Is it worse to fail at something or never attempt it in the first place?

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I've been having deep thoughts today and this one of them. Do you think it's worse if you fail at something, even though you've tried? Or do you think it's worse to never even attempt it in the first place?

I personally think it's worse to never attempt in the first place. I live by "if you never try, you'll know" and at least if you try then you will know.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Anyone throughout history that's ever done anything important has failed many, many times before their success. Perhaps the greatest human achievement so far is sending men to the moon and back - and during the 1960s, when this project was under way, there were literally tens of thousands of failures of parts, components, ideas, concepts, etc. Countless rockets blew up before they finally got one to fly, and we lost 3 astronauts on a launch pad TEST where the rocket wasn't even fueled!

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Look at sports stars: there's not a single Hall Of Famer who hasn't had many, many failures along the way. Michael Jordan - likely the best basketball player of all time, was cut from his high school team. Many of the best baseball pitchers were sent back down to the minors at some point in their career.

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Many, many musicians and bands lost contests or lost record deals prior to having a hit record. Tens of thousands of actors lost good parts, or were ignored and passed over, before fortune granted them a break that made their career.

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Of COURSE it's better to try and fail than to not try at all. Every failure is an opportunity to LEARN SOMETHING - and failure often teaches you the best, most important lessons that become key to your later success.

Embrace failure! As long as you don't let it stop you, and as long as you learn the lessons the failure can teach you, failure is a GOOD thing! There is no reward without risk.

Danimal007 · Accepted Answer

Here's one of my favorite quotes...

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." -Teddy Roosevelt

Life's too short and precious to spend it on the sidelines never taking chances...

mjz00 · Accepted Answer

hi, how about this take everything above and remove the word and conditioning of FAIL. all things have an existence a life span, a time of being, so by re learning there is no fail, its all part of the process, morcheeba

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why do we behave with a mentality of seeing the most negative outcome and thats fair enough in a natural order but often we let it stop us... thats something i miss in myself from youth and my twenties, so free and flowing, i look back and think where the hell is that person she would kick my arse now xx

ItsAMeWeirdo · Accepted Answer

I prefer just to fail at something because a lesson always comes out of it. I made tons of mistakes and I'm glad that happened because I now know my lesson and what to do next time it happens. And I learn for other mistakes and make sure to look into before I ever get into something just in case I might fail. So to be honest if your never failed, your not living.

Izumiblu · Accepted Answer

It depends. Failure can come with both a cost and a benefit or either. Generally, I think its better to have an attitude that you should try, but failure can have a cost that is significant enough to mean it would have been better to have just left it alone in the first place.

Cloudy25 · Accepted Answer

I try to live by "you won't know until you try it" but I'm also a perfectionist, so sometimes I do have trouble jumping into something without the reassurance of not failing. It's necessary to still try though.

ImHere4You · Answer

Shauna let me start by saying the only time someone fails is if they stop trying.

It's always best to try something or you'll always wonder the rest of your life if you could do it. Anyone can do anything they want if they keep trying. So if you want something bad enough and you try hard enough you'll reach your goal. Never stop trying.

steveguitar · Answer

Never attempt. You have to try and keep trying, you may not have the correct formula for success yet. But here are definitely times when it feels like you should give up.

I think more people would try things if society wasn't so unforgiving. Or they wouldn't lose so much in the process.

BasicFlake · Answer

It is better to just admit that you suck and then not try, because trying will result in failure and failure will lead to problems maintaining an erection. Then you'll get a job at McDonalds :'(

realperson02 · Answer

it's worst to not to attempt in the first place. "you miss 100% chances you don't take". by the way did you bake the blueberry cheesecake or Dutch truffle?

sarath1997 · Answer

I know my strength pretty well , actually I don't have any big weakness ( lot 😂)... so I know when to fight to win and when to use brain to win , but like you I will always attempt , and will win one day...🏆👍

Aries_87 · Answer

I've heard it said that their is no such thing as failure. You either succeed or you learn. If you learned then you've still come out further ahead than if you had never tried in the first place.

abw121290 · Answer

It's far worse to never attempt. Failing at things is not a bad thing. You learn from it, get experience, and can improve the next time.

oddwaffle · Answer

Depends on what you loose for the attempt. And what you loose if you didn't make it.

If you loose your life trying then probably not a good idea.

What else you shouldn't bet for the attempt? Your youth? Plenty of people do that, betting away their youth on a dream. Your wealth? Sure, that's how gambling and investment work. Just don't loose. Your loved ones? Some people bet their loved ones... when they cheat!!

bc907 · Answer

everyone considers failing to be a bad bad bad thing. honestly failing is one of the best things that can happen to anyone. I Welcome my failures daily!!

mike87 · Answer

Im ib agreement with you, you never question things you tried and failed at but the one you never ever tried or attempted cause it becomes your great white whale the one that got away.

genericname85 · Answer

in my opinion you have to calculate your chances of success against your determination to be successfull. so if those 2 are too low, don´t try it but if one of them is high enough to compensate for the other, it is worth it.

Eddy8306 · Answer

always try everything once and see if you like because you never know if you are going to be able to do it again or try it

Dez22 · Answer

What if all of us never tried standing up as babies because it seemed too hard, where would we be now?

jabbahut · Answer

You never know unless you try - that what I say. Failing if you tried your best is not bad in any way.

singhalvijay · Answer

There isn't anything a person can't do.. it's their perception that stops them.. U can achieve each and everything if u r confident and no matter how many times u fail to achieve it..

cinnaminion · Answer

I think it definitely depends on the thing you wanna do. Learning an instrument or a language: better to fail Skydiving or hang gliding: better not to try

Boonliang · Answer

it can be a blow to the confidence to fail at something but saying that you have tried something is better then not making a valid effert at all.

03FreeBird14 · Answer

I agree with you 100% and it is true if someone hasn't tried it yet then they will worse that they never attempted it in the first place and that goes for anything including sexually and non sexually!

Kamiljan1995 · Answer

Well you have already failed the things you didn't attempt

dogbert444 · Answer

The failure comes with not trying something. You have given up without knowing.

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