Girls, Is politeness an attractive quality to you?

[NYkid27]

A lot of people tell me I'm nice, polite, and other things like that. I always do little things like holding doors, letting girls go first, pulling out chairs, and taking off my jacket and giving it to my friend or date when she's cold. I basically do those things instinctively because of how I was raised so I'm curious if girls consider it a positive in a guy.

[kitty_98]

yes politness is key. they way somone treats others can tell a lot about somoneone's character. however never treat other girls like you do to your partner/girlfriend. Not saying you should treat the rest like trash. but treat her even better as if she's on a pedestal against them and she will most likely treat you the same way

[Sevenyoung]

Besides intelligence, thats one of the most attractive things i find in a guy. I would be so offended (bot offended but i can't think of another word) if im cold and my date doesn't give me his jacket (i probably won't accept it but him trying is so polite and attractive).

[ghostgrl]

you would be offended if he didn't offer you his jacket but you wouldn't even take it if he did offer? that makes no sense.

[Sevenyoung]

Its the thought that counts. I probably would accept it so he doesn't feel let down or anything

[Razzle-Bedazzle]

Yes it's a quality I look for in a guy. If he's rude and impolite it's a turn off. It costs nothing to be polite. There's no need to be mean , rude or impolite to anyone. If someone's impolite I just think they've got a huge chip" on their shoulder so I don't associate with them

[dsunday]

It is a positive quality but you have to understand attraction. I won't fall in love with a guy simply because he's polite. Politeness is good quality; much better than rudeness. But is that all he has to offer as a human being? Is he polite as well as a good conversationalist, funny, creative and adventurous? Attraction is rarely based solely on one attribute.

[Sugarplum21]

Of course! Why would any girl not? Unless she like cold blooded or something. Gosh that's an amazing trait.

[NYkid27]

Some girls say nice guys are too soft and things like that but I don't get it. You can be nice without being a pushover

[Sugarplum21]

You those girls are like independent feminist types prolly. Who the heck woukd say that, unless they want a bad guy and have a hard ass life.

[Sugarplum21]

*yep

[aboyd1]

Most definitely especially in a time where chivalry is quite rare. Love a gentleman 😍🤗 Wish I could find a guy like you

[aboyd1]

Props to who ever raised you 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's a really awesome quality honestly :)
Way too many dudes are jerks nowadays so it's a really good trait and don't let others bullshit you into thinking otherwise. Good manners paired with a great personality and person is just the bomb.

[fauchelevent]

It is. It's how I was raised to act towards others so it irritates the hell out of me if someone else doesn't do it.

[ZellRocx666]

I like good manners in a guyway. But Sometimes I prefer.. uhh rude guys not rude in the sense that they try to put people down but rather to show that they are in command

[NYkid27]

I'm very assertive and I don't let anyone boss me or anything. I'm just polite because I think you should treat people how you want to be treated

[ZellRocx666]

That's a positive quality

[karahiri]

It absolutely is. A well-mannered person is just that much more attractive.

[Helloyouhowareyou]

Yyeeeessssss!!! Keep on doing that! Such a gentleman and you don't get those guys around here.

[Evegon1994]

yessssssssssssssssss that takes you far with a girl... when you are sexually active don't ask for sex don't force yourself let the girl do that

[Evegon1994]

let her make the first move when it comes to sex after she makes the first move the you can force yourself on her and what not hen ever you feel like it

[Skule]

It is definitely a positive trade and not so often found in guys. Well, at least not here where I live. Keep up the good work. Manners maketh man and that is so damn true

[Stephanie_Hi]

Chilvary is hard to find these days! I would love for someone I date to be like that

[Alicia24]

For me yes it is cause I'm big on manners and respect.

[Jemini_Crocket]

Definitely. The opposite of it is unacceptable.

[deraz24]

Yes it goes a long way

[littleheartbigbooty]

Yesss very attractive

[Bettyblue]

Hell yes!!! Nothing's better

[lonelygal10133]

i think so but sometimes i'm into the bad boy

[NYkid27]

I'm not a pushover at all unlike some "nice guys". I'm just very polite because my parents drilled it into us when we were younger. Would you like a guy like that?

[RhythmBlack]

yes.

[ChanRin]

absolute turn-on tbh

[Nadzzz]

yeah ofc it is <3

[Soniant]

Yes ofc! 😍

[Alyssa_D]

yes... definitely 😍

[Livaa]

Yes very.