What do guys think of attractive loner girls?

[Anonymous]

I go to a big university, I'm extremely shy and I have anxiety, which isn't the easiest thing to deal with. While walking around campus I usually have my headphones in and in between classes I usually sit in my car. I also sometimes put my hood up because it makes me feel more comfortable. I would consider myself above average attractive based off what people say. Random guys around campus also approach me and hit on me, although they are usually never my type. However, there is this one specific guy I've never met who has seen all of my "loner behaviors." He always stares at me and never breaks deep eye contact. He also never smiles. I'm just wondering what he could be thinking about me, since I'm pretty sure he knows I'm a loner and he stares a lot. Does he think I'm just weird or is he checking me out? I wouldn't say he's checking me out though because he always stares super deeply into my eyes.

[JSmuve]

Stop. You had me at attractive.

All kidding aside. Depending on what her behaviours are like that might make you more approachable. Most guys won't approach a girl who's with her friends or in public where people can watch. Isolating yourself might actually make you more approachable in that regard. However, if you're constantly avoiding people then that would make things difficult.

The guy in question is definitely intrigued by you, otherwise he wouldn't be paying much attention to you. He's probably trying to figure out whether you wanna be approached or not.

[steveguitar]

I rarely see girls being loners, its rare, but since I am also shy and socially awkward nothing would happen anyways. but I would assume that if she was attractive, or even just on her phone or whatever, listening to music, that I wouldn't approach her anyway.

being a loner I know that we look unapproachable, and weird to social people,

[Asker]

Yeah, it wasn't until recently that I realized how weird I must look fast walking around my campus with my hood up for no reason :/

[steveguitar]

lol, yeah it can look weird, but honestly if that's what you feel like doing, just do it

[meatballs21]

How is someone meant to tell the difference between 'attractive loner girl who wants to be left alone' and 'attractive loner girl who wishes you'd come talk to her'?

You might be a perfect match for each other but you have put so many overt barriers up with your behaviour that it seems to be sending a huge STAY AWAY signal that's visible from space :(

[MrAtticusLebowski]

he's likely thinking about approaching you but is thinking long and hard about crossing that line. People that are loners don't usually care to be gentle when rejecting any advances from the opposite sex.

[GymBumGuy]

when i look deep into a girls eyes i am usually trying to finger her out but i am pretty sure he is attracted to you esp if you say you are above avg try to smile or just wavy something just to break the ice it will get more easy after that

[Juspham]

Lol. I think your trying to say *figure*

[GymBumGuy]

*figure

[GymBumGuy]

yea sounds so dirty ~_~

[Ihav2fart]

You're an enigma, and easier to approach since you're alone.

[Asker]

But he never does :/

[Ihav2fart]

That's his game, he see's those guys approach you. Playing it hard to get, making you think about him!

[Chris011]

If you are attractive, like you say you are, then I am pretty sure he is probably checking you out.

[Klaatu51]

i'd say they r "inaccessible" basically..

[Anonymous]

Id say keep away from that one,

[Asker]

As in, keep away from the guy or me?

[Opinion Owner]

Guy is creepy. His Repetative deathgaze without emotion or action, scetchy?

your just in your car and he staring?
he follow you?

[Asker]

It's really not a death gaze, it's kinda just a relaxed face. He's actually rather cute, doesn't appear to be creepy at all. I never smile either though. No, he isn't following me :D

[Opinion Owner]

Also, why you not letting them into your life? You dont seem bat-shit crazy.