I was the victim. All through elementary school, I was everyone favourite target. Grade 7 rolled around, when MSN was just becoming a thing -- thats when the bullying started to follow me home. I guess you could say I was cyber bullied. The hate mail I would get "No one likes you" "You should probably kill yourself", etc. etc. But I don't know, I kind of just powered through all of it, and never brought it up to anyone really. My grades were mediocre. I had a few friends, but not a lot. Then when it came time to go to high school I begged my mother to let me go to another high school across town. I think I'd had enough of those people at this point. Anyways, she let me and it was hella worth it. It was a fresh start for me, and the bullying stopped for me. Looking back I wished I'd done something about it. The kids who sent me the death threats could possibly have been expelled. I probably could have done better academically as well.
I was a feisty kid , and I've always despised bullying , so I'd defend anyone who was being bullied. Even if defending them meant I'd be putting myself in harm's way. I always stood up for vulnerable people who were the victim of bullying.
I was the sort of kid that would fight back , regardless of the size or age of the bully.
Neither, I was a competition martial artist in high school (back in the 80's) I was also a punk rock loner with an Irish tenor voice who just wanted to be left alone. I had a few kids try and pick on me, I looked like easy prey, it didn't end well for any of them. I had one guy a basketball player grab some money from my jacket, you know to play keep away. I pinned him to the wall by his throat. Another one was the one guy with his two buddies tried to hem me up in the hallway between classes, i jumped up and touched just the tip of his nose with my combat boot. He jumped back completely supersized and decided that I wasn't the one. I can give other stories.
The only exception was when I was walking down the street I had things thrown at me from moving cars, not much you can do about that.
The victim- of whole mobs. Because they knew I could thwart a single threat. But I couldn't take on the entire school at once. It got physical. A lot. The things they would do... Today, the police would have been called. I was expected to walk it off.
I'm the school neutral. I was never bullied - and never went about bullying someone else (I did my fair share, but not to the point that I do it everyday - and I did it on friends, not some random kid).
I got friends on the bully side (friends in high places lol) and friends on the other side of the fence.
To be fair - bullying was not that prevalent on the school I went it.
I was a defender. Does that count? When at school I would see a boy or a girl being bullied by a boy. I would normally try to fix the problem by talking but if necessary I would pin the bully to the wall and ask the person being bullied to call a tutor. I never harmed a person just immobilized.
During Middle school and High school i was severely bullied by people in school was made fun with name calling, poked with pencils & compasses, smacked in back of the head on the school bus, pinched severely, some girls would pretend to like me and it was their form of bullying me.
At first a victim , as I was a late developer in my teens , so was on the small side ( now over 17 st behind me ) ... until I turned myself into a skilled fighter...& gave the bullies some " corrective training " . I know I can defend my family , so I suppose I can thank them for that.
not gonna lie i was picked on in middle school but what they didn't realize was I have big anger problems and the minute i snap i dont have common sense in my brain anymore but ye i ended breaking both of the guys legs with a baseball bat lol
I used to be a bit of a bully when I was a kid. Never in a violent way, though, I never hit anyone, but more like mocking and shit like that. This was in elementary school though, and not in an extreme way.
I was bullied a little bit but never badly. I think people quit because it got to a point to where I would say literally anything. I dont give a fuck. You wanna bully me? Well, okay then, hows that dead mother of yours doing? And I also have slapped the piss out of people too. So yeah, just stand up for yourself and people will fuck right off.
I always got called a slut by girls I never talked to before. I never hung around guys, dressed provacatively or slept with anyone til highschool lol. But oh well
I was the victim of a group of bullies, only one was a girl. The teacher even laughed with them. The other times I got bullied were different boys harassing me by themselves.
Victim of girl bullies. I started puberty early in my school, age 12, so when I had breasts and grew tall and all the other girls didn't, I was teased relentlessly until they caught up.
Neither. Someone tired it and learned real quick that wasn't happening. That and I had two older sisters that were mean to me, but didn't let anyone else be mean to me. It was their job lol
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