Nowadays, people don't ask about how you are. Instead they want to ask about your studies. They don't how your life is. Instead they just want to compare their kids to you. What an absurd way to live a life without enquiry.
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I wish people would stop asking why I'm single.
"When will I get a boyfriend so that I can get married." Hahaha lol
"Why are you so skinny"
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I m 28 right now not that old I guess still Throughout my life I had been mainly bothered by 2 questions by others, at times I kind of even tried to stay away from family gathering and functions coz I was getting annoyed but then realized why the hell I m letting them bother me I should live my life the way I want. 1st question stayed till my graduation and for couple of months after it too, everytime I had to meet and greet someone their first obvious question was hows your studies going and why I didn't chose medical or engineering (damn like apart from them there were no other career paths) and then what always came next was why am I not persuading Masters and then them educating me with their great words of wisdom like without masters my education is wasted etc etc and I should focus more on studies rather than what I was opting for, and their advice on different career I should choose, it was making me nuts going with their f**king same question over and over. Heck man its my life I have my own hobbies and I would like to do what I really like.
And now when I m doing somewhat much better than what most of their own kids are doing..
2nd most common question I get pissed with is You are now well settled and established why ain't you getting married, and it gets worst when I have to attend a Marriage of one of my cousin's which I can't evade and I have to hear " Dude you are old enough to be next" but sincerely I do feel like to say to them same when I attend a funeral. But the weirdest part comes when they say something really stupid like " You do are interested in girls right?" the last one I remember was when I actually raged on one of my uncles and lucky for me but I feel pity for him that he unleashed my so holded frustration when he said " I have this real close friend who's a doctor and he gives medicine for guys who have prob coz they committed mistakes during childhood ". But frankly I still at times get frustrated on people when I face this questions over and over again. Damn I have my own set of ambitions, plans/goals in life and have some expectations from future partner ( a costom to get arrange married like most Asian countries) and till I don't find someone i dont intend to get settled for less.On GAG it would be "Is a 5 inch dick big enough for girls?" In real life, "When are you going to get married?"
Do you work right now? When do you see getting your university degree? And the best one of them all. How many more subjects do you have to pass to get the degree?
'How tall are you'
'Are you a lesbian'
'Why do you dress like this'
'Why aren't you in a relationship 'A- ''Can I borrow some money?'' B- In supermarkets: ''Can I help you?'' / To explain: A- To help out with cash is an act of kindness and should come out of myself; I am not a bank. B- When I need help, I will ask. /// The logic conflict in these 2 statements is placed purposely.
There's not much left, actually. Believe it or not, it's pretty easy to avoid assholes. With limited exception, I can avoid every ignorant twit that can't generate unique and meaningful conversation.
The one that persists, while not terribly common, is, "Are you related to '(some random asshole with a similar last name)'?"
Nope, definitely not. Only assholes who can't even remotely figure statistical math would ask such a ridiculous question. I tolerate ignorance very poorly.โWhy are you getting mad at meโ to but it bluntly I donโt like being asked questions in general, and I especially donโt want to answer your question when you ask what I did today and I tell you everything. Yet you seem to not here that and keep asking just in different ways. โYou should smile moreโ I like looking mad. โHowโs life going for youโ I fucking hate that shit.
Why donโt you smile?
Donโt you eat?
Donโt ask me about work, or school. It irritates me."how old are you" because usually the phrase "but you look 12" comes right after
So you're a musician... Are you any good?
So what're you doing next in your life?
Why don't you want children?
What's the weather doing tomorrow? (I mean who asks someone that 😂)
Can you pass me... Insert item next to the person's hand or closer to them than I am?
Do you think you really need another glass of wine? 😂
Why don't you own a house yet?I don't know if you could call it a resting bitch face but when I am off on my own in my head seriously I could be thinking about puppies my face must go very severe. People say I am in bad mood and am I okay, Another thing is I often say I am just thinking about things, I AM JUST TURNING THINGS OVER IN MY HEAD, there is no crisis, I am just arranging things in the filing cabinet but every one takes me so literally assuming I have weight of the world on my shoulders.
About my well being coz they r not interested in that. They r interested what I'm doing, if it is going to be a problem for their next target.
I guess if people ask me what I want to do with my life or what kind of job I want.
It's not a question, but it bugs me so much when anybody, especially women, say, "Any woman would be lucky to have you."
Seriously, cut the sh*t! Can't you tell already by my appearance that nobody wants me?"Is that your natural hair color?", "Why are you single?", "What the hell is Luxembourgish?"
It's not a question it's words and all I hear is I'm sorry or sorry.
"Why are you single if you are pretty" "What happen to guys taht do not pay attention to you" "Are they blind" Why are you not married" Why are you still a V".
To have another child! Sick and tired of it. I have one and Iโm happy with just one.
So far the ones that come at the top at my head are...
1. Why are you single?/ Why don't you have a girlfriend?
2. When was the last time you got laid?
3. When are you going to find someone?Why I haven't found myself a boyfriend already lol as if it would be that easy. -.-
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