Have you ever felt guilty about the girls/guys you hurt/used in your past?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever felt guilty about the girls/guys you hurt/used in your past? Are there times when you wish you hadn't done that?

[MrMysteryMan]

Some of them. I reflect on them and I think, I could have been better this way or changed in some way as well or done it this way differently. I look back at some things I've done and I think I was a punk ass at times, and somewhat selfish. As well, I am in a better understanding that people are all the same but have differences because of backgrounds or how they grow up or environment and such. Also, I have been hurt the same way I've hurt people and so I understand how much it sucks to be on the receiving end.

But, then I know, I can't really change what happened, and some of it wasn't all my fault, some of it was just circumstance and lack of communication or understandings. So I try and learn from my mistakes, and that's all really what we can do.

[James_R_G]

I feel hoffic about some of the things I have out people through. It's easy to do in hindsight because you don't always see it at the time, eve. if you are vaguely aware you probably don't appreciate it because as people we tend to get a little too wrapped up in ourselves.

By the same token I think about all the times I've let someone hurt me and how foolish I was for letting that happen too.

I think it's natural to look back, important even so we can learn going forward. Just don't get consumed by your past. It's over and you have a future to be thinking about

[Anonymous]

Yes. I got with someone early on after I got out of my abusive relationship. I was an angry person and I lashed out on the new guy a lot. I wasn’t ready at all. Especially after the horrific experience and my mind was not with me. I did apologize to him though

[skykid1992]

How long did it take u tp say sorry to this guy

[Opinion Owner]

@skykid1992 it took about a year. Because I didn’t realize it til after I really started to think about everything that happened once my anger settled down. i still feel like a horrible person for it.

[skykid1992]

Sorry to hear that but at least u come clean about it

[Opinion Owner]

@skykid1992 it’s all good I mean hey I was 16. Still young learning a lot of crap! But yes I’m glad that I did the right thing apologizing :). Thanks

[skykid1992]

You welcome lol now i have hope for this world

[Opinion Owner]

@skykid1992 \(‘ _ ‘)/

[skykid1992]

Lol people never dp the right thing

[Opinion Owner]

@skykid1992 I mean yeah majority of people don’t but a good small amount do. :).

[Vmm90]

I'm at the receiving end of being used and honestly I understand there is most likely a reason for it but just because someone for hurt in the past doesn't give you the right to go about hurting others for someone else's doing.

[SuitAndTie]

What idiot would want to use You? You seem so nice.

[Vmm90]

Probably because I'm an easy target

[menina]

No, because I've never hurt a guy. I was always the one who got hurt because they didn't want to be with me.
I was so naive at that time...

[MrOracle]

I've always been very straightforward with women, so the few that I've hurt were those who lied to me first. But most women I've dated would have nothing but good things to say about me. Some have told me so on their own.

[Anonymous]

Nah I give em a disclaimer out of the gate. I tell em this is the chance to save yourself from potential heart break in the future. They always laugh and ignore it. Next thing I know they’re blaming me... no you signed the waiver, all damages are the sole responsibility of the user.
I don’t like the tears but life’s all about me.

[Anonymous]

At first yeah but later on I got used to it and enjoyed the taboo of using someone's feelings to my advantage or cheating. I wasn't like that until I got cheated on and then a good friend told me "Its use or get used my friend"

[Nerdking]

Never used a girl, but i did hurt a 1 of them accidentally, she loved me but i loved someone else and broke her heart then my crush broke my heart. I regret it i shoulda settled bc now i understand she was probably the best for me.

[Robsinsf53]

Yes to both your questions. But I justify it in my head by thinking how many women have done me wrong in one way or another.

[skykid1992]

So far no since all the women i met besides my current girlfriend. Have been gold diggers or used me till someone better come along them lied about it for months instead of telling the truth.

[krupak]

Yepp. But the best lessons are learned from mistakes.

[Anonymous]

I feel guilty about one I broke up with, the others I broke up with I don't but this one was different.

[Jakeggt]

Yes, when you look back, and you have a new sense of living, more of an understanding.. you look at those things and say why...

[victorchengmc]

Yes and it makes me feel that I'm not a good person and not worthy for someone good anymore

[tonycsimone]

I haven't used anyone because I'm not a little bitch

[Anonymous]

Yes not all but some women assume all boys as rapists and kill our heart targetedly.

[pink1980]

No I don’t at all. Guys do the same thing.

[playfun42069]

Nawww just never look back. Lol

[BrianMerritt]

Anyone who doesn't is shameful.

[Anonymous]

Nope I've never been that mean.

[mcckeo]

Nope because it something done to progress me

[matthewyear32]

Yeah but you have to press on

[blah20]

Absolutely

[Anonymous]

Nah, skanks deserve it.

[ok604]

Bloody hell, yes...

[Dinnye001]

Never used anybody.

[boochie0]

Yes I have