What does it mean if a guy opens up to you?

[Anonymous]

[b_lova]

It's a sign of trust. He sees you as a friend or me more. Would you open up to someone you don't trust?

It doesn't by itself mean he sees you as a love interest if that is what you are pointing towards.

[mistershy94]

It means he considers you a good friend and he trusts you deeply.

[ohsheeT]

Do. You mean like a trench coat. It probably means that he has a smile on his face and he's flashing you. Lol

It all depends on what he's opening up to you about if he's serious or is he manipulating you to make you feel something so he can get what he wants from you there could be all different reasons but if you truly likes you he would do it maybe in little baby spurts he wouldn't just open up and start telling you everything

[Anonymous]

Maybe he feels close to you. I don’t mean close as in he has feelings for you other than a friend? I’d it possible? Yes. But doesn’t always mean that. I have a friend here who is a female that I always talk to, sometimes about personal things. But that doesn’t mean I’m interested in her. She’s just a a good listener. She’s always willing to help at work.

[Booklover_90]

He trusts you. Please handle what he tells you with care. Also, keep what he tells you between you and him. Don’t share it with your friends and family. If you decide to be immature and throw what he confides in you in his face in an argument, he’ll shut down and never open up to you again.

[TonyMetal___86]

Girls of these days might use this trick to use it against their men later, to discover their point of weakness so that they control him!

For example: a man who's affraid to be dumped by his girlfriend, when she becomes aware of it, than she will use it as her weapon, with every move or anything that her boyfriend does and she doesn't like it, she will start threatning him that she will leave!

[Anonymous]

Most times that means he trusts you and feels confortable with you. But don't you dare using that against him or it will haunt him for the rest of his life. Destroying his trust and using his vulnerability against him as unfortunately a lot of girls do lately.

[lucas262]

My mom and my sisters did that, Iv never forgotten how much it hurt, how betrayed I felt.

[Opinion Owner]

@lucas262 I had the same with someone I dated. Or at least thought I dated, for her it was just a game. She lead me on, broke my trust and told all her friends about it (including mocking my vulnerabilities) before someone had the balls to tell me about it some months later.

[DishLady]

It depends on the context of how I know the person. Professionally, guys do this all the time and it's just the goal of the professional interaction. Personally... it signifies a desire to grow closer.

[Nikki1989]

Opens up about what?

That could be good or awful.

[Asker]

Reveals his personal problems, which he hasn’t shared with anyone else.

[Purpleronnie]

Opens up about what? I’d say generally it sounds like a good thing but without context it’s hard to say

[Anonymous]

It means he trusts you and is comfortable with allowing himself to feel vulnerable around you.

[Alex-Snow]

It means that he trusts you and is comfortable sharing some inner thoughts with you. It should make your relationship even better

[LittleMelissa9614]

He trust you and is comfortable telling you anything.

[Hellur991]

He's sees you as someone trust worthy. And that's definitely a plus

[ProbablyClueless]

Not much, honestly. He's just trying to see if he can trust you. Might trust you already.

[laly520]

means he is comfy enough to do so n trusts u

[JacobJordan]

That he trusts you and the second you weaponize any of that against him you are a pos and that relationship will immediately start its end phase

[sirderpsalot123]

That he's taking a risk because most women would lose respect for him

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'd rather people seek professional counselling for serious things, anyways.

[FuqUFggt]

It means he loves you like a sister. He will never have sex with you unless you force him and then he will hate you forever

[Anonymous]

Ritual suicide with a sharp knife?
He opens up and show his guts.

[Friendlybro79]

If you're glad he opened up to you then you could ask him and stop wondering.