I've always kind of been a loner myself.
It really depends though. If you are so shy and closed off from the world that it's hard to get to know you then no, I don't think much of you.
I like to think of myself as a loner because I love being alone, have very few (but very close) friendships, and have always felt like I don't fit it well. I do think I have good people skills and treat people well, however, if I find someone to not be intellectual or share some of my same interests, then I will not talk. I hate small talk or talking just to talk.
If you were a loner in that sense, instead of the closed off, impossible to learn more about then I would love you because that's how I am. There's nothing wrong with being a loner in my opinion.
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I would think something's wrong with them. Like they're depressed or into some weird crap. I'm alone most of the time but it's definitely not by choice: I thrive off of being around people, but I just don't mesh well with my environment.
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It doesn't really matter to me. I'm a loner too, so it'd be pretty hypocritical to judge someone else about that.
Well if you want to be a loner what does it matter what we think of you? Obviously girls arnt always looking for sexual relationships or a boyfriend. You could get many girls that are friends.
I tend to think that they just either enjoy solitude, have social anxiety, or just don't know how to interact with people.
that you have a lot of social issues. don't feel bad I do as well. It is called not blending
I probably wouldn't get to know him if he keeps pushing me away in favor of being alone, right?
Normal - especially in your teens.
20+ --- I think they might have some issues, being angry or depressed the major two.I generally make it my mission to hang out with loners. I don't like to leave people out.
It's okay. I understand loners because I'm one myself. lol
I am a loner myself, and I prefer my guys that way too.
All good ha, prefer to be a loner myself.
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