Why do guys put their hands on a girl's hips or around the waist?

[Anonymous]

i've noticed that guys do this often and am wondering if there's a reason for it. not that I don't like it :) but even guys I talk to casually at a bar, they often put their hands around my waist. (in an unremarkable way)

and this other guy I was dancing with had his hands on my hips (=normal) but then he suddenly applied a lot of pressure. like I could feel it to my hipbones... why did he do that?

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+1 y

hmm...so you'd say it's a sign that he's interested?


and why did this other guy apply pessure? have you guys done that before?

[Spirit156]

I prefer to touch something else but yeah its better to touch her hips/wraist first, specially in front of others in public

Its kinda awkward if I grab your cleaverage or enter your pants in public, no?

[Asker]

yea makes sense lol

[Spirit156]

Hmm I guess not because your still clueless after I read your update lol

[sixstring]

It's part of the flirting process. Entering her personal space is a clear way to show interest, and it's easy to see if she likes it or not.

[Anonymous]

Because he wanted to bang you. That drives almost everything we do.

[Opinion Owner]

The pressure was probably a test to see how you'd react to being touched in a more personal way. You really can't be that surprised that he just wanted you to get in bed.

It's either that or he just had a muscle spasm but I really doubt that.

[Asker]

well I hope he didn't mean to tell me something with that move. because I was clueless lol I just thought he wants me to dance the way he likes it

[FaceInTheCrowd]

It is a territorial tie sign ... which says that they own your p**** =)

[Anonymous]

he wants to f***.

[Asker]

isn't that a bit too general?