have a good family take there advice

[adamski24]

not always a bad thing.
it can be good at times

[Anonymous]

Cute and naive, sure but not immature.