What are semi boners?

[Anonymous]

How do you get them? Can you get them just by looking at a girl with a nice butt in public?
do you adjust them to hide it?
how long does it last?
and is there a bulge visible?

I was shopping with my boyfriend and there was this woman with a HUGE ASS and thighs
I was like dang how is it that big
and we kinda looked
I noticed him adjust kinda and a quick bulge right after?
Maybe I'm overreacting because my boyfriend always randomly adjusts
and he said the girl wasn't hot

Updates

+1 y

It's funny how you all think it was 100% a boner
I don't think it was

[M2sean]

Sexual stimulation visual, physical or auditory. Yes, we can get a chub just from looking at a hot girl.
Compression shorts under boxers work well to hide, but sometimes adjusting is required.
Lasts however long I fantasize about the girl sitting on my lap/face/on her knees/etc etc
Depends on how hard I get. Mostly not visible, but other times will show through clothes clear as you please, layers be damned.

Good questions

[Asker]

You literally get a semi by looking? That's weird to me

[M2sean]

Looking leads to the imagination taking some liberties, yes

[razeoes]

Don’t stress on the adjust, That's just an everyday part of the job. A semi is essentially getting part of the way to a full errection and can be due to arousal, blood pressure, magical supprise boner just to wild card your day or any number of reason. I guess having to hide it would vary from guy to guy depending on the rig he's running and how far up the flag pole he gets.

[Asker]

So did he have one you think?

[razeoes]

impossible to say, could have been an itch. They say popping up about 12 times a day is a sign of normal function. So if he didn't at that time he probably did at some point within the hour.

[Anonymous]

he's a guy. he simply thought another woman was attractive. just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean he can't think other people are attractive. he's a guy, they're much more physically charged then women, so don't take it personally. you can't get made over him for something biological, he can't help it.

[dolemite68]

thank you, I don't know why women take it so personally sometimes

[Opinion Owner]

I see it this way "if I can think this celebrity I'd attractive, why shouldn't he find another woman attractive?" it's not like he's having sex with her. he isn't touching her. what's to get angry at? if you're angry about it you're literally mad at someone looking at someone. that's just ridiculous 😂

[Asker]

It's okay to look but not literally get hard with your partner right next to you

[dolemite68]

exactly, i never get mad at a girl for thinking another guy is hot, she's human too she's supposed to think guys are hot.

[Opinion Owner]

he doesn't control his dick. it's not like he said "let me get hard rn" and he got hard.
it's biological, that's like him telling you to stop having your period. you can't help it, it's nature

[Asker]

@dolemite68 I never said I get mad at him for finding other people attractive

[Opinion Owner]

well you kinda are considering he had a reflex from finding someone else attractive

[Asker]

It's not biological lmao read about it
Guys can control their dicks
It's all in the brain
They just say that to fool ditz like you

[Asker]

You can think someone is attractive without it being sexual.

[dolemite68]

doesn't work like that for guys, we're not as mental when it comes to sex its more of a response

[Pizzalover101]

If he is hard the only reason to adjust is it fell out of under wear an half hard is do to nead to Lee bad or cuz a guy was excited then had sum thing interupt there thoughts an no a guy doesn't just get half hard looking at a girl he gets hard instead if he sees a beauty full girl or sum thing sexy

[shadepudding]

It happens and he couldn't really control it don't hate him! 😬

[Asker]

I honestly doubt it
I know I'm overreacting

[dolemite68]

he did get a boner but you have to realize we can't when we see a hot girl with a nice ass its involuntary, dont take it personally

[Asker]

How are you so sure? It was literally gone in a second if it was a boner and he literally always adjusts

Ofc I'm gonna take it personally
I'm right next to him, he can be respectful

[dolemite68]

he could start to get a boner, look away and it'll start going away if he adjusts right. im saying dont take it personal that even a glance at a hot girl can get us a bit hard even if we aren't intentionally trying to check her out

[Asker]

How though
If you don't think anything sexual, I doubt you can get a boner
It's all in your head.. why do you think nudists or naturists don't get hard anymore

Should I ask him or ignore it

[dolemite68]

cuz nudists aren't usually surrounded by attractive nude people and they're more desensiitized to it, i'd just ignore it if i were u

[Asker]

But it literally bothers me
Like I keep replaying the scene in my head

[Asker]

At first I didn't think he had a boner but you guys are saying it was

[dolemite68]

just remind yourself that its not his fault

[Asker]

How? I think it was
He couldve looked away

[dolemite68]

it sounds like it was just a quick glance, stop overreacting

[Asker]

Whatever
This concludes that all men are pigs

[dolemite68]

oh grow up lol u never check out a hot guy now and again? we're all human

[Asker]

I actually don't and definitely don't get tingly or wet over it
Wtf

[dolemite68]

now ur just lying to save face, im done arguing, peace

[Asker]

I swear I don't?
But do boners really last like a second
That's weird

[dolemite68]

you can look at a hot girl start getting a boner then look away or think about something else and it will start going away

[Asker]

But right next to your partner? Like really
There's legit no way to stop it
That's odd to me
And he said her body wasn't even nice

[dolemite68]

cuz he didn't want to piss u off duh, u said she had a big ass and thick thighs thats a huge turn on to me

[Asker]

But it was like beyond the norm big
It wasn't just big like average

[Cody01]

The in between off soft and hard. There's more blood in there but it's not full.

[JamesCX]

Everyone is wrong... except you!

[Arya_Christ]

he was hard..

[Asker]

Eh I don't know
I'm overly analytical and jealous but this time I wasn't
He's always adjusting and said he didn't think she was hot

[Arya_Christ]

you know huge ass can make someone erect in no time.. he may not think she was hot but still he was a bit hard..

[Asker]

This upsets me
Should I ask him

[Arya_Christ]

no.. hey he is with you.. even if the animal inside him is hard for others the man is him is gonna give himself to you only.. so don't worry..

[Asker]

That made me really sad
Now it's gonna be stuck in my head

[Arya_Christ]

hey.. don't worry that much.. he is your boyfriend.. trust him..

[Arya_Christ]

I didn't thought it was.. I once was aroused by a girl but still was not a hard on..