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What is it that you wish people would stop judging you for?

GoldenCage
I saw this video of a person who is HIV positive and was in so much mental pain. Because everytime he disclosed his illness people just judged him and flew away like they're going to catch the plague. Like all of us he seeks love. And feels that people expects him to just find another HIV positive partner easily out of disparation. Which he says is very difficult in reality. He was in tears saying he was in committed relationship when his partner cheated and gave him HIV. He is a victim and will forever be judged for something that wasn't his mistake or fault. Even tho his illness is under control and he can't give people HIV by having sex. This is possible due to the new medications out there that he's taking.

It broke my heart to listen to him. Obviously he was saying he doesn't want to continue to date or disclose the nature of his illness anymore. He wants so badly for his world to accept him.

Now this made me think. Even though the above case is extreme. But don't we all have something that we get judged upon and we wish people would stop running away or being hurtful about their reactions. Some even call that victims blaming. But whether you call it that or not is not the point here.

We all judge in one way or another. And in this cruel beautiful world we live in. We get rejected or harshly judged too. No matter how bad we wish people won't.

So what is it that you wish that people would stop judging you about? is it your past, disability, looks, family, faith, ethnicity, virginity,.. etc. it could be anything ❤️
What is it that you wish people would stop judging you for?
What is it that you wish people would stop judging you for?
What is it that you wish people would stop judging you for?
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