Why do girls put their hand on a guys thigh?

[Dave20151]

We were just talking, and she decided to put it there, why?

[Anonymous]

I guess she is interested. I also am not sure when a girl did this to me - she put her bare feet on my thigh and also crotch area?

I think if a girl touches you on the thigh mid convo - she likes you.

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[kaylaS91]

I've only ever done that with my current boyfriend. Reasons why would include if I want to let him know that I'm turned on while we're out in public. If we're at a friend's party of any sort at a club/bar and sitting next to each other, I'll do that to just kind of make a point that we're together.

[Dave20151]

Have you ever done it with a stranger?

[kaylaS91]

no, definitely not

[Dave20151]

So why would she do it with me

[kaylaS91]

Most girls do things differently. She's probably just more of an extrovert and was coming on to you. Some girls are pretty touchy naturally with no real hidden intentions behind it though so.. the only way you can figure out why is by just asking her. Don't look for explanations from other people who have no knowledge of other interactions between you two.

[Dave20151]

So was she JUST out for sex?

[kaylaS91]

no, she could be interested in more. A good way of testing the waters for that is seeing if there's chemistry by small physical things like that but you're just shooting in the dark with trying to explain her behaviour.

[Dave20151]

"small physical thing"? Like the touching of the thigh?

[kaylaS91]

yeah well touching of the thigh would be a bit much for me but if I'm interested in starting something with a guy, I might touch his arm a bit more when making a point, rest my hand on his shoulder when joking around with him, etc.. Just to test how comfortable he'd be with that, so that might be what she's trying to do. She could just be interested in sex, so ask HER, not us.

[Dave20151]

When I put my arm around her, she leaned in to me to "cuddle"

[kaylaS91]

good sign possibly. Then again, it could've been nothing more than platonic to her. You're just playing Russian roulette at this point.

[SonicRiver]

It's a sign of affection. I do it all the time when driving.

[Dave20151]

Road head, lol

[Goldie757]

She was trying to show interest.

[Dave20151]

How so?

[Goldie757]

By being flirtatious.

[Dave20151]

So girls touch you like that, to be flirtatious? I thought that was s myth?

[Goldie757]

Yes. It's not a myth, lol.

[Dave20151]

Huh, then a lot of girls must not know what they're talking about then, eh?

[Goldie757]

Yep. ☺

[Dave20151]

So am I just her sex toy, or do you think she likes me

[Goldie757]

Depends on the rest of her body language and convo.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps she wants the d.

[Dave20151]

Why do you think that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because that's the only socially acceptable place to put your hand as close to their crotch without people looking at you with disgust.

[Dave20151]

They wouldn't have seen it

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe she's just trying to be modest about her real interest. ;)

[Dave20151]

She asked me if I was doing anything that night

[Dave20151]

... and when I said "I'm not sure yet, I may go home and practice a little bit or whatever" I asked her the same thing back and she said "oh, probably just laundry. Was she trying to get me to go out with her that night?

[Dave20151]

I actually just wound up falling asleep that night, I was delirious

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah when she initially asked you what you were doing that night she was hoping you'd say "oh nothing much really, wanna come over"?

[Dave20151]

So was I playing hard to get, and didn't realize it?

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds more like you were clueless of her interest in you lol but next time you see her ask her if she's got plans for tonight but with enthusiasm

[Dave20151]

But does she see me as just sex, or?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, how well do you know her and how long did you know her?

[Dave20151]

Just met

[Opinion Owner]

Does she seem to give out a slut vibe?

[Dave20151]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

How does she act, dress, and speak? Where did you guys meet?

[Dave20151]

She doesn't act dress or speak slutty (if that's possible), and I met her at her work

[Opinion Owner]

Oh than yeah than she's just into you, probably not just for sex though.

[Dave20151]

She indirectly asked me to hangout, but I don't want to be her boost call, if that's what I am

[Dave20151]

Booty*

[Opinion Owner]

Usually bootycalls are around midnight. If she just wanted to hangout at a respectable time than it doesn't sound like a bootycall