If you were in a bad mood, would you prefer to be left alone or have someone cheer you up?

Question

Some of us want to vent to a trusted friend and others like me want to be left the heck alone when we're mad/grumpy/upset! So which are you?

SilentShadow · Accepted Answer

If I'm in a bad mood, I don't wish to be left alone. I'm too familiar with that feeling. However, I don't want to be cheered up. I would rather be able to talk to someone and vent to them. If all that person is doing is trying to make me laugh, and turn the situation into a joke, that isn't going to help me. It will just make my stress or whatever seem less important because I can't talk about it. If I can't explain why I'm upset, what's the point of that person being there?

If I wasn't familiar with the feeling of true loneliness, I might have voted that I'd like to be left alone. However, I'm ALWAYS alone. When I reach such a low to where I can't even smile, I NEED someone there. But again, not to make me laugh. Just to hold and talk to.

minimars · Accepted Answer

When I'm angry I like to be left alone because when people try cheering me up it makes me angrier. I just need to go sit by myself think about what's making me mad then breathe for a few minutes and meditated on it. Then I'll be good.

1truekhaleesi · Accepted Answer

It annoys me when people try to help me when I just want to be alone. I mean what I say so if I say I want to be alone, people had better leave me alone.

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

Ideally have someone cheer me up, the problem I have is that most people around me suck at that, so I rather be left alone.

ak666 · Accepted Answer

Depends on who is trying to cheer me up. When I'm having a moody day, there are some people I could probably think about who would definitely cheer me up, and some people I definitely don't want to have around in that moment. That said, if it's one of the people I want, then by all means, I usually want to be cheered up.

User92 · Accepted Answer

I rather have someone cheer me up cause i rather have someone to talk about what was going on

RobertWill227 · Answer

That fucking "WHY SO ANGRY?" type "BE POSITIVE" annoying like they are trying to get you to physically attack them thing NO.

Other 99% of people if angry or sad, I relish the care/concern/company. But there are real d bags out there who like to provoke frustrated or angry or sad people with "hahaha why so down mister?" attitudes who need punched in the face.

bellaf666 · Answer

I don't like to be left alone but I don't like to be cheered up either. I want someone to listen to me, be like 'well that sucks' and just stay with me.

Miss_Behave · Answer

Voted A.  Only very few people could cheer me up when I'm in a bad mood, so for the most part, I'd rather be left alone.

Kolya · Answer

Usually i want someone to cheer me up but most people i know are awful at cheering people up so i do what i can myself

supernes · Answer

I prefer to be left alone. Though wouldn't mind the company of someone close if they offered to cheer me up.

RvbberDvckie · Answer

I love it when my crush tries to cheer me up lol, he just pats my head and plays with my hair

Nadzzz · Answer

I always need someone to vent but i always end up being alone when I'm crying because I refuse to cry in front of someone

peachblossomluck · Answer

Leaving me alone is the right choice☆ If my cats want to cuddle with me that's ok. No people though.

YaBaba · Answer

Cheer me up if it is someone I like (my best friend etc) Otherwise I would rather be left alone

jman46241 · Answer

I would much rather be left alone. I wouldn't want to make the situation any worse lol

sharkless · Answer

If I bad mood I want somebody cheer me up because I think when someone feel bad anybody cheer it up so be happy

Peachman · Answer

Depends if im pissed off i want someone to stop me from doing something ill regret if im sad i would want someone to cheer me up and if im in a bad mood for no reason i would want space

CaramelCookie · Answer

Definitely left alone, that's the time I don't want anyone near me

Ovidiu-Nicolae · Answer

I don't have friends to cheer me up so moetimes I try to cherr myself up

alice55 · Answer

Give me food, thats always help

Paris13 · Answer

Leave me Alone, especially At... Home. xx

karahiri · Answer

It really depends on what is making me feel bad.

reixun · Answer

Cheer me up via jokes

KnightCross · Answer

leave me fucking alone please

lime_rampljuset · Answer

If you see I'm in bad mood, better run.

Elastephen · Answer

Left alone. I alone can cheer myself up.

CyberToothTiger · Answer

I would say Cheer Me Up for sure !

bloodmountain1990 · Answer

depends on what happened

Heartonmysleeve88 · Answer

I certainly would love company.

MadBoy · Answer

I act distant... But I really really wanna hug.

Avalon2 · Answer

Hanging out with a friend cheers me up.

clampfan101 · Answer

Depends on what it's about, but usually B.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Someone to cheer me up... Im always alone..

dipta · Answer

Sometimes one, sometimes the other ^^;;

flypaper · Answer

A. I want to be left alone

TurkishGirl_ · Answer

Leave me alone😊

ChrisRRC · Answer

Both.

zombiebabe · Answer

leave me cry alone

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

"If you value your life, give me peace and quiet."

ad48hp · Answer

Tried both, didn't help.

lumberman9 · Answer

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