What is it that you wish people would stop judging you for?

[GoldenCage]

I saw this video of a person who is HIV positive and was in so much mental pain. Because everytime he disclosed his illness people just judged him and flew away like they're going to catch the plague. Like all of us he seeks love. And feels that people expects him to just find another HIV positive partner easily out of disparation. Which he says is very difficult in reality. He was in tears saying he was in committed relationship when his partner cheated and gave him HIV. He is a victim and will forever be judged for something that wasn't his mistake or fault. Even tho his illness is under control and he can't give people HIV by having sex. This is possible due to the new medications out there that he's taking.

It broke my heart to listen to him. Obviously he was saying he doesn't want to continue to date or disclose the nature of his illness anymore. He wants so badly for his world to accept him.

Now this made me think. Even though the above case is extreme. But don't we all have something that we get judged upon and we wish people would stop running away or being hurtful about their reactions. Some even call that victims blaming. But whether you call it that or not is not the point here.

We all judge in one way or another. And in this cruel beautiful world we live in. We get rejected or harshly judged too. No matter how bad we wish people won't.

So what is it that you wish that people would stop judging you about? is it your past, disability, looks, family, faith, ethnicity, virginity,.. etc. it could be anything ❤️

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing, I don't seek mass approval.

Also You don't understand how retroviral infections work, that guy can totally still transmit that virus from semen, blood, saliva, or mucus. No medication exists that prevents that, and he is unfortunately stuck only dating HIV positive people, and even then, I'd advise no vaginal sex, as no doctor is going to perform a vasectomy or tubal ligation on an HIV patient, since it risks the Dr getting infected, and children should not be born with HIV.

It's sad, and I understand and sympathize, but healthy people risking their safety to make a few people happy, just makes more Infection victims, then you end up with an epidemic and no one is happy.

If he sneezes on someone, they can get infected, even with no open cuts, and once infected, even the common cold becomes deadly. It really is that dangerous.

This anti-safety mentality where feelings are more important than health needs to stop, I see it way too often, and it's a road to suffering and early death.

[GoldenCage]

please do more research as many of your information about HIV is wrong if not all of them. However you were respectful in your answer and I do respect Tha but don't want to argue. Have a nice day tho 🌹

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually the things you said about it are wrong, what I said comes directly from scientific studies, biology books, books on diseases, medical cases, individuals with HIV, and physician's reference books that doctors keep in their offices.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Everything I said on it was correct, anyone who thinks otherwise is a public health risk.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also doctors will tell you the same thing.

[blondfrog]

It's amazing you did something that most people now these days aren't capable of. You saw somebody has it way worse than you, so you stopped complaining and whining about your problems. Sure we all have problems and just because somebody has it worse than you it doesn't mean you don't have a right to complain. My point is unless your problem is truly major then you really should be grateful. Complaining doesn't do jack shit. Are you blind, deaf, have a rare disease, disability that effects your day to day activities or and your work, in extreme poverty, have a terminal illness, mental illness, etc? If you don't have any of these then sorry not sorry but I don't give a fuck about your problems including your relationships. Relationships will always be a want and not a need to me and its a privilege. Nobody owes you anything in a relationship or a relationship at all.

[Anonymous]

For my social anxiety. My career of choice requires working with the public and being in the “spotlight” I guess you can say so people who are of higher position have always told me that I’m “perfect” but I just have to work on getting out there and stop having social anxiety…like it isn’t so hard already? I understand I have to be ship shape for my career but social anxiety is super hard and I struggle with trying to make small talk with people already (kind of a lie because now I’ve been getting better at small talk). I don't know I wish people were more accepting about social anxiety. Instead of judging.

[TerumiMei2]

I wish people would not judge me on my past but see how much I grew over time.

[Michael49]

I am not one who goes around spouting off my opinions so the thing that I feel most judged on that bothers me comes from my own family. Growing up in a family of avid hunters and gun owners like to insult me for not owning a gun and my belief that their should be stricter laws pertaining to gun control. I have no problem with responsible people who hunt and I believe a person has the right to protect their family. But I believe their are too many irresponsible people who own guns and use them criminally.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I once told this woman I knew from seeing her working at Walmart and our local store in our City that I had Bipolar and other mental illnesses and she acted very judging towards me and it hurt but nothing to change it people will judge us and I feel bad for that guy I was watching on TV this true documentary this girl was born with HIV cause her parents especially Mom was addicted to Heroin, so sad and she had sex with a boyfriend and he freaked out and she tried telling him that she was medicated and HIV wouldn't show up in her blood but he didn't want to hear it

[apple24]

Honestly couldn’t care less if people were judge me. Good, I don’t want someone who doesn’t like me as I am. I am literally a awkward, friendless, depressed, overweight, first generation, jobless at the moment…n that’s okay. If you don’t like me that’s fine because I will find my people who will die for me.

[KasonBader]

That I tejected the most popular and "Sexiest: girl in my school ahen I was in 6th grade, yes so was she, but it's because I didn't care that she had the tits and ass or a "doll" look, doll means she basically looked like she was full of plastic in her entire body, and she was yhe prostitute of the school, she was a bitch and thats why I rejected her.

[Spiderarecool]

Some people that get judge a lot are learning dsiabities no matter if online or offine. is happen to me as well and well i went to learning disabities college girls were very anoyied and always tried to force a friendship even i kept rejected her beause she ruined the trust the first time.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Why are we suddenly acting like HIV and AIDS are not a life sentence. No shit nobody wants to be with this man if he has HIV. No it wasn’t his fault for catching it but he sees how hard life is with it, why would anyone else want to catch it? His ex should be punished though.

[doopayo]

Stop judging me because of my age. I’m tired of speaking to adults irl and them treating me like I know nothing just cause I’m young

[TerumiMei2]

SAME!!

[CHadwww]

@TerumiMei2But even I recognise that I am not an expert on everything, and that individuals who have lived on this earth for longer than I have are wiser in some aspects than I am.

[BobbyC65]

My disability on my right side. People assume I can't do certain things when I know I can.

[Anonymous]

I wish women would STOP judging me for the mistakes they've made in their lives.

[GoldenCage]

That's deep

[Anonymous]

Being married to a way younger guy. I've accepted it and am able to deal with it, but the judgement still sometimes gets under my skin

[SmokinAces2000]

For not having blind patriotism in a country that doesn’t give a fuck about me 😂

[Jackblue]

I am a white male millennial hated by conservatives for being younger, and by liberals for being white, male, and not willing to be insulted by people of color and women without insulting back.

[lovedejj_xo]

Who’s insulting you that’s a person of color or woman just curious of what they’re saying?

[Jackblue]

@lovedejj_xo Both and sometimes other white millennials too. Calling me privileged and stuff undermining the difficulties I had to deal with in life. It is also not always insults to me personally but when you read things like "white fragility" in the New Yorker
www.newyorker.com/.../a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism
or
Franz Fanon who claimed that white women fantasize about rape by black men being taught in Universities and now referenced as an inspiration from a black lives matter founder
or
the complete lack of apology from black organizations for BLM riots

[Jackblue]

It gets to ya, but I have had many insults flung at me personally

[lovedejj_xo]

Oooh okay gotcha!

[MJtheCoach]

90% of the world are and will be HIV + before 2025/2026!!


All the C0ViD jabs are full of shit. One of them has a HIV virus in it.


Enjoy!

[GoldenCage]

Yeah they stopped it tho for giving falls positive HIV results. It was never approved. I think this happened in Australia or New Zealand last year or something during second phase trials

[MJtheCoach]

Just like it’s giving false positive if C0ViD! Oh please FDA /UN/ the deep sta##e had been stealing humans immune system since the 1970’s! But people aren’t full fast enough, HIV was released into the public in 1970’s as people were having unprotected sex! Which was procreating humans. And Satan hates that! That’s why I’m schools they promote wearing a condition they don’t give a shit if you get sick or not they want to put in peoples head so people don’t procreate. If you do enough research everything will make sense but just like cigarettes in 1930s it will take 10 to 40 years to find out the real damage of side effects during those 23 years many people will die but I’ll take up to 40 years to finally publicly come out with the issues. You forgot 1930s cigarettes was the most healthiest thing you could’ve smoked bought and Used.

[Anonymous]

There's no point to making a post like this. People are malicious superficial assholes who don't care about anything beyond face value.

[Phoenix98]

O I stopped caring about that kind of stuff years n years ago.

[Anonymous]

People "judge" others all the time, for many different reasons. Everyone just needs to get USED to it. Especially if those "judgers" are correct in their "judgments".

[Opinion Owner]

... I used be given a "bad time" about being very non-talkative in Jr High School. And I can't blame those other kids for doing it, actually

[Anonymous]

On my physical disability.

[GoldenCage]

I'm sorry love I truly wish people can be more humane 🌹

[Tstrbrainer]

Of course it's not his fault, but he have no right to expect people to accommodate him into their lives.

[Likes2drive]

My living situation because of how expensive it is here

[Anonymous]

He's disgusting and he can go on HIV dating apps. Like the other homosexuals do.

[MCheetah]

My physical appearance.

[t-8900]

My level of income 😅😞

[GoldenCage]

😊🌹

[PuNishant]

My unsuccessful life.😂

[ChiPaPa]

Nothing. Let them judge.

[boomstheory]

My felony record

[GoldenCage]

Unfortunately we live in a judgmental world and yes there are always people who will continue to judge you. But usually they're the same people who don't care about you and actually would love to see you fail so they're proven right.

Just focus on the ones who support you and believe in you. I can imagine it is easier said than done as it can affects everyone you do in the future whether getting a mortgage, love, or work. But if it gets so hard. Leave your country. Start fresh somewhere and of course you might tell a lover but you shouldn't be able not to find work or live normally. Stay strong and keep your head high young man 🌹

[boomstheory]

I won't leave my country. America is about to collapse, and I'll go with it. We're heading for some strange times. it's weird, I never thought I'd be alive for the end times. Lol. I'm just ready for Jesus to come back

[malwins]

Nope I perfectly understand not everybody

[malwins]

Is a junkie or doesn’t use condoms. But I wouldn’t expose myself to this person

[Babygirl_S]

For being Indian.

[Shy_Steve]

My Shyness.