What do guys think about a girl who is always alone?

[spice]

I haven't been in a relationship for a long time. That's why in a date, when I told this, the guy I've been dating told me that that can't be true. Why not? What do guys think about a girl who is always alone?

[diamond]

I remember pondering what guys might think about a girl who always seemed to be alone. Well, opinions on this can vary widely, just as they do among individuals. Some guys might see a girl who prefers solitude as independent, self-sufficient, and confident in her own company. They might admire her ability to enjoy life on her own terms, valuing her individuality.

On the other hand, there could be guys who misinterpret a girl's solitude, thinking she's lonely or anti-social, which may lead to misconceptions about her personality.

Ultimately, what guys think about a girl who is often alone depends on their own experiences, beliefs, and preferences. It's essential to remember that being alone doesn't necessarily indicate a problem; it can reflect a person's desire for introspection, personal time, or simply a different social preference. How guys perceive it may also evolve with maturity, as they come to appreciate and respect individual choices and boundaries in relationships.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

As long as no mental or physical issues that may make dating difficult. This is how you can easily separate loser "men" from real men.

Loser "men" debase this because they are constantly seeking cheap women = easy sex & not being with someone recently is a strong indicator you're not cheap & easy.

Loser "men" are more used to sluts, whores, tramps, prostitute wannabes who are constantly sleeping around, etc. because these women have little self respect and are willing to jump into the bed of any douchebag that says hello to them. These loser "men" have low standards and the women they assoicate with even lower standards.

On the other hand

Real men won't care if you've been with someone 1 year ago or 5 years ago.

If anything a real man - again not loser "men" - would have respect that you have maintained standards rather than settle / sleep with whatever douchebag happens to say hello. A real man would be impressed that you have self respect & self esteem and have not being wasting your life by sleeping with loser "men" as listed above.

[Angelo75]

Well that there must be a reason that they end up being alone.
And since that reason isn't obvious, then probably it's a bad reason which they're trying to hide.
The last thing a guy would think is that they are lucky enough to have met a nice girl who is still single.
It's the same feeling as winning the jackpot. You know there is a chance, but you don't believe it will happen to you in your lifetime.

What I wrote is not meant as an insult or attack.
You asked for "what guys think", so I wrote what I tend to think. Well what I used to think.

[DarkWinterNights]

You have to view it from a man’s perspective. For most guys who aren’t very successful with women they grow up watching all the women in their life have absolutely no issues finding dates, partners, husbands, etc. to the point where they just think that women have no issues dating by default. So if a woman tells them they do have trouble or has never dated it throws up red flags and they may think you’re either lying to them or you have serious problems.

[Monalisa77]

Men don't have to worry about looking good, most are good looking by default

[SakuraBlossoms87]

Reality
As long as no mental or physical issues that may make dating difficult. This is how you can easily separate loser "men" from real men.

Loser "men" debase this because they are constantly seeking cheap women = easy sex & not being with someone recently is a strong indicator you're not cheap & easy.

Loser "men" are more used to sluts, whores, tramps, prostitute wannabes who are constantly sleeping around, etc. because these women have little self respect and are willing to jump into the bed of any douchebag that says hello to them. These loser "men" have low standards and the women they assoicate with even lower standards.

On the other hand

Real men won't care if you've been with someone 1 year ago or 5 years ago.

If anything a real man - again not loser "men" - would have respect that you have maintained standards rather than settle / sleep with whatever douchebag happens to say hello. A real man would be impressed that you have self respect & self esteem and have not being wasting your life by sleeping with loser "men" as listed above.

[ManOnFire]

Most men think most women are always dating someone or having sex, so if you're legit not doing either of them then they will find it hard to believe.

[exitseven]

I think that maybe she would like some company.

[AVirgoMan]

A girl who's always hanging around doesn't give me confidence. I'd rather her stay at home.

[Masterodd]

depends if she is batshit crazy... but there is your answer. :)

[balyai]

I don't know. But I'm fine if someone says they haven't dated for a long time

[Monalisa77]

What if never at my age?

[Sunssong]

@Monalisa77 I mean you can't be mad at someone for living their own life.

[Monalisa77]

? Its not a choice lol

[balyai]

@Monalisa77 I would like to know their story on why they haven't cause it would make me curious. But I'm fine with it still.

[Sunssong]

@Monalisa77 It's a figure of speech in America.

[John_Cobretti]

Needs a hug I guess

[Anonymous]

that she likes to keep her own energy, I like it

[Adaeva]

The don't thank about women they never see.

[Anonymous]

She wants to be.

[Jmmmfi4]

SOUNDS LIKE ME

[riverrat3]

Why do you think you are alone

[MaxUsefull]

I find it …kinda strange

[DextroShade]

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