a week later we had a movie date. it was fun and we went to his place and made out. it was late so I ended up staying over. no sex AND no cuddling which I found to be weird.
next morning we went for coffee and it was kinda weird. he was making an effort to talk and mentioned that he worries that he never quite does enough in work and relationships. I was tired so I wasn't very talkative. we walked back to my car and the goodbye kiss was weird. I leaned to kiss HIM basically.
two days later, he sent a text saying he had so much fun with me but maybe we would get on better if we were just friends"
he called later that night and said that he just had this feeling inside him that we would be better as friends. I accepted and he mentioned that his ex was very cold towards him. he said that I had forgot my lipstick so I should come round and get it anytime if I'm in the area and I joked that it was his loss because he was the one missing out on the best sex of his life. he then said call me anytime to meet up for coffee.
now I am confused. I sent him a flirty email and he didn't respond so I quickly recovered my dignity by sending another email apologizing for my previous email and the fact that I may have put him in an uncomfortable position and in my defense, I was having another tattoo done so I was in a state of euphoria. he emailed back with "LOL! no need for a defense, I don't know about women but for a guy, it's always nice to know that a girl is thinking of you in that way."
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
also I want to ask him out for dinner, how do I ask? I'm going with the no contact rule for a week just in case I was causing him to get a bit claustrophobic. please advice.
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