Guys what do you think of girls who sit alone?

[Anonymous]

If they are reading a book, sitting by themselves going through their phone, sitting alone while they eat, Do you think of them as loners? Is there a time or place where it is weird to see someone alone, and other times whens its just whatever?

[kngrus]

Sometimes people like to be on their own, sometimes that just shows who they are... Sometimes it makes them stand out in good and bad ways.There's a difference in avoiding or being avoided though... Meaning, If you would be someone who is on your own because that's what you like then your avoiding and well, not being very sociable and that can draw different crowds... You would be avoided by other crowds depending on who you are, what you do and what you say to others. I honestly think the quite and lonesome gir is the best! They tend to (not always) are the safest to be with, unlike the party hard girls who most likely will go behind your back. Phones are very unaatractive! Don't be on your phone on purpose! its kind of a turn off when a girl looks to be addictive to their phone especially when they say that they are =/ If you are just going somewhere alone where a bunch of people are like a cafeteria and you having nothing to do while killing time, the phone helps just to feel awkward ha ha And if you ever want to get someone to notice you while walking by, don't turn to your phone, but stare them right in the eyes, and give a smirk :p If the other person keeps looking back and away that's good but eventually they will stare back. Or if they don't pay attention at all, he or she probably stil notices.

[markml]

Maybe, but that doesn't mean it's a bad thing.

You shouldn't feel like you need to have company where ever you go or whatever you do.

And it's not always a bad thing to stand out. I admire girls who are independent a lot more than the ones who always cling to their friends to "appear normal".

And for some of the things you mentioned (i.e. reading a book, looking at your phone), it makes most sense to do those things alone, and the only question is whether you want to do them in public or private. If you're too embarrassed to do any solitary activity in public, then I guess that no one will ever know that you actually read books.

[IAmAnon123]

In a school setting, I might think that a little bit, but I assure you it would be without any of he negative connotations. In fact I'd probably develop a bit of a soft spot for you if I saw you like that every day. If it was in public like a park or a food court or something I would just think that you're probably very content with yourself and how you spend your time.

[Asker]

I like this...content with yourself..i believe that me haha

[JohNfromKolob]

It honestly makes me kinda heppy to see that..to know that there are girls that do tha tkidna thing...I always felt weird whenever I would eat alone..be alone etc...and to see a girl doing that kidn agives me confidence that its okay to be that way sometimes...now, I'm SUPER shy...but it would make me feel like I could approachc the girl...but I still liekly wouldn't because of the shyness thing

[darkknight1x]

I don't think of them as loners. If I saw an attractive girl that was by herself doing whatever I would think its a good opportunity to ask her out. I don't think its weird at anytime or place that they're alone unless I see the girl going into the woods, walking on the side of a highway,..etc

[girl_interrupted]

What does look like this attractive girl to you?

[Asker]

girl interrupted you make no sense...

[ihatework]

it's not weird at all to me. I do that pretty much everyday.