Why did my date unfollow me on Instagram?

[Anonymous]

I don't like to make a big deal out of social media but I noticed that this girl I had my 3rd date with the other day just unfollowed me on Instagram.

Again its just social media, but it seems odd that it would happen all of a sudden especially when they would like a bunch of stuff you post the majority of the time.

What would cause this?

[luvitall]

Weird,... maybe she hit the wrong button or they are just removing social media from there life.. see how it plays out

[Asker]

Yeah it's just weird but yeah I'll see how it plays out.

[DaniaMQ]

I have no idea, I think its better to ask her, only she knows what's truly the reason

[bombbomb]

heyyy, can u text me pm?

[DaniaMQ]

@bombbomb uhm first off can I ask why? Like is it something important you want to ask or?

[bombbomb]

mnmn. it is public place, ofcourse i will tell u the reason in pm :)

[Asker]

I'd talk to her first via text or snapchat. I think asking her about this would come off as very clingy

[DaniaMQ]

Well, maybe give it some time until u get to know her more then ask about it @Asker and hood luck 😊

[DaniaMQ]

**Good luck

[DaniaMQ]

@bombbomb I can't text you unless you follow me, so you must follow me so that I can PM you

[Asker]

Thanks

[bombbomb]

i have followed you :)

[teawrecks]

I noticed you said you had sex. Maybe she got what she wanted.

[Asker]

Yeah but it's a tough situation because we have so much in common and get along great. She even talked about watching horror movies and shows together in the future and we're supposed to go to a festival this weekend. Like she asked me if there was still tix left and bought one then snapchatted me about how excited she was for it.

[teawrecks]

Well if insta is the only thing she unfollowed you from then stop sweating it until she stands you up this weekend

[Asker]

Yeah I know I over analyze shit. Most of its due to the fact that she just recently got out of a 5 year relationship and acted hot and cold for awhile.

[NajemEddine]

see the other accounts fb twitter..
if she removed u on them also
than get the hint

[Asker]

We're still friends on snapchat

[NajemEddine]

than its a mistake
if she was gonna blow u off she would delete u from all accounts

[Asker]

Yeah I mean she didn't completely block me from Instagram. I can still see hers. I'm just over analyzing shit because I had a very awkward moment with her when I saw her 2 days ago.

[NajemEddine]

do u feel she changed from earlier
chances are she is distancing herself bit by bit

[Asker]

Actually no, she's been hitting me up more through snapchat and text last week between our 2nd and 3rd date. And even though she's new to this area, she's text me about random shit happening in my town

[NajemEddine]

than its an mistake i m 98/100 sure

[Asker]

She's just been super busy as of late with school stuff as she's a grad school student and works full time on the side too. For awhile between our first and 2nd date, she seemed to be acting hot and cold. Like if ask her to chill, then she'd be busy but not offer to reschedule.

[NajemEddine]

i wouldn't read much to it

[Asker]

I'll pm you

[NajemEddine]

okay

[Saoirse_Nua]

Have you talked to her since - How did conversation go?

[Asker]

I have not. Thought I'd give her some space. I'll hit her up tonight or tomorrow. This is why I hate mind games. Makes me feel like I'm always walking on eggshells

[singlebee]

Not a good sign I guess...

[Asker]

Not that there's a correlation between this but we had sex our first time the other day, but do you think she might have thought I was bad at sex therefore is cutting off contact?

[singlebee]

I don't know ask her maybe?