So they don’t want to have sex because they know I have feelings but hanging out as friends is fine? I always thought the “staying friends” was guy language for I want to still have sex with you but without commitment. So this threw me off cause it sounds like he doesn’t want sex anymore. Before I decide to turn my feelings off (cause let’s be honest, it hasn’t been long or that involved and I feel enough respect for them that I think I could and may want to be friends), can a guy please help me understand this? Is this valid? Or a waste of my energy?
He wants to be friends?
So they don’t want to have sex because they know I have feelings but hanging out as friends is fine? I always thought the “staying friends” was guy language for I want to still have sex with you but without commitment. So this threw me off cause it sounds like he doesn’t want sex anymore. Before I decide to turn my feelings off (cause let’s be honest, it hasn’t been long or that involved and I feel enough respect for them that I think I could and may want to be friends), can a guy please help me understand this? Is this valid? Or a waste of my energy?