If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer being alone or do you prefer someone being there to cheer you up?

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Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

With someone. They won't put up with you if you're being a shit head and neither should you put up with letting yourself simmer in victim mentality.

It's really easy to pretend that you can think things though, but in reality exercising all the ways you want to manifest your hate for your enemy isn't helpful, it just makes the perception of your own life worse. Sometimes that enemy is you.

Sometimes it's best to let go, to get over yourself, and having another person present to remind you to put your shovel down before digging yourself into bigger deeper holes.

Witchyprincess · Accepted Answer

Sometimes, if I'm in a bad mood, I don't want to make another person feel negative so I'll just ask to be alone. Other people's emotions or feelings can be affected your current mood so when I'm depressed or feeling sad I just isolate myself. Also, this gives me time to think about a lot of deep stuff.

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

ALONE, TOTALLY!! Most of the time it is an imbalance in electrolytes, and having to take some medications, recovering from a serious life-threatening thing!
Some Chicken soup, maybe Ramen noodles, or Powerade, the Blue one, and good to go in 30 minutes!

Jean-Marie_Céline · Accepted Answer

Alone. Someone trying to cheer me up right away will worsen my mood and make sure I'll put them in a bad mood too.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I think it depends on the why in a bad mood and how bad a mood...
Sometimes it's nice to have someone to vent to or take your mind off things
And then there's times where prefer to be alone, work through it alone

Acxx30 · Answer

Yeah I definitely want to be left alone and to have some space! And having a girlfriend with you asking to talk and what's wrong or if they can do anything every 30 seconds doesn't help at all!.
I know they are trying to help and I appreciate it. But space is definitely needed

Twalli · Answer

It's difficult because my girlfriend is opposite. She likes to be cared for (mostly by me) when she is in a bad mood. I don't mind caring for her, but it isn't my default for bad moods. She has the same problem, she can understand leaving me alone, but that's not her default.

ohshee · Answer

Alone because I need to feel every emotion I need to understand why I feel what I feel it doesn't usually take me that long cuz I don't let things get me down there take you down it's wasted time but that little peace and quiet is something that I do

Hannah_le · Answer

I prefer to be alone when upset because when someone talks to me and I try to vent sometimes it’ll just make me feel worse about myself or Id just need time to calm down :3

ChiTown33 · Answer

It depends why i'm in a bad mood. If i'm tired it's best i'm alone. I'm most likely not going to get any better until i sleep. If i'm mad about something i can be talked down from the ledge with the right people around me.

maryisbreathing · Answer

one time when I was in a bad mood and my mum tried to comfort me I yelled "OH MY GOD, HAS ANYBODY EVER TOLD YOU HOW ANNOYING YOUR VOICE IS"
so it's just better for me to be alone because every little thing angers me when I'm upset

Agape93 · Answer

Depends on what is going on. If I’m just mad, leave me alone for a bit so I can cool my temper. But if it’s due to depression or ptsd, do not leave me alone. Hell even just call and talk to me.

Larson7 · Answer

This is going to sound strange but just for today I want to pretend that I know you somehow

OlderThanILook · Answer

Depends on who the person is. I am always in a bad mood, so I guess the people I want around me are the people I want to cheer me up?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It depends. Is it someone who can actually cheer me up? Then I don't mind hearing from them. But if it's someone that's just annoying and boring, then I'd rather be left alone.

Sorry if that sounds harsh.

Maspolomas · Answer

I get on my PlayStation and shoot people until I clear my mood

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Often it depends on what kind of bad mood and why. But usually, I want to be alone when it is.

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Be with my guy. Cuddle in silence a little bit.  If he's not around, I prefer being alone.

katiesmuff · Answer

I am so seldom given a moment alone what I would prefer doesn't matter.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Alone, although being with someone else can help. It just depends.

rodeschaap · Answer

It depends. Sometimes I need company but other times I want to be left alone

Jjpayne · Answer

Someone with me to cheer me up. But sometimes I like a little bit of both 🤔

jgokgotit · Answer

Either leave me alone, bring me some food or bring me an animal to hug

douride2 · Answer

Most times I prefer to be alone when I am in a bad mood. When I get owly other people just tend to piss me off more.

InferiorElegy · Answer

There are days I wish I had someone to hang with to help me in a bad mood but I don't and I'm always ghosted so I always just end up being alone. So I guess being alone when I'm in a bad mood.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm not usually in a bad mood but I like cheering up from someone

Wiredone · Answer

It depends, sometimes I like to just be by myself, other times I'd prefer it if someone tried cheering me up

Anonymous · Answer

Depends entirely on the person. I’d prefer to be around my good friends but not others that just annoy me more.

Browneye57 · Answer

Introverts deal with things differently that extroverts.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Alone with a cigar in one hand and a whisky in the other

pleasestopthis · Answer

Alone. When I'm angry or depressed I can't stand talking and I need silence

Horny-ashell · Answer

With someone else I get a chance to get it out and feel so much better.

alexander3244 · Answer

Depends on how bad do I feel. In most situations, I'd like to be alone but also I often crave to have a loving girlfriend who could cheer me up.

Daniel_Dano · Answer

My depression actually worsened when there were people close by , the best healing method was taking a break from everything

Still-alive · Answer

I’m like a sword that needs to cool off after being hammered and smelted

SirJohn42 · Answer

Id love company. But I guess its best to walk alone though.

Man_wearing_a_tie · Answer

In such situations, I usually prefer to be alone because if I am unhappy, I also cause unhappiness to those around me.

Satish2607 · Answer

I would love to be alone in a calm place with no people around.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I would like a Girlfriend to cheer me up but I don't have one.

Grace8393 · Answer

I'm an introvert, so I recover better when I'm alone.

admles · Answer

I went with other. I'd like time to calm down a little first, then have someone there.

misanthropistkev · Answer

I’d wanna be alone because only I know exactly how I can cheer myself up

obtuseocelot · Answer

First I need time alone, then having someone to talk to helps.

TallAnon · Answer

I'm alone all the time, so I usually talk to people when I feel down.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Oh definitely alone & trust me you don't wanna be around me till I've calmed down

Anonymous · Answer

Alone. When I am around others and in a bad mood I lose friends.

Minnie97 · Answer

Alone. In a calm and peaceful place with a book

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i need to figure it out alone

usernamexxxxʸᵉˢ · Answer

With my cat ofc and music.

mazeltov · Answer

Alone. Hello darkness my old friend...

chriscdi · Answer

leave my ass alone lol

Omar5881 · Answer

Alone I’d be furious if someone was there

Protein_mate · Answer

I need a mate to chill with

EaterPeter · Answer

I prefer to be alone quite in silence.

CubaPirate · Answer

LEAVE ME ALONE!!!@@@@

uknown789 · Answer

being alone bc its help think

Elezabeth03 · Answer

I want some alone time.

ayomanwya · Answer

Sometimes alone sometimes not alone

lillianaustin · Answer

Definitely alone

JEndigoBleue · Answer

Both.

Nayyrr · Answer

I prefer to spend time with @Account

Mylife411 · Answer

Both.

MrCreep · Answer

I'm always alone lol

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