Suppose a hot guy is introverted?

[Anonymous]

if suppose you have a crush on hot guy who is introverted and has no friends or one or two friends , will you still like him, what comes up to your mind? do you question why he doesn't have much friends or why he is introverted and quiet? what effect does this on your opinion or chances of dating him

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be honest ! please

[udolipixie]

if suppose you have a crush on hot guy who is introverted and has no friends or one or two friends , will you still like him, what comes up to your mind

I think it's a shame for me that hotness is wasted on an introverted guy.

what effect does this on your opinion or chances of dating him

I'll still find him hot as I based attraction solely on looks. I won't date him as I find introverted guys tend to be bitter, resentful, and misogynistic. I also find they tend to be into male-dominated activities and male-centric online areas both of which I find tend to have some skewed notions about gals and perpetuate a violent/sexist culture towards gals.

[Rloco]

I'm just curious on where you got this opinion on introverted guys. I'm honestly the opposite of what you described an introverted guy to be. Did an introvert hurt you in the past?

[udolipixie]

@Rioco
I got this opinion based on observations of them. This opinion isn't something new or uncommon plenty of gals I know encounter violence/sexism on online male-centric spaces. There's even sites about the content the gals receive.

[Asker]

@ Rloco thats what it looks like

[PtitZiziSolitaire]

What? Expect some videogames kids/guys (but who's not necessary introverted), all introverted guys or gals aren't not like that. A asshole is a asshole, but this is not link with his introverted or not. You can find a plenty of extraverted guys who's misgynic, bitter, etc...

[udolipixie]

@PtitZiziSolitaire
In your opinion there is no link. In my opinion in my observations there is a high likelihood that if a guy is introverted he's bitter, resentful, and/or misogynistic. Either due to being into male-dominated activities and male-centric online areas where sexism/violence towards gals is accepted/encouraged. Or due to his failures with gals and his reaction often being he's this flawless being and the only possible reason gals reject him is because they are too stupid/slutty to see how awesome he is and clearly want to be abused.

[Anonymous]

I would think he was shy and found it hard to trust people, and maybe had been let down a lot by people. So has decided to depend on himself. I'd think he craved someone to share his life with, and had so much love to give, but was apprehensive about being open with people for fear of rejection.

I am not saying this is necessarily true about him, this is just the impression he would give me.

[CupKate6]

Some people are content just to be with themself and have only a couple of really good friends (like me really). People like that, I normally find, are really sensitive and in tune with the needs of others, and just generally awesome people that you can have some of the best times with.

[Tacomeat]

Good question. I know guys typically dont care about how many friends a female has but females tend to lend a lot of weight. Its weird because its shouldn't have an effect if they like you or not...

[Klaatu51]

being introverted has NOTHING 2 do with appearance basically... ;-)

[Asker]

yeah I know but girls might still like an outgoing guy who is popular and experienced u know !

[spuitkaas]

Yeah I would be a little bit like 'why is he introverted and has no friends?'. I would give him a chance, but I would have my doubts at first. Also because I'm not really introverted so I have to see it for myself then.

[Bards]

Well I might think he's may be a miserable type of person or he's just doesn't like to be bothered much. I'll still like them but I probably won't do anything about it

[Asker]

what do you mean miserable type of person? elaborate more?

[Bards]

Someone who does drives people away with the woo is me stuff, not very pleasant, or fun to be around or something

[MissNowhere]

That would be ideal. I wouldn't question him bc I fully understand.

[hypno-trip]

Most girls will like him unless he is too shy and introverted.

[KDA20]

If it was a girl don't think it would matter to me

[Anonymous]

Ideal because I'm introverted too

[GirlsEatGirls]

Wowwwww
He sounds perfect! I would marry him

[Anonymous]

he prolly has a small willy