Which cuddling position do you like best?

[Hamsteroids]

I’d say these are probably the two most popular cuddling positions: Spooning and Half-Spoon.

Personally, I choose the half-spoon position because I like feeling warm and protected. However, my boyfriend likes spooning more.

Spooning or Half-Spoon? Which do you enjoy most and why? 😁

Spooning

Half-Spoon (aka sweethearts cradle)

[Aysen]

Both of these are so hard to choose but I'd choose the half spoon position!

I usually fall asleep nearly in a few minutes with the half-spoon position because my girlfriend loves it when I wrap my arm around her, as a sense of protection like you said and she can feel the warmth and sound of my heartbeat which puts her body and mind at ease after a long day of work. There's something about the half spoon that feels so fulfilling and comforting that neither of us can never get enough of it! I've tried spooning many times but I either have the problem of my arm falling asleep due to weird positioning or I just get aroused with temptation which can ruin the moment! Honestly though, if I have any opportunity to cuddle, I'll take it in a heartbeat! This is one of the many reasons why relationships are healthy for people; to feel that sense of closeness, intimacy and comfort without feeling lonely or abandoned :)

[Hamsteroids]

Same here! It’s wayyy too comforting. As if you’re floating on a cloud 😍 my boyfriend is just like you in the fact that he’ll take any opportunity to cuddle if he can lol I ain’t complaining one bit though

Cuddling does so much good for a relationship and it’s not exclusive to one particular situation. You can use it to express anything whether it’s love, sadness, appreciation, etc

[Aysen]

That's what my girlfriend tells me too! I wish I could do the same but her chest is too big for me to cuddle comfortably on her tummy so we just go with what we're comfortable with! Who would complain to something that's more comfortable than a pillow? Ahh the feeling of resting with your partner with cuddling is so divine <3 I can see why you love it as well!

That's very true. It's that sense of comfort, affection and warmth; all put together in one package! To those couples who don't cuddle, I can't understand why they would miss out on something like this :/ Still, I'm happy you and your boyfriend enjoy it when it comes around!

[Hamsteroids]

Really? Haha we’re like “couple twins” here lol

Someone on here said they didn’t like cuddling bc it wasn’t their thing, and I was like whaaaat? That’s a sad life 😩

[Aysen]

It definitely seems like it and this isn't the first time with similarities either!

To not cuddle, is a sad life for missing out on bonding and relaxation time. That's crazy to hear someone not liking that because that's a first for me to hear that on here!

[Hamsteroids]

Haha yeah, it’s pretty interesting. At least we can definitely relate when we talk about our relationships, so that’s cool 😎

Honestly its kinda weird bc it’s human nature to seek companionship. That’s why cuddling is so enjoyable. It puts us at ease and brings us closer to what we seek

[OlderAndWiser]

I usually prefer spooning because I can each over and grab a "handle" (boob) that I hold as I go to sleep and my girlfriend likes it, too. But sometimes, I prefer the half-spoon because I can kiss her, rub her back, and comfort her if she is having any worries or concerns.

[Hamsteroids]

Haha yeah my boyfriend does that “handle” thing too sometimes. He says it’s comforting lol I don't know

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't know why, but it feels good. It rarely turns into a fondling/foreplay thing; we just drift off to sleep like that.

[Hamsteroids]

Well that’s good to know then 🤔😊

[fauchelevent]

I prefer spooning, I like feeling him wrapped around me, I like feeling the height difference that we have, I like his arm around me and how the muscles in his arm flex in his sleep and his arms tighten around me, it makes me feel safe and warm and secure. I also like being the big spoon some times and getting to hear him laugh when I do it and then eventually give in and doze off :P

However, half-spoon would be his favourite. He likes having my head on his chest or on his shoulder and having his arm around me, falling asleep on his back is also his default position really, whereas mine is on my side so it does work out quite well. Plus, he says it's better than getting a faceful of my hair :P

[CherryRoseChampange]

Half-Spoon, even if their breath doesn't smell the breathing and warmth with make me feel weird and I'll be thinking the worst. I rather cuddle but have distance so I feel less smothered.

[shimmeryns]

Half spoon! I like to listen to his heartbeat.

[Hamsteroids]

Omg that’s the best! 😩

[SueShe]

If I had to chose, I would go for the one that gives out the least body heat as possible.

I have never cuddled that way, so I am not really sure which one would suit me better.

Vote A is too daring as I might have to expect an involuntary reaction while Vote B is not much better either.

I will refrain from voting but solely from a point of view of least heat exchange, I would go for Vote B but with limitations and a number of prohibitions.

[Hamsteroids]

Lol it’s not a trick question. It’s simply which you like more :)

[SueShe]

Right, since none apply to me, I withdraw my reply :-)

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I keep my hair out of my partners face with the half spoon, and he normally falls asleep before I do and I've found its easier to get out of his hold with this one, but love listening to my SO's heartbeat and he runs his fingers through my hair, telling me he would like to see it longer, I have a sort of pixie cut, and kisses my forehead or the top of my head depending on what position it's in.

[Hamsteroids]

Yesss forehead kisses are the best! 😩

[Anonymous]

Out of those two options I'd choose the second one every time. I'm not a big fan of her hair being all up in my face in the first one. The position I like the most, however, is something i guess called "the honeymoon hug" where we're both lying on our sides facing each other legs intertwined and arms wrapped around each other in a tight embrace.

[Hamsteroids]

Oh yes! I know which one you’re talking about. Really though? Maybe it’s good for cuddling but not for sleeping (in my opinion lol) it’s a pretty intimate position though, which I’m all for 😊

[Opinion Owner]

For sleeping. I prefer sleeping on my side or my stomach. I'm not a big fan of sleeping straight on my back. So, if I went to sleep in the sweethearts cradle I'd probably wake up in the honeymoon hug lol. I'd rather sleep on my back, though, than sleep on my side with hair in my face.

[Hamsteroids]

Omg sleeping on my back is impossible lol but I totally get that. I would probably hate hair in my face too 😆

[HotJealousy]

Half-spoon, way more comfortable for me, no hair in my face and no awkward boner for half the night 😂 Also I like having my arm around the girl, make it feel more snuggly and more like I'm protecting them :)

[Hamsteroids]

You know, tbh I thought guys liked spooning because of that! 😆

I like feeling secured and snuggly like you mentioned, so I definitely agree with that 👏🏼

[HotJealousy]

It's good if I'm wanting to step it up a gear, because I can "accidentally" rub on the girl, but if I'm just wanting to relax/go to sleep, then half-spoon is the way to go :) yeah half-spoon feels way more secure in my opinion

[Hamsteroids]

Ohhh I see haha “accidentally”. That makes more sense lol

[HotJealousy]

Yeah if you're spooning your man and you can feel... the raising of the dead... against you he's definitely trying to tell you something 😂 it's a tactic all guys use haha

[Hamsteroids]

I know that a lot of the times they hope it leads to more, but it can happen accidentally for real, right? Lol like just brushing up against it makes it do that 😆

[HotJealousy]

Yeah of course the raising can be accidental, but if you notice it being pressed against you, then chances are its not, especially if its pressed, then pulled back, then pressed, thats what men call "a subtle hint" 😂

[Hamsteroids]

Haha yeah I know that cue from personal experience! 😂

[HotJealousy]

Don't we all? 😂

[UnicornLobotomy]

A: It might be hard, if I'm not tired. (that's sexual position) B: If were just cuddling and/or tired, it's more intimate in a personal way, face and eye contact, I especially like head on my arm or chest.

[Hamsteroids]

Haha yeah I know what you mean 😅

And I agree! You feel closer in personal way 👏🏼 hearing a guys heartbeat is just wow!

[Dongtai]

I like sleeping on my girl’s boobs. So whatever position that is 😂 Spooning is my second favorite but I have yet mastered how to sleep comfortably in that position. It kills my arm.

[Hamsteroids]

Spooning seriously does take some mastering haha

[Mini-Mina]

I didn’t know that it was called “half-spoon” 😂 but it’s cute

I’ve never cuddled, but I would pick the half-spoon. I normally sleep that way anyway, and regular spoon might be too hot.

[Hamsteroids]

Yeah it has different names for it lol I didn’t know it was called that either

And I totally agree! I sleep in that position too. I just hold a pillow in place of my boyfriend lol so it’s perfect 👌🏼

[Totti94]

I get know A was hugs from behind

[muliebrity]

neither. first one.. hate the breathing on my neck. can't stand that ticklish feeling

second one. my neck hurts.. for short term (5 minsl though.. ill choose this one

[Hamsteroids]

Really? Only 5 minutes? I could literally fall asleep with the half spoon and stay that way the whole night lol I sleep that way with a big body pillow so I’m totally used to the feeling. Its so comfy

[CubsterShura]

I'm so small am pretty sure whoever I'd marry would wanna spoon but I like the idea of a half spoon better 😂😂

[Hamsteroids]

Haha agree 100%

[Hurlyburly]

I cannot stand cuddling when I'm about to sleep (I need my space), but for watching movies and stuff the half spoon is my favorite 😍

[Hamsteroids]

Haha I can understand that! Boundaries 😅 but yesss omg couch cuddles and a movie is pure bliss 😩

[krisnic28]

Spooning. But i enjoy being the big spoon. He enjoys being the small spoon. Kinda funny, cause i'm 5'2. He is 6'1.

[Hamsteroids]

I relate lol I’m 5’3” and my boyfriend is 6’3” 😆 the size difference really makes it work in any way though which is awesome

[SkipStop]

Neither. I need my own space to fall asleep. I'm a light sleeper. Any touch or discomfort will wake me up.

[Hamsteroids]

Well for cuddling, not sleeping

[SkipStop]

I've never hugged a girl anyway so I can't answer that.

[chezburgr]

I pick half spoon but I'm gonna mix it up a bit. I'm the biggest cuddler you'll ever meet, so I'm the one cuddling my girlfriend vice her cuddling me

[Hamsteroids]

Guys who cuddle and enjoy it get gold stars! ⭐️

[SirRexington]

Traditional spooning. It allows me to hold her close to me and feel her heat. I guess the other position does too but I just like how traditional spooning feels.

[Hamsteroids]

Fitting perfectly together is a pretty cool feeling ☺️

[SirRexington]

I miss it.

[Hamsteroids]

It’ll happen again, no worries :)

[SirRexington]

I know. I wish it would happen sooner than later.

[cavmanier]

[Hamsteroids]

Aww that ones nice too! Like after a long day, that’s great 👏🏼

[cavmanier]

Yeah it's an equal cuddle. Spooning a girl gets annoying and unattractive if it feels like I'm always the one seeking her like how females seem to expect in society. I'd rather be single than in that.

[VikingBlood86]

For strictly cuddling I prefer the half spoon because I can sustain it for longer. But I can't sleep doing either.

[Hamsteroids]

For me, I could definitely fall asleep that way haha

So do you cuddle at all to sleep or is it just too uncomfortable for you?

[VikingBlood86]

I sleep on my stomach facing the outside of the bed. That being said, I can doze a bit in cuddle position but not actually sleep.

That and I put out heat like a space heater so cuddle sleeping = sweaty

[Hamsteroids]

Ohhh yeah getting hot and sweaty can definitely ruin cuddling. Summer time is the worst lol

[VikingBlood86]

Even in the winter I only sleep with a sheet and a thin blanket

[Hamsteroids]

Oh you’re hardcore! I’ll need to be rolled in at least three layers of blankets like a little sushi lol

[VikingBlood86]

Nope, can't do it. I'll melt into a puddle

[Hamsteroids]

Well I live in Florida, so that might be it 😆

[VikingBlood86]

I grew up in Louisiana where we laugh at Florida heat lol. Then lived in Montana and north Dakota for a few years. I realized im a cold weather person haha.

[Hamsteroids]

Hey, you leave Florida alone! Lol i mean dont get me wrong, I definitely enjoy cold weather vs hot, but Florida has made me weak to it 😆

[VikingBlood86]

It was a trade off. You lost the cold for the heat

[0112358]

I think the half spoon. It’s more affectionate and more like we are hugging each other not just me hugging her.

[Hamsteroids]

Ohh I like that! Very good way of putting it. Half spoon is also my pick 😊

[genericname85]

depends. if the cuddling is the main activity, i like the half spoon or just full frontal cuddling. for trying to sleep, i like spooning more, cause that's less involved and better for relaxation.

[Hamsteroids]

A lot of people say spooning is uncomfortable to sleep to lol body heat and all that haha

[genericname85]

Luckily where I live it's cold enough xD you can just sleep with open window if it gets too hot.

[Hamsteroids]

Ahh that’s awesome. I live in Florida so that’s probably it too lol

[genericname85]

yeah to me everything starting 25 degrees is too hot xD

[Hamsteroids]

Omg haha I mean during winter time it’s great, but summer? Ugh forget it 😩

[NightFlirt]

I prefer a full spoon, but as long as there is a nice warm body for me to snuggle up to I am not going to complain, especially if my SO is holding me.

[Asirea]

Never going to Half-spoon again, at least not for an entire night. Not only I can't sleep on my back, but I woke up with my shoulders sore as heck.

[jojouzumaki]

Half spoon since I don't want my partner having my hair all over his face. Plus it's kinda feel like I'm protected by it.

[Hamsteroids]

I have a lot of hair so I agree completely lol and nothing feels better than feeling protected 😩

[Levin]

Spooning.

I guess I remember what that feels like *scratches beard*

[Hamsteroids]

Its a feeling you never forget :)

[Annie12234]

The best cuddling position that I do like half spoon because it’s warm and enjoy cuddling too.

[Hamsteroids]

Yes! Both the physical and emotional warmth you get from it is great 😩

[Annie12234]

Agree! 💯😩

[Hans222]

I voted A. But any cuddles are soooo nice. Feel the warmth of someone you like is always a joy :D

[Felinegirl]

Spooning is more comfy, but half spoon is more intimate :)

[Anonymous]

I like to spoon, both of us naked. My cock fairly tight against her ass, and my arm over her body, with my hand resting on her boob, feeling her nipple. That's also a nice way to fall asleep.

[ChocolateBrowny]

This is a way to spread nits. Not only that if she has a contagious disease you are now going to get it because you're too close.

[whitehide]

Half-spoon. I don't get too warm, and I can fall asleep in that position.

[Hamsteroids]

I completely agree! I could sleep the whole night away with half spoon lol

[Wizzbang]

Half spoon is more comfortable but traditional spooning is more comforting. Plus I like feeling her butt against me 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Hamsteroids]

Haha yeah that’s a pretty great feeling too 😅

[Wizzbang]

Plus, easy access!

[Hamsteroids]

Fuckin true lol 😆 I mean it’s a risky position sometimes but it’s a good one nonetheless haha

[Wizzbang]

Lol. Why would it be risky?

[Hamsteroids]

Cuz sometimes you might wanna spoon just because. Like, you’ll have no sexual intentions in mind, but it’ll end up that way anyway 😆

[Wizzbang]

Oh right, well sometimes I like just putting it inside and keeping it there while we cuddle 😂 is that weird?

[Hamsteroids]

Like between the cheeks? Lol

[Wizzbang]

Well that's nice too but actually inside her 😂

[Hamsteroids]

Hmm haven’t tried that yet 😂

[Wizzbang]

Lol I like it

[Hamsteroids]

It’s sounds interesting lol but do you have the self control to leave it at that? That’s the question. Seems pretty difficult lol

[Wizzbang]

Haha depends on my mood I guess, if I'm comfortable it can go soft inside her but if I'm horny I tend to do small strokes back and forth, let that shit marinade 😂

[Hamsteroids]

Marinade! 😂 well that’s interesting for sure. Gotta tell my boyfriend and see what he thinks about that lol good lord

[Wizzbang]

If it gets too intense I could easily just cum inside her and then just lay there with it inside 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Hamsteroids]

Thats definitely another possibility lol

[Wizzbang]

Lol I'm sure you're curious to try it now 😂

[Hamsteroids]

I don't know lol it’s like a double edged sword. I’m curious yeah, but I know once we try it, that’s it lol like no turning back. My boyfriend will be 110% for it

[Wizzbang]

I'm sure he'll be able to control himself, he ain't no boy I'm guessing

[Hamsteroids]

It’s possible lol probably the first few times he’ll be crazy for it, but once we set into familiarity with it, it’ll be good. I mean, I’m open to trying anything at least once, so we’ll just have to see! 😅

[Wizzbang]

👌🏻

[gangster123]

Don't know y.. it looks great to cuddle partner that way... And prefer to sleep naked in half spoon style...

[gangster123]

I actually meant full spooning..

[VikingWarLord]

I dunno yet Boricua !

Come join me in my bed to find that sh! t out Latina!

[Hamsteroids]

I’ll take a rain check lol

[Massageman]

Probably both at some time- I'd have to check with my hooker.

[Hamsteroids]

Oh my lol

[Therisinghero12]

Half spooning cause in normal spooning I don't know where to put my arm and it's really uncomfortable to put it under their torso, but half spooning I can just put it under her neck or something

[Dolemite510]

Spooning to fall asleep, that moment when we wake up and I have morning wood pressed in her ass crack 🤤🤤

[Hamsteroids]

Lol gotta start the morning right

[Dolemite510]

Yep Any girl that doesn’t like that can’t be trusted 😂

[Anonymous]

Half spoon is just... mmm. Face to face warmth that just feels great on both ends.

[Hamsteroids]

It definitely does 👏🏼

[Totti94]

I like half spoon always... And I heard hug from behind woman like very much... So that's also my favourite...

[Wrestling01]

2nd one... cuz you can kiss/ make out at the same time as well

[Hamsteroids]

Exactlyyy 😍

[HaveNoName]

Since I never get a B, I vote B.

by the way, is it ok for the girl to spoon the guy (as in A)?

[Hamsteroids]

It is absolutely okay! I think it’s great when it’s reversed. Sometimes, my boyfriend wants to be the little spoon and I enjoy it just as much. Even though it looks a little funny since he’s a whole foot taller than I am, it’s actually the sweetest feeling knowing that he feels safe and warm in my arms. So in short, yeah! It’s completely okay

[HaveNoName]

So cool !!

[HaveNoName]

As if I am going to get any of those... HA !!!

[dbr1987]

Spooning because when i got hard she notices right away and i can make advantage of the situation

[Hamsteroids]

Haha I see 😆

[I_am_here_]

I would like any position if she was a girl id love sharing my life with.

[Hamsteroids]

I agree 100%. All cuddling is good 😍

[I_am_here_]

Yeah exactly:)

[loveslongnails]

I can't believe there are NAMES for these positions!! Ugh.

[NorthwestRider]

I like both

I feel protected and warm in my fiancée arms

[Lost_Artist]

Half-spoon but i'm the one being in the "woman" position 😊

[Hamsteroids]

Awww I like doing that too tbh 😍

[OddBeMe]

Though not while I’m sleeping. Need complete isolation.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Half spoon! I can kiss her forehead while I'm at it.

[Young_CEO]

I can't stay long while in the spooning position. I'd develop cramps... so half-spoon it is

[Hamsteroids]

Yeah I know it’s not always as cool for the guy lol like having a numb arm

[Young_CEO]

Yeah... definitely. my arm would be like... I'm shutting down 😵

[Hamsteroids]

Lol male struggles

[Young_CEO]

Yeah yeah. ☺

[Young_CEO]

Whoever invented "half-spoon" should be given a Nobel prize.👌

[Hamsteroids]

Haha agreed! It’s a gem 😍

[ShadowofRegret]

I would prefer the half-spoon, with me in her arm.

[Hamsteroids]

Oh you mean like you reverse roles?

[ShadowofRegret]

Pretty much, not saying I cannot protect as I actually train in various martial arts, but a woman who wants to protect me, that kind of thing really touches my heart for some reason...😌

[Hamsteroids]

Aww that’s so cute honestly! My boyfriend gets like that too sometimes where he wants to be the little spoon and tbh I enjoy that feeling just as much. It’s kinda interesting since he’s a whole foot taller than I am lol but knowing he feels safe and at ease makes me feel good. So I totally get that! 😩

[ShadowofRegret]

Heh, thank you, to be honest, it's nice to hear you say that.😌

Your boyfriend is very blessed to have someone who cares so much about him, I pray the Lord will richly bless you both.😊

[Hamsteroids]

Aww thank you! That’s so kind :) I wish you the same 👏🏼

[ShadowofRegret]

Thank you!😊

[jmorris86]

Eventually makes my arm fall asleep but I dont care. It feels amazing!

[MrOracle]

Spooning in the winter, half-spoon in the summer.

[Hamsteroids]

That’s perfect! 👏🏼

[MrOracle]

Yeah. It's way too damn hot for full spooning in the summer in California.

[MrOracle]

Sometimes it's hard to even hold hands!

[Hamsteroids]

Very true! I live in Florida so I know that feeling lol

[Anonymous]

I have never dated nor had a girlfriend so I don’t even know what a spoon is besides the one I eat with

[just_a_potato]

I haven't experienced that 😭

[Hamsteroids]

Well when you do, I’m sure you’ll enjoy it 😊

[just_a_potato]

Thanks ❤

[SilentWatchman]

Half spoon. Same as you.

[Hamsteroids]

Good choice 😄

[SilentWatchman]

Thanks :-)

[SueAnon84]

Either one! I felt very loved in both!

[BrittBratt2416]

I like them both but i mostly do A.

[Browser101]

That’s a hard choice but half wins

[Hamsteroids]

Good choice! 😋

[The6ix]

Second option, seems more affectionate.

[Hamsteroids]

Agreed. The second option gives him lip access to my forehead lol the best

[Gedaria]

Spooning is great even better with no clothes...

[Hamsteroids]

It is, so long as it doesn’t get too hot lol

[Gedaria]

That's when the fun starts. Its so easy that position to get really hot , even steaming...

[Hamsteroids]

Haha true!

[Gedaria]

By your reaction you have been there. Glad you have had the same fun...

[Hamsteroids]

Yes I’ve had my handful of instances lol

[Gedaria]

I take it you would be the receiver. My wife use to love this. I sleep naked and she would snuggle up close so I'm between her legs. You could always tell when she wanted to play she use to do this...

[veebee14]

Anything that’s feels good crouching ha lol

[Hamsteroids]

Haha 😆

[neptune88]

Can i do both and get on with my life!