Were you the school bully or the victim?

[the_lynch]

share a story of your respective choice.

[danceislife080]

I was the victim. All through elementary school, I was everyone favourite target. Grade 7 rolled around, when MSN was just becoming a thing -- thats when the bullying started to follow me home. I guess you could say I was cyber bullied. The hate mail I would get "No one likes you" "You should probably kill yourself", etc. etc. But I don't know, I kind of just powered through all of it, and never brought it up to anyone really. My grades were mediocre. I had a few friends, but not a lot.
Then when it came time to go to high school I begged my mother to let me go to another high school across town. I think I'd had enough of those people at this point. Anyways, she let me and it was hella worth it. It was a fresh start for me, and the bullying stopped for me.
Looking back I wished I'd done something about it. The kids who sent me the death threats could possibly have been expelled. I probably could have done better academically as well.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Neither.

I was a feisty kid , and I've always despised bullying , so I'd defend anyone who was being bullied. Even if defending them meant I'd be putting myself in harm's way. I always stood up for vulnerable people who were the victim of bullying.

I was the sort of kid that would fight back , regardless of the size or age of the bully.

[Vesuvius87]

The victim of social bullying in both grade school and junior high school.
sites.google.com/.../social-bullying
Neutral in my HS years.

[Anpu23]

Neither, I was a competition martial artist in high school (back in the 80's) I was also a punk rock loner with an Irish tenor voice who just wanted to be left alone. I had a few kids try and pick on me, I looked like easy prey, it didn't end well for any of them. I had one guy a basketball player grab some money from my jacket, you know to play keep away. I pinned him to the wall by his throat. Another one was the one guy with his two buddies tried to hem me up in the hallway between classes, i jumped up and touched just the tip of his nose with my combat boot. He jumped back completely supersized and decided that I wasn't the one. I can give other stories.

The only exception was when I was walking down the street I had things thrown at me from moving cars, not much you can do about that.

[Anpu23]

thanks for MHO

[ObscuredBeyond]

The victim- of whole mobs. Because they knew I could thwart a single threat. But I couldn't take on the entire school at once. It got physical. A lot. The things they would do... Today, the police would have been called. I was expected to walk it off.

[qwert1234]

I'm the school neutral.
I was never bullied - and never went about bullying someone else (I did my fair share, but not to the point that I do it everyday - and I did it on friends, not some random kid).

I got friends on the bully side (friends in high places lol) and friends on the other side of the fence.

To be fair - bullying was not that prevalent on the school I went it.

[John_Bishop]

I was a defender. Does that count? When at school I would see a boy or a girl being bullied by a boy. I would normally try to fix the problem by talking but if necessary I would pin the bully to the wall and ask the person being bullied to call a tutor. I never harmed a person just immobilized.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

During Middle school and High school i was severely bullied by people in school was made fun with name calling, poked with pencils & compasses, smacked in back of the head on the school bus, pinched severely, some girls would pretend to like me and it was their form of bullying me.

[FatherJack]

At first a victim , as I was a late developer in my teens , so was on the small side ( now over 17 st behind me ) ... until I turned myself into a skilled fighter...& gave the bullies some " corrective training " . I know I can defend my family , so I suppose I can thank them for that.

[Nightinggale]

I was bullied a little bit but never badly. I think people quit because it got to a point to where I would say literally anything. I dont give a fuck. You wanna bully me? Well, okay then, hows that dead mother of yours doing? And I also have slapped the piss out of people too. So yeah, just stand up for yourself and people will fuck right off.

[AryaP]

not gonna lie i was picked on in middle school but what they didn't realize was I have big anger problems and the minute i snap i dont have common sense in my brain anymore but ye i ended breaking both of the guys legs with a baseball bat lol

[AleDeEurope]

I used to be a bit of a bully when I was a kid. Never in a violent way, though, I never hit anyone, but more like mocking and shit like that. This was in elementary school though, and not in an extreme way.

[behappybabe]

I always got called a slut by girls I never talked to before. I never hung around guys, dressed provacatively or slept with anyone til highschool lol. But oh well

[strangytie]

I was the victim of a group of bullies, only one was a girl. The teacher even laughed with them. The other times I got bullied were different boys harassing me by themselves.

[ambertaylor]

Victim of girl bullies. I started puberty early in my school, age 12, so when I had breasts and grew tall and all the other girls didn't, I was teased relentlessly until they caught up.

[Chico_brah]

Maybe middle school. I was teased a little but bullying is an extreme. In high school I was neither a bully or victim.

[scragbas]

neither. a few times in highschool a bully would try to mess with me. I would just say "fuck off" and walk away.

[normalice]

people tried to bully me, but I was evasive. Honestly, I think I scared some people a little because I clearly had issues.

[Shanaya_10969]

Victim, lol. I was never on good terms with the 'popular' girls at school so they always said something mean to me.

[MlleCake]

A little of both actually. Bullies are often people who feel bullied by someone else.

[WriterAndPainter]

Neither. Someone tired it and learned real quick that wasn't happening. That and I had two older sisters that were mean to me, but didn't let anyone else be mean to me. It was their job lol

[Abhishek_Barman025]

I was both. First I try to be a nice guy. If someone bully me or my friend I go and fuck them up. I was a bully to bullies. 😈

[Iraqveteran666]

Victim for a wheel but was taught how to fight by an uncle so first day back after the summer holidays I floored the first guy giving me shit

[Paris13]

Neither One, hun.
I always Mixed and Matched with Everyone under the Friend Zone Sun. xx

[EmoKate97]

Neither. I was quiet and intimidating for some reason..

[kimichi]

Victim in the primary school years, neutral when I got older.

[alice55]

Middle school the bullied, high school nothing. i was popular but I didn't bullied people.

[Tumblrina]

Victim, stood up after years of saying nothing. Still effects me to this day

[JadeTea]

Bully victim! started in 2nd and continues I'm currently in 7th rn.

[daffe]

learn self defense. I'd suggest krav maga.

[JadeTea]

oh. ig but I'm pacifist tbh. violence just doesn't come naturally to me.

[daffe]

bullies only understand violence, but it's up to you. they won't stop picking on you until you, or someone else does something.

[JadeTea]

true. tho most kids now R rebels.

[Ironlak282]

I Don't like the term victim, it implies that the bully has successfully hurt you in some way. I have been targeted before.

[TheFlak38]

I was the victim and then became the bully. Because bullys are underrated. They see a weakness in you and they are supposed to make you stronger.

[sp33d]

I was the neutral party, whenever I was at school. I might have been at school like one month total, if we're generous.

[realperson02]

how about the one who stood up for the victim and beat up the bully? aka saviour .

[Imhotep99]

I used to be the victim and there came a time when I took martial arts and none of the bullies messed with me again.

[JustCallMeLeon]

I was shorter and much skinnier so i was bullied a lot till i was 13 or so.

[Sloane]

I'm a former bully, not proud of it though.

GIMME YOU'RE MILK MONEY! Just kidding lol

[andigutierrez]

I was bullied all through Elementary, Intermediate and Middle. Now I'm in 10th grade but I'm not bullied but I'm just a nobody

[billybobpotato]

victim, I was bullied every day for years all the way through primary, and in the first couple of years of secondary school

[jennyHofman]

i was the victim because i was the school slut hanging out with older guys..

[Pomegranate139]

I started out as the victim, then turned bully.

[Pomegranate139]

Ooh look at my downvotes! I've clearly triggered some victims!

[Máiiréad]

I got bullied for being pale.

[Fuxxx_ltd]

Baby you are beautiful

[SovereignessofVamps]

Bullied in my family. But I

[SovereignessofVamps]

*Freak out a lot, and so people don't mess with me LOL.

[LittleAmyP]

I was a victim in High School

[Sparklegemz]

I am never a bully or a victim..

[TiddleTaddle]

I was the victim. itnsucked

[MamaMax]

I was bullied for being white, in Canada.

[FaithfulGuardian]

Neither, I was a hero by standing up for victims.

[woooooooo]

I was a victim at one point

[deraz24]

Neither

[archiz]

Bullied 🙈

[rgb008]

Neither

[JosyJosy]

The spectator

[Hollywood-Glam]

I was the victim.

[CaramelCookie]

I was the bully 👀

[COCOCHANEL]

mildly bullied

[CT_CD]

Neither

[WhiteQueenn]

None of them

[doubtfire2017]

none