Which cuddling position do you like best?

Question

I’d say these are probably the two most popular cuddling positions: Spooning and Half-Spoon.

Personally, I choose the half-spoon position because I like feeling warm and protected. However, my boyfriend likes spooning more.

Spooning or Half-Spoon? Which do you enjoy most and why? 😁

Aysen · Accepted Answer

Both of these are so hard to choose but I'd choose the half spoon position!

I usually fall asleep nearly in a few minutes with the half-spoon position because my girlfriend loves it when I wrap my arm around her, as a sense of protection like you said and she can feel the warmth and sound of my heartbeat which puts her body and mind at ease after a long day of work. There's something about the half spoon that feels so fulfilling and comforting that neither of us can never get enough of it! I've tried spooning many times but I either have the problem of my arm falling asleep due to weird positioning or I just get aroused with temptation which can ruin the moment! Honestly though, if I have any opportunity to cuddle, I'll take it in a heartbeat! This is one of the many reasons why relationships are healthy for people; to feel that sense of closeness, intimacy and comfort without feeling lonely or abandoned :)

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I usually prefer spooning because I can each over and grab a "handle" (boob) that I hold as I go to sleep and my girlfriend likes it, too. But sometimes, I prefer the half-spoon because I can kiss her, rub her back, and comfort her if she is having any worries or concerns.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I prefer spooning, I like feeling him wrapped around me, I like feeling the height difference that we have, I like his arm around me and how the muscles in his arm flex in his sleep and his arms tighten around me, it makes me feel safe and warm and secure. I also like being the big spoon some times and getting to hear him laugh when I do it and then eventually give in and doze off :P

However, half-spoon would be his favourite. He likes having my head on his chest or on his shoulder and having his arm around me, falling asleep on his back is also his default position really, whereas mine is on my side so it does work out quite well. Plus, he says it's better than getting a faceful of my hair :P

CherryRoseChampange · Accepted Answer

Half-Spoon, even if their breath doesn't smell the breathing and warmth with make me feel weird and I'll be thinking the worst. I rather cuddle but have distance so I feel less smothered.

shimmeryns · Answer

Half spoon! I like to listen to his heartbeat.

SueShe · Answer

If I had to chose, I would go for the one that gives out the least body heat as possible.

I have never cuddled that way, so I am not really sure which one would suit me better.

Vote A is too daring as I might have to expect an involuntary reaction while Vote B is not much better either.

I will refrain from voting but solely from a point of view of least heat exchange, I would go for Vote B but with limitations and a number of prohibitions.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I keep my hair out of my partners face with the half spoon, and he normally falls asleep before I do and I've found its easier to get out of his hold with this one, but love listening to my SO's heartbeat and he runs his fingers through my hair, telling me he would like to see it longer, I have a sort of pixie cut, and kisses my forehead or the top of my head depending on what position it's in.

Anonymous · Answer

Out of those two options I'd choose the second one every time. I'm not a big fan of her hair being all up in my face in the first one. The position I like the most, however, is something i guess called "the honeymoon hug" where we're both lying on our sides facing each other legs intertwined and arms wrapped around each other in a tight embrace.

HotJealousy · Answer

Half-spoon, way more comfortable for me, no hair in my face and no awkward boner for half the night 😂 Also I like having my arm around the girl, make it feel more snuggly and more like I'm protecting them :)

Dongtai · Answer

I like sleeping on my girl’s boobs. So whatever position that is 😂 Spooning is my second favorite but I have yet mastered how to sleep comfortably in that position. It kills my arm.

UnicornLobotomy · Answer

A: It might be hard, if I'm not tired. (that's sexual position) B: If were just cuddling and/or tired, it's more intimate in a personal way, face and eye contact, I especially like head on my arm or chest.

Mini-Mina · Answer

I didn’t know that it was called “half-spoon” 😂 but it’s cute  I’ve never cuddled, but I would pick the half-spoon. I normally sleep that way anyway, and regular spoon might be too hot.

muliebrity · Answer

neither. first one.. hate the breathing on my neck. can't stand that ticklish feeling second one. my neck hurts.. for short term (5 minsl though.. ill choose this one

CubsterShura · Answer

I'm so small am pretty sure whoever I'd marry would wanna spoon but I like the idea of a half spoon better 😂😂

Hurlyburly · Answer

I cannot stand cuddling when I'm about to sleep (I need my space), but for watching movies and stuff the half spoon is my favorite 😍

krisnic28 · Answer

Spooning. But i enjoy being the big spoon. He enjoys being the small spoon. Kinda funny, cause i'm 5'2. He is 6'1.

SkipStop · Answer

Neither. I need my own space to fall asleep. I'm a light sleeper. Any touch or discomfort will wake me up.

chezburgr · Answer

I pick half spoon but I'm gonna mix it up a bit. I'm the biggest cuddler you'll ever meet, so I'm the one cuddling my girlfriend vice her cuddling me

SirRexington · Answer

Traditional spooning. It allows me to hold her close to me and feel her heat. I guess the other position does too but I just like how traditional spooning feels.

VikingBlood86 · Answer

For strictly cuddling I prefer the half spoon because I can sustain it for longer. But I can't sleep doing either.

0112358 · Answer

I think the half spoon. It’s more affectionate and more like we are hugging each other not just me hugging her.

genericname85 · Answer

depends. if the cuddling is the main activity, i like the half spoon or just full frontal cuddling. for trying to sleep, i like spooning more, cause that's less involved and better for relaxation.

NightFlirt · Answer

I prefer a full spoon, but as long as there is a nice warm body for me to snuggle up to I am not going to complain, especially if my SO is holding me.

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