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What worries you the most in life right now?
What worries you the most in life right now?
My stability with regards to interactions with other people. I have a personal tendency to be both very combative and needy at the same time.
I'm very strong in my beliefs and mindsets, and so I tend to naturally weed out those who aren't MY kind of people. Basically it's either you hate my fucking guts, or you're building a shrine in my name.
However I'm also very prone to guilt and the fear of being alone. Oftentimes I find myself going to someone apologizing for something it turns out they themselves don't even remember, or even spending hours dwelling on a particular instance arguing with myself on whether or not I should try to smooth something over before I lose someone.
It all results in a very chaotic cycle. One moment I operate via a "if they don't like me for who I am then fuck 'em" mentality, and the next moment I have to actually yell at myself not to weasel the people I pissed off back into my life.
Not a day goes by when I don't hate myself for that, even if I've become much better at keeping the needy aspect of it under control ((aka, not acting on it)). It's like my very nature is to be an entitled piece of crap who comes out and says "this is who I am.. this is what I stand for," but then throws a fit when some people decide they don't want to be a part of it.
This is especially relevant now that I'm going to college, where most of the people on campus have very different views than myself. I'm hoping maybe this will eventually teach me to just stop caring but I don't know..
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Money.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-P2qL3qkzk
The best things in life are free
But you can give them to the birds and bees.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
(That's what I want.)
Your love gives me such a thrill
But your love won't pay my bills.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
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Money don't get everything, it's true
But what it don't get, I can't use.
I want money.
(That's what I want.)
That's what I want.
...
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oh my, what I am not currently worried about.
Should I take the career offer?
Should I stay with my boyfriend, are we about to break up anyway?
Should I sell my furniture or keep it?
Should I move back to my toxic household or something else?
Should I be worried my ex friend is going to do something shady because I refuse to play her games?
What is my life, and I have like 5 days to come to a conclusion on half of these matters.
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everything ☹️ but the worst one currently is my mental health... it really has worsen a lot these days because the root of the problem cannot be solved by anyone or with money. it's a problem that i have to accept but i don't want and can't... so yeah. i'm spiralling down. i just wish my problem had a cure.
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I'm worried about falling out of love when I get married and not being able to stay interesting and fun enough for my future husband, and then him listing after a younger woman he works with.
But if that ain't gonna happen, then I ain't too worried about much 🤷♀️😊
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The fact I'm really behind on my college work and I have exams coming up, I'm struggling at work, I've fell for a guy I work with who doesn't want me back, I've not seen my best friend for almost a year and I need to book driving lessons but don't have anytime.
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Loneliness. I don't go out much because when I do it's with guys that suck at being wingmen and I have a shitty night so can't be bothered most of the time. So I never meet a woman that likes me. And If I do another guy steals her off me after we get going well.
I know the solution is to go out more often so I find better guys to go out with but it's hard to convince myself it's worth it sometimes. -
There is a girl who I really liks, But I know she isn't right for me. She IS SO beautiful, has a great body, and just the way she acts is so cute and attractive, but I know some details about her that would make her not work with me. To make things worse, I think she likes me too. I want her so bad, but I know if I got her, things would end poorly and it would only result in heartbreak greater than not being able to pursue the girl I like.
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The fibbonaci retrace meant has set higher limit at 8100 dollars and lower limit at 6600 dollars..
I do not want the price to break 6600. and there are bears coming in.. And bulls are not able to hold up... I need banks and MNC to get involved soon..
So Bitcoin can get stable.. Gain support and Bulls flood in.. So I can begin trading and -
I am the Vice President of Engineering for my company. Newly hired and moved from several States away for this role. I've never been an executive before, so I am just worried that I'm going to screw it all up. I'm the youngest guy on our exec. Team by about 15 years, which can be awkward as well.
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2020 election. Hasn't even been a week and all the major news (CNN, NBC, CBS, Exct...) outlets are out in full force smearing the only sane, sensible candidate with fake news/propaganda. Such a shame we've gotten to the point that being pro peace is a crime :(.
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Several things. My mom health, my carrier, my unemployment, how unestable my country is now. I also think on my ex, if she is still interested in seen me in person, and how honest she is with me. Her life, her choice, I am just scared of dishonesty. I hate to be fooled with false expectancies.
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I’m currently moving out of my apartment and back in with my parents because I can’t afford rent and I am looking for jobs but I have no luck. So I’m going to live with my parents until all this gets resolved. I’m worried about all of that.
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Can I say that this is a very interesting thing to ask, it's amazing to see the answers some people have and how it can cause stress, it really helps rationalize my own thoughts and fears through comparison and similarities with other people's.
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My dad has been fighting a serious illness for nearly 2 years now... hopefully his doctors can improve his quality of life and turn things around.
Thankfully, the new plan he's on seems promising. -
I worry that my fiance will leave this relationship and that we won't be able to be good co parents for our little girl..
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Moving soon so stressing over what needs to be done. But I turn it over and chill, it will all work out as planned.
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carbon monoxide from cars sense our climate has changed weather wise i feel its only going to get hotter every year till the state i live bans gas powered cars jets an makes all businesses go clean air no politians
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Whether or not my ex is telling any of our secrets... That has been bugging me all day since this girl on GaG brought up the possibility.
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If I can get my degree. If I can get my self together. If this relationship will continue. I don't know. a lot if shit
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Nothing really. Maybe my exams that I dominated, but just because there is always the slight chance of me completely messing up checking answers on my own.
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Burnout stuff and the end of the free world coming closer
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My car and funding staying for classes helped by financial aid
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My exams I guess and like, my "mates" would stress me out but like who needs a fake as a friend
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Mistakenly i drunk paint thinner i am worrying about that
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Figuring out how to pay for the vacation involved with my brother’s wedding 😣
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