Girls, Are you into polite guys?

[Anonymous]

Like imagine a guy with an English accent that’s really polite.
My guess most women would not

Yes I am

Not really

[SueShe]

I am not dating but if I was, I would ONLY be into nice, polite and decent men. Who wants to be with abusive, toxic, bad personality kind of men?

I believe that you have a total misconception of what women want. Do you honestly think that the majority of women want to be abused, mistreated and demeaned by men? Who wants to have a relation with a person that is selfish and only thinks of himself, does not care about his girlfriend? Those would be a very small minority of women that would be willing to put up with such a toxic partner.

Furthermore, accent has nothing to do with the personality and character of a person. Perhaps that you still rely on old clichés about British gentlemen. Those are a dying species that you are only likely to find among elderly people that had a decent education. British youth are just as depraved as anywhere else.

[Asker]

They always go for men that aren’t like this

[SueShe]

Then you are addressing the wrong girls.

[PrettyPriya]

Of course we like polite guys. Not sure what accent has to do with it. My current partner is what I consider a gentleman. He does all those very gentleman like things that make me feel special.

So, I consider anyone with manners and is polite to be a good person. Of course, I’d have to get to know them better and their entire personality. I can’t judge solely based on manners.

There are so many other things that have to mesh with my personality to make it a functioning relationship. But, manners or politeness is a must.

Someone with that is rude isn’t something I am going to want to be around or will tolerate. That sort of “bad guy” vibe isn’t attractive and gets boring quick.

[SueShe]

You must be ankle deep in the rain by now :-)

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe ankle or more. We have some warnings regarding the rainfall. They are issuing complementary kayaks with turndown service.

[SueShe]

You are probably politely swearing by now...

[PrettyPriya]

You are spot on. Typical weather for this time of year. While it does rain most every day, plenty of dry time early.

I have my eye on the forecast. I’m concerned about delays in departure Sunday. 😞

[SueShe]

Yes, when I read the weather conditions in your area, it says

"Heavy to very heavy rainfall at isolated places very likely over..."

But don't worry for Saturday. Your airline states on its website that they will fly with seaplanes.

[PrettyPriya]

I hope they will still provide headphones or earplugs to passengers. Not really for me but for the sanity of those seated around/near me.

[SueShe]

Don't worry, it is a standard on first class.

[Blackcosmo]

Of course I do. Polite, gentle, and kind people are truly gems that should be treated with the utmost respect.

[Anonymous]

Accent makes no difference but why would I not want a polite guy? Better than an arrogant asshole.

[Asker]

Women don’t like the nicer types of guys.

[Asker]

But most women aren’t that nice so it makes sense

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a stereotype, and a false one at that. Normal women don’t actually like assholes. That’s like saying men like bitches. It’s just a stereotype and you shouldn’t throw all women into one group.

[Asker]

I get no women. Because I’m nice. I can tell that girls like me visually. But I’m too nice to hit on them

[Opinion Owner]

Let me guess. When you get rejected, you call that woman a bitch or lash out at her? You seem like a fake nice guy and that’s a big red flag.

[Asker]

I wasn’t rejected. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting rejected either. Everyone had their tastes

[Asker]

If anything I reject girls. Just the other day in a bar a girl came really close to me and started rubbing her bum on me.

[Opinion Owner]

“I get no women”… “I reject girls”. Lol.

[Asker]

Those girls don’t count. They’re the trash ones you see in a bar

[Asker]

I get no good women should I say

[Asker]

Probably because there are hardly any in modern society

[Opinion Owner]

You’re clearly looking in the wrong place. Looking in a bar is a dead giveaway. If you want a respectable woman, look in a respectable place. Don’t generalise, saying there are hardly any in todays society. There are plenty. It is not our fault you are bad at finding us.

[Asker]

I don’t know actually. Think about it, everyone will go to a bar at some point.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, but respectable women don’t go around rubbing their ass against random men. That’s trashy.

[Asker]

Yeah but they do loads of other things like put their hair over you and bump into you

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'm into polite guys but does he have a sister?

[Asker]

Yes why? 2 sisters

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I'm more interested in the sisters. Men aren't really my scene.

[Asker]

Ewww

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Right? Men are kinda gross. Glad you agree.

[Asker]

Yes they are. But I’m not.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No, you're gross, too. But just to me - I'm sure you're someone's type.

[EmmaMary]

Why wouldn't everyone... Politeness costs nothing.

[jengeorge26]

I like well mannered men