Dude!!! If you don't have anything to hide you wouldn't be so worried!!! Sometimes women are just like that. You should just tell her how you feel. Try to build mutual trust by saying something like "I'll show you my texts if you show me yours" she will see that by you voluntarily showing her what you have she will know she can trust you plus, like I said, by you asking her to show you her texts as well will build mutual trust and she will also Understand how silly she is acting
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Trust violation? Were not dr phil or your girlfriend so there's no need to to play that card. You have to expect that at some point people are gonna look through your phone especially your partner. Delete and passcodes are a good way to prevent them from seeing things. Also if my girl was talking to some guy I'm gonna want to know who he is and what his story is, Even if she told me I'm still not gonna be cool with seeing a text from someone saying they want to bang her.
your first mistake was not telling your girlfriend right off the bat that you got a text from that girl but obviously there are trust issues. she's insecure either through her own issues or not being able to trust you because of your actions. you guys need to have a talk about if there are any trust issues, etc etc
i used to do that to my man and it was because I didn't trust him and honestly I still don't but I realize that females are gonna say things like that and I should just let them go because I know he loves me. jsut sit her down and tell her how you feel
Tell her how you feel in a calm fashion...women are insecure...hopefully the situation resolves itself
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then try talking to her and explain to her that ur upset,
tell her that she's a friend and she was drunk.
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