My friend and my mom had sex, how should I handle this?

[Billybob46]

He texted me and said that he had sex with her, I called my mom and she admitted to it. We've been friends for years and I'm not sure how to take this, what should I do? I need advice.

[hahahmm]

1. You have zero right to question your mom about her sex life. Zero.
2. She should not be messing with your friends.
3. Friends don't bang friend's moms.

The only solution is to stop being friends with the guy. If she keeps seeing him that is her choice tho.

I'd probably tell him that if he goes talking sh*t about her or breaks her heart I'll beat his azz till he can never walk again. But that's just me.

[hahahmm]

Oh, and don't introduce your mom to your male friends ever again since she is likely to break my rule #2 again and you'll be i this situation all over again.

[Billybob46]

You don't get to tell me what I can and can't ask my own mother

[hahahmm]

I said you have zero right. Not that you can't ask. People ask questions they have no right to ask all the time.

[Billybob46]

Well I felt I did have a right to, I trust my mom 100 percent and I had to get to the bottom of it

[hgfgksknd]

Zero right to question her sex life? Zero? What if she has sex with her daughter's boyfriend? Still zero right? What if she is r*ping a minor? Still no right? Let me ask you this: why not? Can her mom question her sex life? Whose sex life is it okay to question? Who makes these rules? You? She isn't questioning her mom's sex life. She is confronting her about breaching personal boundaries and telling her mom how it makes her feel. Nothing wrong with that.

[hgfgksknd]

You had every right to question your mom in this particular situation. You had a right to voice your feelings as your mom was breaching a personal boundary. It's no different than if you had sex with a friend's ex or brother or something and they told you how it made them feel.

[sovetskii13]

You got a dirty mind. Write an erotic story about this. I would love to read it.
Ok, I don't know if what you are saying is true, but if it is then you will have to accept it and stay out of their way. I would drop him as a friend because things will be awkward when the three of you are together. You are 21. Maybe think about moving out if possible?

[Billybob46]

I don't live with her, so that's not a problem. She seemed happy with what happened so I have no hard feelings against my friend, I've decided to just let them do their own thing.

[Jay_Lauren]

Is you mom is a relationship? Who am I kidding... its bad either way!! I don't k ow what to tell you sir. 😅

[Billybob46]

Probably shouldn't have answered then

[Jay_Lauren]

Meh it just depends on the circumstances. Do they actually like each other? Because if that's the case you probably have 2 options. You can be supportive, or you can be creeped out and never talk to them again. Or was it just a quick thing? Because that's even weirder. All in all I would say you just talk to them about it, and see what's going on. Than it's just up to your own personal feelings about it. I can't really tell you because I don't know your mom or your friend. Neither do I know why they did it. I can't blame you for being creeped out though. Is that a more suitable answer? :)

[Billybob46]

Yes, and they like each other. I've decided to be supportive since my mom seems happy with him.

[Jay_Lauren]

That's good then. You're a really good son and friend.

[Billybob46]

Thanks, it maybe a bit awkward if he becomes my step dad, but I'll get over it.

[Jay_Lauren]

Oh yeah true that would be awkward. 😁

[Billybob46]

Haha yeah, I'll just deal with it though, my mother's happiness is important to me.

[Jay_Lauren]

That's good. 👍

[natannq]

ask ur mother what u should think and if she is gonna do it again

[Billybob46]

She loves him, so I'll stay out of it as long as he doesn't hurt her.

[natannq]

she is a grown up. better to stay out

[JSmith925]

As long as neither of them were cheating, I would take it in stride. They are both adults and it is not up to us to decide who they should have as a sexual partner.
That being said, it was a poor choice on both of their parts and they certainly weren't considering how this might affect you.
~JSmith

[makss6585]

Still funny tho, you can't question your mother, but he will always be able to say "fuck your mama" with devil smile and you can't do shit if you continue to hang out.. or if he continues to hang in... your place.

- Imagine if your mama was pregnant with your best friend.
- sucks... wait you are my best friend!!
-exactly

[Billybob46]

He already has a big enough ego now as it is, he claims she seduced him.

[hahahmm]

That's why I would make it clear to the guy that if goes talking about it/bragging, I will beat his azzz or worse. Same for if he breaks her heart.

[Billybob46]

@hahahmm As long as neither of that happens, I'll stay out of it. I want my mom to be happy and if he's the guy that does it, so be it.

[hahahmm]

Suit yourself but if he goes telling details about it to everybody it will be too late

[Billybob46]

@hahahmm My mother loves him so, I'm in a tight spot here.

[hahahmm]

Seems pretty simple to me. If he is just using her I would beat his azz or worse. No questions asked. He's breaking whatever trust there should be between friends going down that road. Otoh if he's really into her then I would let it go. But still end the friendship.

[IShowSpeed]

Just fuck your own mom bro so when he brags about it say I did to heheeheh 😈

[Cody01]

I'd leave the friend. Friends wouldn't do that knowing the consequences that will impact the friendship.

[Peachman]

Probably shun the motherfucker pun intended, sorry about your shitty situation though

[blondfrog]

Lmfao oh how tragic :P well if you make an incest baby just make your you don't abort it.

[blondfrog]

oh sorry I read that wrong I thought you said you had sex with your mom and friend. Well that sucks man I'd be pissed too.

[Billybob46]

I was at first too, then I found out they actually like each other. My mother seems the happiest she's been in a long time, so I'm okay with it now.

[oncpl]

You can't do anything now except leaving your mom or friend.

[prosmind]

When your mom is having sex willingly, you can't do anything about it.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Drop that friendship with that asshole.

[ChocolatePop]

Fuck his momma, tell him and then ask how it feel.

[muskan12]

Do not talk to them ever again.

[Anonymous]

Video the next time and put it on Pornhub!

[dilligaff]

Kick his ass!!

[Anonymous]

their business, not yours.. don't worry about it

[19981204]

that's fucked