Girls, what do girls think of guys who are loners? even if the guy is hot?

[kriskiss]

what do girls think of loners even, if they are hot. I am a nice looking guy and women tell me so, but I often go out solo at the shore to bars and like meeting new people. That is just the way I am. And if women do not see you with other people/friends do they think the guy is weird and unapproachable?

[aliceinrealworld01]

there are just people who go through life alone. Like they have friends but they're just loners. However this doesn't stop them from being accomplished and successful. If you're a doer and active and just have this independent vibe about you... That can be very attractive.

Sometimes lonely people just see through other people and that's why they never develop any serious relationships. As in they see people's true motives and intentions, which makes it difficult to become friends with them, because most people are full of shit. Anyway, what I'm trying to put across is that I like it when there's a purpose to the loneliness, when the guy CHOOSES to be alone rather than there's something wrong with him. I'm a loner too, I don't think I have any real friends. I recently found this article on empaths. They are a type of people, google it, perhaps you'll relate.

[Sweethrts]

Not at all! I admire a guy who isn't afraid of standing alone. It makes him appear more confident and independent, which is something most girls love. It shows that you don't need to go out with anyone to have a good time, which is almost like a challenge to girls because then they feel like they should try and change your mind about being a loner and will end up falling for you along the way.

[Anonymous]

It's not a turn off for me, but that's because I'm pretty much that way too. I understand how it is to be a loner from personal experience. Most people think loners are anti-social, but really we're just looking for the right person to talk to. It would be nice to talk to someone who understands what it's like to be a loner. Most of the time I'm just stuck reading or listening to music.

[Anonymous]

For me it's attractive. I'm usually the curious type and if I seen an attractive guy alone of course I'm gonna ask him if he wants some company (; and he just wants to be left alone then that's fine with me also! Just make sure if you're alone and you do want some company make yourself seem friendly enough to approach, like chitchat with the bartender or waiter or whatever so it'll let the girls know that you are willing to be approached?

[hailmotherofjesus]

like honestly i don't really care if he's a loner. its all up to personal preference though. I like who I like and i personally don't care whether or not he's "popular". So no I don't think that they think of you as unapproachable. just make sure that your body speech is approachable, like dont cross your arms and look stuck up.

[findingdreamland]

Generalization I guess. I also like going out alone. I don't see any problems about it. We all need those moments.

[The_moon]

I don't think you are a loner. Sometimes we as human need to be alone in different way. Sometimes, i like go travel by my self for refresh my mind. Not weird at all, you're good!

[Anonymous]

Personally I think it's fine. I'm a bit of a loner myself. I'm polite and friendly with people, but I prefer to do things on my own. Maybe because I am similar, I don't find this unusual.

[MissNowhere]

That's no problem with me. Seriously!! I know all about that loner life, I'm a loner too.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion guys that are shy or are loners it makes them wayyyyy less attractive because they don't seem interested in you even if they are hot it is a plus but if they have to friends it's ok as along as it won't effect them in anyway