It starts off with the spoon with his leg over mine then it transitions to the sweetheart’s cradle and we fall asleep. If I have a nightmare and wake up in the night then he holds me in the honeymoon hug but my arms are lower than his. We typically wake up in the cliff hanger because we both toss and turn a lot and I tend to take all of the duvet/blanket in my sleep. Lol There have been a few times where I have held him in the pursuit position but not often. I always feel so safe, protected, loved and happy when my husband spoons me as I love having his arms around me and feeling his body next to mine especially when he kisses the back of my neck (where my neck meets my back).
I agree and do the same when in bed with a girl. The only difference is I am a big guy, 6" 120kg heavy weight kickboxer, and she is maybe 5"5' 50-60kg girl. So she can literally sleep on top of me while i radiate heat, keeping her warm as a full body personal heater 🙈😂.
Yes, I know exactly what you mean!! Lol That’s what it’s like for us too... he’s 6’5” (he is incredibly skilled at MMA and Brazilian Jujitsu) and always hot and I’m 5’8” and always cold. He always warms me up and I cool him down lol
Yeah, that is one thing girls don't realise which is martial artist like myself and your partner have the opposite issue of getting too hot in bed, so we need you as much as you need us sometimes.
Nice!!! Hometown for me is Manchester (until I relocated to America last year) but I went to uni in Huddersfield and worked in Leeds before coming here. Do you miss Leicester?
I visit Leicester every other week as my family are still there. It's been 7 years in Leeds and I still feel like I'm on holiday somewhere in Spain with Leeds. And Leicester feels like I've come back home for a bit 😎
But personality I prefer an advancement on the sweetheart's cradle. As I am such a broad shouldered guy, @Apple1996 can rest her head and torso on my chest which radiates heat, something like this:
I've found myself doing the 'sweetheart cradle' every time I'm sleeping with my friends with benefits and sometimes it runs into a honeymoon hug but just my leg over his not a stack
Lol you've never cuddled me before, I've made women sweat in bed, that's how hot I am.
I have a naturally high metabolic rate generating more heat that your average lad. This is excentuated by hot muscles due to kickboxing and an above average heart rate keeping my extremities hot due to the hyperactivity element of ADHD.
Spoon is my favourite, I also like loosely tethered, sweetheart's cradle and zen style :P Usually we do cuddle every day before we sleep, it's the easiest way to get me to go to sleep :P
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