What are you currently worried about?

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What worries you the most in life right now?

FýrdracaDócincel · Accepted Answer

My stability with regards to interactions with other people. I have a personal tendency to be both very combative and needy at the same time.

I'm very strong in my beliefs and mindsets, and so I tend to naturally weed out those who aren't MY kind of people. Basically it's either you hate my fucking guts, or you're building a shrine in my name.

However I'm also very prone to guilt and the fear of being alone. Oftentimes I find myself going to someone apologizing for something it turns out they themselves don't even remember, or even spending hours dwelling on a particular instance arguing with myself on whether or not I should try to smooth something over before I lose someone.

It all results in a very chaotic cycle. One moment I operate via a "if they don't like me for who I am then fuck 'em" mentality, and the next moment I have to actually yell at myself not to weasel the people I pissed off back into my life.

Not a day goes by when I don't hate myself for that, even if I've become much better at keeping the needy aspect of it under control ((aka, not acting on it)). It's like my very nature is to be an entitled piece of crap who comes out and says "this is who I am.. this is what I stand for," but then throws a fit when some people decide they don't want to be a part of it.

This is especially relevant now that I'm going to college, where most of the people on campus have very different views than myself. I'm hoping maybe this will eventually teach me to just stop caring but I don't know..

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Money.

The best things in life are free
But you can give them to the birds and bees.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)

Your love gives me such a thrill
But your love won't pay my bills.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
...

Money don't get everything, it's true
But what it don't get, I can't use.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
...

vishna · Accepted Answer

oh my, what I am not currently worried about.

Should I take the career offer?

Should I stay with my boyfriend, are we about to break up anyway?

Should I sell my furniture or keep it?

Should I move back to my toxic household or something else?

Should I be worried my ex friend is going to do something shady because I refuse to play her games?

What is my life, and I have like 5 days to come to a conclusion on half of these matters.

sodaslut · Accepted Answer

everything ☹️ but the worst one currently is my mental health... it really has worsen a lot these days because the root of the problem cannot be solved by anyone or with money. it's a problem that i have to accept but i don't want and can't... so yeah. i'm spiralling down. i just wish my problem had a cure.

young_blud · Accepted Answer

I'm worried about falling out of love when I get married and not being able to stay interesting and fun enough for my future husband, and then him listing after a younger woman he works with.
But if that ain't gonna happen, then I ain't too worried about much 🤷‍♀️😊

Alice2398 · Accepted Answer

The fact I'm really behind on my college work and I have exams coming up, I'm struggling at work, I've fell for a guy I work with who doesn't want me back, I've not seen my best friend for almost a year and I need to book driving lessons but don't have anytime.

MusicMayhem · Answer

Loneliness. I don't go out much because when I do it's with guys that suck at being wingmen and I have a shitty night so can't be bothered most of the time. So I never meet a woman that likes me. And If I do another guy steals her off me after we get going well.

I know the solution is to go out more often so I find better guys to go out with but it's hard to convince myself it's worth it sometimes.

mrb187 · Answer

There is a girl who I really liks, But I know she isn't right for me. She IS SO beautiful, has a great body, and just the way she acts is so cute and attractive, but I know some details about her that would make her not work with me. To make things worse, I think she likes me too. I want her so bad, but I know if I got her, things would end poorly and it would only result in heartbreak greater than not being able to pursue the girl I like.

Nik1hil · Answer

The fibbonaci retrace meant has set higher limit at 8100 dollars and lower limit at 6600 dollars..
I do not want the price to break 6600. and there are bears coming in.. And bulls are not able to hold up... I need banks and MNC to get involved soon..
So Bitcoin can get stable.. Gain support and Bulls flood in.. So I can begin trading and

Tinwin · Answer

I am the Vice President of Engineering for my company. Newly hired and moved from several States away for this role. I've never been an executive before, so I am just worried that I'm going to screw it all up. I'm the youngest guy on our exec. Team by about 15 years, which can be awkward as well.

llorando · Answer

2020 election. Hasn't even been a week and all the major news (CNN, NBC, CBS, Exct...) outlets are out in full force smearing the only sane, sensible candidate with fake news/propaganda. Such a shame we've gotten to the point that being pro peace is a crime :(.

DiegoO · Answer

Several things. My mom health, my carrier, my unemployment, how unestable my country is now. I also think on my ex, if she is still interested in seen me in person, and how honest she is with me. Her life, her choice, I am just scared of dishonesty. I hate to be fooled with false expectancies.

TsundereMatrix · Answer

I’m currently moving out of my apartment and back in with my parents because I can’t afford rent and I am looking for jobs but I have no luck. So I’m going to live with my parents until all this gets resolved. I’m worried about all of that.

ranonamousNZ · Answer

Can I say that this is a very interesting thing to ask, it's amazing to see the answers some people have and how it can cause stress, it really helps rationalize my own thoughts and fears through comparison and similarities with other people's.

drummerdude25 · Answer

My dad has been fighting a serious illness for nearly 2 years now... hopefully his doctors can improve his quality of life and turn things around.  Thankfully, the new plan he's on seems promising.

chunkycheeks · Answer

I worry that my fiance will leave this relationship and that we won't be able to be good co parents for our little girl..

Moonchild714 · Answer

Moving soon so stressing over what needs to be done. But I turn it over and chill, it will all work out as planned.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

carbon monoxide from cars sense our climate has changed weather wise i feel its only going to get hotter every year till the state i live bans gas powered cars jets an makes all businesses go clean air no politians

Prankster13 · Answer

Whether or not my ex is telling any of our secrets... That has been bugging me all day since this girl on GaG brought up the possibility.

LucyGrace · Answer

If I can get my degree. If I can get my self together. If this relationship will continue. I don't know. a lot if shit

tartaarsaus · Answer

Nothing really. Maybe my exams that I dominated, but just because there is always the slight chance of me completely messing up checking answers on my own.

sawno · Answer

Burnout stuff and the end of the free world coming closer

Jjpayne · Answer

My car and funding staying for classes helped by financial aid

jodie01 · Answer

My exams I guess and like, my "mates" would stress me out but like who needs a fake as a friend

bunny29 · Answer

Mistakenly i drunk paint thinner i am worrying about that

Tiaroendu479 · Answer

Figuring out how to pay for the vacation involved with my brother’s wedding 😣

Nobodyx · Answer

Work tomorrow because I know it's going to be really busy and that I will mess everything up. And that my colleagues are going to hate on me again.

peachblossomluck · Answer

My Siamese cat is very sick and I can't afford to take her to the vet.

Bjorn526 · Answer

Just the future coming at me quick, and preparing for it

Gedaria · Answer

I had an accident about 2years ago and lost one testicle. Been to hospital because of pain in the remaining one and it looks like I could loose the other !!!

jeepersarekeepers · Answer

I’m 23 years old and I still drive a pos Honda and still live at home with my parents. I have to graduate this year and find a career and buy my dream car (wrx sti) and a two story house. I also want a family. I have no kids right now.

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

Aside from safety for myself and my loved ones, money. Depending on my paycheck, I may have to decide between paying rent and eating until next month on the 1st.

Christopherthrob · Answer

Death 💀 is just around the corner and I am not sure 🤔 why but it’s first and foremost

Elisabeth01 · Answer

I'm so stressed about getting money and how can I pay my bills and still have some money for living.. I'm constantly worried about money, and I have already started to hate money.. I hate it, I HATE MONEY..

gigi888 · Answer

About last night. I can't forget one person. After almost 6months I finally got to see him. And I couldn't say a word. Not a single one. And still I like him even more with every day. He is my person and I am his but we can't be together

torwulf · Answer

I'm worried that I won't look as hot with short hair. Going to the Finnish army in a month so i got to cut my 75cm hair down to 0.5cm

monkeynutts · Answer

I'm happy as a pig in shit. But I worry a little about my friends, and the future. Worried I'm not prepared well.

monicasagi · Answer

My job with which I am done with and I can't get this guy with whom I have decided to cut the contact out of my head.

tina_37474 · Answer

I'm worried about my son and if he is going to grow up okay since I was young and didn't have experience at all. My husband is on the police force and im afraid he will get hurt doing that

faith94 · Answer

Getting this degree which seems impossible for now and financial stability

Leo3572 · Answer

How to pay for my next car? That's currently what I'm worried about.

Lilianușka · Answer

At moment, I worry about my exams, I just wish I will do my best.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Zilt. Why? God takes care of them for me. 100% glory goes to the lord Jesus Christ. 😊

TheDarkWolfSif · Answer

Where am I gonna live after I’m kicked out around the 31st.

waskito · Answer

The fact that I if I live my life fully and I never get seriously hurt one day no matter what I will be laying in my deathbed dying in horrible pain

valentinoo · Answer

Im worried that i won't get accepted to the college i really want to go to. Im be a senior this year.

the_sinner · Answer

My internship How I'm gonna survive it till the end.

ryan1991 · Answer

Not having someone to love and appreciate me and vice versa

Muzakashi · Answer

Actually getting a job after I finish uni. I have a loan and apartment to pay off 😂😭

MrBillH · Answer

How many people are showing up to my swingers party tonight

SC4321 · Answer

Not finding a girl and being alone forever.

MriPibbXtra · Answer

School, relationship and money.

Idada · Answer

Too many things,... just gonna go with the future.

aceexp · Answer

School, money, dating

ryanlightning · Answer

What I'm going to do about my mental health

michael78018 · Answer

That I won't find love again :(

Qanya · Answer

Body, grades and looks

N23SA · Answer

everything on varying levels

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Always being a good parent.

AbdKilani · Answer

Finding the one for me

MLGbreezy · Answer

My love life its such a dragggg😣

bigbang101 · Answer

Hmmmm nothing much... Lol

zombiebacon21 · Answer

My dick size, it all was changing loool

alinakhanx0x · Answer

Many things. I am always worried. Lol

Miguel111 · Answer

Not dating anymore...

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